Black men, how did we allow this matriarchy in the black community?

[PartyHeart]

Welcome to the club, it makes your coli experience so much better

lol I engaged it once before hoping to speak knowledge into it. After reading more of his posts...never again. Nothing can be done with that type of ignorance.

 

[Sierra Mist]

lol I engaged it once before hoping to speak knowledge into it. After reading more of his posts...never again. Nothing can be done with that type of ignorance.

This is why no one takes black women seriously. You're incapable of hearing the truth. That's why your marriage rates are so low. Keep cosigning yourselves on Oprah but in 10 years you will be crying because you are 40 years old and still single...

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Next week I will say exactly what you just said and you will say I'm wrong by saying what I just said.

Set your clocks.

Ad hominems and made up ideas for when you are wrong. What I said was fact, so you'd never hear me dispute it.

You're doing the same thing that white feminist did using black men to make black women side with Agenda that is really not about them. White men make more then black women but you keep bringing up black men.

Nope. What some black men fail to realize is that once black women (the double minority) is seen as an equal, all the other single minorities (black men, white women, etc.) have to achieve that same status of equality as well.

Of course white men make more than black women, but a white man is never going to stick up for black woman's rights, he doesn't even stick up for his own woman's rights. Only a black man will, but then again, some of you won't so

By not wanting to see the black woman as your equal, you're holding yourself back as well.

 

[Sierra Mist]

Ad hominems and made up ideas for when you are wrong. What I said was fact, so you'd never hear me dispute it.



Nope. What some black men fail to realize is that once black women (the double minority) is seen as an equal, all the other single minorities (black men, white women, etc.) have to achieve that same status of equality as well.

Of course white men make more than black women, but a white man is never going to stick up for black woman's rights, he doesn't even stick up for his own woman's rights. Only a black man will, but then again, some of you won't so

By not wanting to see the black woman as your equal, you're holding yourself back as well.

You flipflop your arguments on a weekly basis on here.

 

[AAKing23]

Thanks for reminding me I hadn't yet put you on my ignore list yet. Problem corrected

Let me define matriarchy for you


Matriarchy: A social system in which the mother is head of the family.


With that being said can you answer this question for me?






How is the black community not a matriarchy when the women are the only ones there to make decisions?

 

[DaChampIsHere]

You flipflop your arguments on a weekly basis on here.

Do you have anything pertaining to the subject to talk about, or just imaginations of these changes you see personal opinions? If the latter, go write it in a journal.

How is the black community not a matriarchy when the women are the only ones there to make decisions?

I know you have me on "ignore", but I'll address your illogical fallacies for everyone else to see in learn from. Hopefully a soul is helped:

A thread from now you will say that woman need to make better decisions with their body, and absolve men of their bodily responsibility. A thread from now you will say, women need to make better decisions in men. A thread from now, you will make a post saying that if black women upped their standards men would do better. Many threads from now, you will grant women every power in decision making that they want and take all of it from men (like the son of a single mother). Dudes like you don't want men to have ANY power and you constantly grant such to females.

Now, if the black community is ANY kind of matriarchy, it'd be because of weak men like yourself granting any and all the roles of responsibility and power to women, absolving the men of such.

 

[Will Ross]

Ad hominems and made up ideas for when you are wrong. What I said was fact, so you'd never hear me dispute it.



Nope. What some black men fail to realize is that once black women (the double minority) is seen as an equal, all the other single minorities (black men, white women, etc.) have to achieve that same status of equality as well.

Of course white men make more than black women, but a white man is never going to stick up for black woman's rights, he doesn't even stick up for his own woman's rights. Only a black man will, but then again, some of you won't so

By not wanting to see the black woman as your equal, you're holding yourself back as well.

women getting paid more equals less jobs for black men. This is already seen in the non corporate world. This is why so many black women scream they can't find a man in their level.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

women getting paid more equals less jobs for black men.

 

[Will Ross]

How has white woman rights ever benefited black men?

 

[yeahisaidit]

@DaChampIsHere is still schooling y'all in here...

I see you

 

[Will Ross]

@DaChampIsHere is still schooling y'all in here...

I see you

Black women are so easily fooled by devils .

 

[DaChampIsHere]

@DaChampIsHere is still schooling y'all in here...

I see you

I feel like I'm raising sons out here.

 

[BillBanneker]

Stats show that more black women have more degrees/are more educated than black men.

Like, common logical connection should tell you that if someone is less likely to get promoted, they are probably less like to get paid more as well.

But fine. Prove me wrong then. Show me a study that states that black men and women with the same education and experience make the same amount of money or less than a 6% disparity. I'll wait.

Degrees in what? Common logical connection also states that degree choice/industry choice, ties into income earned as well.

 

[Habit]

This is why no one takes black women seriously. You're incapable of hearing the truth. That's why your marriage rates are so low.

This is ironic.

I guess there is enough blame to go around as long as it doesn't land on them.

Black men and black women need to get their priorities straight, especially black men since they are the ones walking away from their families with no regard.

At this point single parent household > black men. Cause I care more about our black women and children, then some loser who can't get it together. When I see one of these losers all I feel is ice in my veins, I got no love for them.

 

[Sierra Mist]

Black men need to get better educated, network, practice entrepreneurship and build their own companies and infrastructure. Although the black community is a pseudo-matriarchy, ultimately it is only in that state because the men allow it to be that way. It's almost a catch 22 though. You need strong men to build, but most men are not taught to be strong because they didn't have a father growing up and if they did, he was playing second fiddle to his wife.

I don't think men should be lead by women nor should men ask women for permission to be a leader. No woman can crown a man king. Men just need to step their game up and the women will follow. I don't believe black women truly want to be leaders. I feel that in most cases they are because they have no choice but to, especially historically.

A lot of generational/cultural shyt is fukking it up though. All I'm saying is when men step their game up and then the women will follow their lead.

It's only a pseudo-matriarchy by de facto.