Black men, how did we allow this matriarchy in the black community?

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This is ironic.

I guess there is enough blame to go around as long as it doesn't land on them.

Black men and black women need to get their priorities straight, especially black men since they are the ones walking away from their families with no regard.

At this point single parent household > black men. Cause I care more about women and children, then some clown who can't get it together.

I'm not even spreading blame around. My point was that black women think they are infallible and perfect angels. I'm pretty sure the men who are fukked up know they are fukked up. I don't condone deadbeats whatsoever. I say the same thing as you though. It's better for a drug dealer to not be in his child's life than to be in his child's life because then he will be a negative influence. My only question is why are those men the ones that women love to sleep with?
 

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Degrees in what? Common logical connection also states that degree choice/industry choice, ties into income earned as well.

Y'all keep picking straws. If I have an engineering degree and the black woman sitting next to me has the same degree, the same qualifications, etc. I'm getting paid more than her regardless of how many other engineering degrees are out there.
 

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Black men (when white men actually DO higher them) still make more money on the dollar than black women. The wage gap is still men on top, however the black woman is more likely to get a call back than a black man. A black woman is also less likely to loser her job than her male counterparts. We could also go into government programs that help women exclusively but it's been done a million times.
 

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My only question is why are those men the ones that women love to sleep with?

Women of all races makes bad decisions in men, it just seems black women are fukked because the stakes are much higher.

Because the stats shows the black men will mostly not stick around.
 

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Black men need to get better educated, network, practice entrepreneurship and build their own companies and infrastructure. Although the black community is a pseudo-matriarchy, ultimately it is only in that state because the men allow it to be that way. It's almost a catch 22 though. You need strong men to build, but most men are not taught to be strong because they didn't have a father growing up and if they did, he was playing second fiddle to his wife.

I don't think men should be lead by women nor should men ask women for permission to be a leader. No woman can crown a man king. Men just need to step their game up and the women will follow. I don't believe black women truly want to be leaders. I feel that in most cases they are because they have no choice but to, especially historically.

A lot of generational/cultural shyt is fukking it up though. All I'm saying is when men step their game up and then the women will follow their lead.

It's only a pseudo-matriarchy by de facto.

You might want to read up on a bit of bantu history. culturally, african women do, in fact, take leading roles more often than most places in the world. This is why they are capable of enduring the things that they have, and why historically they've been quite successful categorically. black women make more than white women, and with much less assistance.
 

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You might want to read up on a bit of bantu history. culturally, african women do, in fact, take leading roles more often than most places in the world. This is why they are capable of enduring the things that they have, and why historically they've been quite successful categorically. black women make more than white women, and with much less assistance.

black women make more money then white women in the UK, and the US :lawd:

The GOATS really
 

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Y'all keep picking straws. If I have an engineering degree and the black woman sitting next to me has the same degree, the same qualifications, etc. I'm getting paid more than her regardless of how many other engineering degrees are out there.

http://www.nacme.org/user/docs/RBriefV1no4.pdf

•The average African American male engineer aged 25-
34 earned $63,000 annually.
•The average African American female engineer aged
25-34 earned $64,000 annually

:whew:
 
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The problem with anything you ever post: none of it ever relies on logic, just feel good rhetoric that fails to touch the basis of anything.

How does feminism ever begin to even take over, if there are males who are running their homes/families in the first place?

How does women admitting they like having sex equate to this magical "lesbian element" you have contrived? How is liking sex (a human activity necessary for life) ever a masculine thing when both parties have to engage in the activity? That's wild homo to think that only men should be able to enjoy/like sex.

I guess the Black Panther Party was funded by Phi Beta Sigma because the founders were in that organization, correct?

Why (in your mind) do women suddenly began kick out their salary making husbands/partners for checks worth a couple of hundred dollars every month? How do you think that this benefits them economically? How do single women benefit by giving up salary makers for a couple of hundred dollars?

You do know that black men benefit the most from affirmative action when it comes to post-secondary education right?

The CIA magically implanted this idea of being an "independent women" in people's head and all black women just fell for it? :wtf:

No one has emasculated men. If the power of men only existed because the power of women didn't exist, then men never had power, just leverage and a head start. If your power only exists because you're able to hold someone else down, you don't have power.

:sitdown: Kev.

I know you have me on ignore, but frankly, you are not intelligent, and anyone with an inkling of knowledge of history and common sense looks at your post like :what: because they are very stupid and loosely tie together unrelated concepts through generalizations, no facts anywhere to be found that relate to each other.

You can post stats about fatherless children and homes all day, but how do things get that way? How did people become fatherless? Everything you type fails to touch on this subject matter in a factual way.

^^^Young Man Post^^^

Not enough wisdom or insight yet to fully grasp what's going on.

You get a pass because of youth
 

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^^^Young Man Post^^^

Not enough wisdom or insight yet to fully grasp what's going on.

You get a pass because of youth

^^^^bytch nikka post.

You get a pass because I think you're a bytch. Can't prove me wrong and get a full grasp on what I'm saying. Not enough wisdom. Too much of a bytch to address facts.

See how easy that is? :shaq:

It actual fluctuates, starting higher, then drops, then goes higher (45-54) then drops again.

Fluctuates in 2 of the 12 subcategories once. Even with the fluctuation, black women still end up on the bottom even in the end. In one of the 3 larger categories, black men always make more.

9/12, black men will be making more.

Now the real question is, why are you so against equal wages? :ld:
 

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^^^^bytch nikka post.

You get a pass because I think you're a bytch. Can't prove me wrong and get a full grasp on what I'm saying. Not enough wisdom. Too much of a bytch to address facts.

See how easy that is? :shaq:



Fluctuates in 2 of the 12 subcategories once. Even with the fluctuation, black women still end up on the bottom even in the end. In one of the 3 larger categories, black men always make more.

9/12, black men will be making more.

Now the real question is, why are you so against equal wages? :ld:

Black women lead in two of the four groups (and actually equals white guys in earnings, in which have a much higher ceiling than black men).
 
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