When will these women take accountability for having out of wedlock babies
They got with some deadbeat nikkas so how is that our fault 
Black Men need to "Man-Up", mentor these lil nigglets out chea.
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When will these women take accountability for having out of wedlock babies
They got with some deadbeat nikkas so how is that our fault Sierra Mist
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Lampshade time....
So what should these black men do? They don't have kids. They aren't the ones who left their woman. The men who DID leave their families are the same men you black women love so much. Why should someone take responsibility for two other people's actions? Not just the black woman's black choice, but the other black man's choice. You're telling me that a black man who doesn't want to mentor another woman's child is lazy, yet you still spread your legs for any man who comes your way, ESPECIALLY the lazy ones? Wouldn't the women who blame all their problems on men they never even have sex with be the people deemed lazy? Shouldn't the black men that abandoned her be lazy? THOSE two are the ones who don't want to take accountability, yet somehow in your mind the man who had NOTHING to do with it is the lazy one?
What should good black men do? Wait in the bushes outside black women's house when she is walking in with Tremaine and jump out the bushes on some Matrix shyt like "NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO DON'T SLEEP WITH HIM!!!!!! HE'LL LEEEEEEEEEEAVEEEE YOU!!!!"?
On some Tom Clancy shyt you want black men to pop out the closet when Ray Ray puts his dikk in your funky p*ssy saying "NOOOOO!!!!!!! TELL HIM TO USEEEEE PROTECTION!!!!!"
You'd think black men had magical powers to teleport on some NightCrawler shyt or some shyt.
thoushallhustle
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When will these women take accountability for having out of wedlock babies
because yall bash the mother whole time not sayign shyt about the deadbeat dad. might even have the nerve to
his deadbeat ass. or maybe it is the womens fault for expecting a black man to take the lead 
Sierra Mist
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because yall bash the mother whole time not sayign shyt about the deadbeat dad. might even have the nerve to
I bash the deadbeat dads all the time.... that doesn't stop yall from valuing them and finding them sexy though, does it? That means I just "hate black people". Newsflash, I call all people out on their bullshyt. Race and gender be damned.
because yall bash the mother whole time not sayign shyt about the deadbeat dad. might even have the nerve to
I don't think me or any other nikka in this thread have ever condoned black men not raising their seed. Any dude that does that is a bytch in my eyes and not worthy of respect.And no black women are not wrong for expecting black men to lead but black women need to allow us to lead.
Everybody isn't blessed to have a father or father figure in their lives. Personally I was, and I know the difference it makes in a young man's life. If my volunteer work can impact one person's life than my time has been well spent. It's disgusting to see losers on this board nitpick the black community, but do absolutely nothing to help the situation.
thoushallhustle
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Lampshade time....
So what should these black men do? They don't have kids. They aren't the ones who left their woman. The men who DID leave their families are the same men you black women love so much. Why should someone take responsibility for two other people's actions? Not just the black woman's black choice, but the other black man's choice. You're telling me that a black man who doesn't want to mentor another woman's child is lazy, yet you still spread your legs for any man who comes your way, ESPECIALLY the lazy ones? Wouldn't the women who blame all their problems on men they never even have sex with be the people deemed lazy? Shouldn't the black men that abandoned her be lazy? THOSE two are the ones who don't want to take accountability, yet somehow in your mind the man who had NOTHING to do with it is the lazy one?
What should good black men do? Wait in the bushes outside black women's house and jump out the bushes on some Matrix shyt like "NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO DON'T SLEEP WITH HIM!!!!!! HE'LL LEEEEEEEEEEAVEEEE YOU!!!!"?
On some Tom Clancy shyt you want black men to pop out the closet when Ray Ray puts his dikk in your funky p*ssy saying "NOOOOO!!!!!!! TELL HIM TO USEEEEE PROTECTION!!!!!"
You'd think black men had magical powers to teleport on some NightCrawler shyt or some shyt.
why is every lame ass black dudes go to line that all black women like thugs? black women dont love thugs they just dont like weak beta males. no woman does. so many black men have this black and white idea of gender roles that says if you arent a gun toting thug you must be a p*ssy ass bytch or if youre not a virgin youre a ho. again take responsibility. these same lazy worthless negroes refusing to take a weekend out of the month to get out of bed early and not sit around smokign weed all day and mentor are the same ones who will get upset when a black dude turns his back on his people if he by chance happens to make it in life. i dont know where you saw me letting the parents of said out of wedlock child off the hook because i didnt. its both of their fault as well.
if the "good" black men want to do something they can start by calling their fellow brehs out on their shyt. Yall nikkas want to be coddled by every damn body just like your ratchet ass mommas used to do. (see how i can equally bash both parties in the situation?)
The Nigerian
The Realest Member of TheColi
I'm waiting for the weakest ones to get crowded out and fade away.
The process is painful and slow.
thoushallhustle
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And no black women are not wrong for expecting black men to lead but black women need to allow us to lead.
why would you give an incompetent man leadership?
Yeah, this thread is thoroughly disgusting. And I just told DaChampIsHere this place isn't as bad as SOHH when it comes to bashing black females.
But hey, don't generalize all black males though.
↓R↑LYB
I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
Which is why asking men to "man up" and be a mentor means nothing. The women who allow nikkas to squeeze off in em that quick are to blame for how their life ends up.
I didn't fukk her, so I ain't mentoring shyt
thoushallhustle
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Yeah, this thread is thoroughly disgusting. And I just told DaChampIsHere this place isn't as bad as SOHH when it comes to bashing black females.
But hey, don't generalize all black males though.
all black men except you and wesley pipes
I'm not against mentoring a young dude who is looking for guidance If I can
But I certainly won't be dropping everything to mentor a young dude who is being resistant to it and ain't trying to hear the shyt I'm sayin
What's the point
