Black Men need to "Man-Up", mentor these lil nigglets out chea.

[↓R↑LYB]

I'm done defending black men or women breh Because no matter what I do I get crucified if I talk about either gender.


This is the last thread about improving the black community that I ever participate in.


Call me the ultimate c00n from now on for all I care.

nikka if you're definition of fixing the black community is posting on threads on the-coli, you're an idiot.

Stop being a keyboard activist and get out into your community and do shyt. Or just be honest and say, I really don't give 2 fukks about the black community.

Cause I sure as hell don't

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

youre DEFINETLEY not on that list always soundin like a runaway slave

You sell your p*ssy for a livin. Go sit down somewhere hoe.

 

[AAKing23]

Still waiting on the article telling black women to stop having babies with nikkas who aren't father figure material.

I been with my gf for about 6 months, and I had to ask her pops permission before I could take her on a vacation. I also had to be vetted by the entire family, one of whom is a former Secret Service agent and the other who is a police officer.

Women just need to stop being pregnant by any old dude. A dude ain't gonna be Barack Obama, get you knocked up, then become Wacka Flocka. shyt don't work like that.

But who am I, I'm just another lost nikka.

What you went though is how it should be normally.


I don't get what women don't get about having Out of Wedlock children. When you allow a man to have sex with and impregnate you without putting a ring on it you're taking a risk no matter what. Because the man did not have to commit to you to do that, therefore he is more likely to walk out on you . And for God sakes if you gonna have pre-marital sex anyway you have to at least use birth control to be safe.


You'd be more safe by having children in a marriage because by then the man already committed to you and is less likely to walk out. I don't know many nikkas who'll marry a chick just to hit it and divorce her


Women need to understand that they don't have magical pussies that turn nikkas to father/husband material. The man is gonna be who he was from the jump.

 

[Sierra Mist]

youre DEFINETLEY not on that list always soundin like a runaway slave



no you didnt debunk anything i dont even know what youre talking about what did i justify? black women liking thugs? cuz i def didnt say that at all

and i see an awful lot of aint shyt nikkas with fat trashy white hoes as well. what are you trying to say? women dont flock to lazy broke men thats a damn lie. lazy broke men just prey on alot of vulnerable women who dont know any better. aint shyt nikkas have the best game ever.

If women didn't flock to broke, lazy nikkas then all of these complaints that women, much like yourself are making are lies. You just said yourself how lazy these black men who leave their families are. How are all these lazy black men having 70% kids out of wedlock if women don't like them?

If women had a moratorium on the p*ssy and said "only on point men allowed" trust me a lot of men would step their game up. If women said they only like men who wear purple hats and drive green cars, then the men would follow suit.

Now you will read what I say and think I'm absolving men of responsibilities. That's not what I'm saying at all. What I'm saying is, if a man only has to move an inch to attract you, don't get mad when he doesn't walk a mile, or sail the seas.

I call out men and women, so this idea that I only cal lout women is BS. You just have issues understanding my posts. Even in the Precious thread you read my post wrong, I sonned you, and you never replied.

I'm coming to you with a book of logic, and all you have are emotions. I don't have emotion. I don't have feelings. I'm speaking 100% objectively here.

Deadbeats are wastes of life, and so are the women who find them desirable. Simply put, fukk BOTH OF YOU!

 

[Auger]

I wish some of you guys had the privilege of joining a good church like mine (not a crooked or
hypocritical one), you'd realize how easy it is to mentor and set an example for the younger ones.

 

[RugbyMan]

god black men are so fukking lazy. do black men ever take responsibility for anything in their life? Jesus. If it aint the white mans fault its black womens. Too bad I also see white and latina women all the time with their little biracial baby in tow, looking angry as fukk no ring on no father in sight. I guess its their fault too huh?

weren't you shaking ya ass on some hoodrat shyt for all the Coli bruhs? (which I appreciate by the way ) I know that has nothing to do with the topic.... I'm just surprised you have such a strong opinion about this


But anyways, the onus of dating and sex are generally placed on women. Ya'll choose who to date and who to fukk. The fact that ya'll are so attracted to dusty-cornroll havin', weed-smellin', generic tattoo rockin' ass nikkas is naturally gonna set up future generations of black youth for failure. The black community has made it "cool" to embrace negative stereotypes. The "I don't give a fukk" attitude is killing us. The anti-academic attitudes are killing us. People being clowned for succeeding in anything outside of hip-hop and sports is killing us. I work with a lot of youth, and these kids are terrified of it being known that they're smart or that they think outside the box because they know they'll be clowned for it.

You don't wanna acknowledge this, but many men construct their swagger/personas in a way they think will get them women. Therefore, a woman's preference in men generally causes men to want to fit that mold. Now imagine if you broads started being attracted to articulate, goal-oriented, ambitious brothas that had some real substance and depth . Brothas would mold into that. I guarantee the community would do a 180 and we'd go back to being the proud black folks we were doing the 60s and 70s.

I generally have a negative dispostion towards Sierra Mist (****), but he/she has made some good points in this thread

 

[AAKing23]

nikka if you're definition of fixing the black community is posting on threads on the-coli, you're an idiot.

Stop being a keyboard activist and get out into your community and do shyt. Or just be honest and say, I really don't give 2 fukks about the black community.

Cause I sure as hell don't

Dude I was just tryna get suggestions on what we should do for the betterment of our community is that too much to ask?

 

[GoPro]

i would love to marry and procreate with a black man but the longer i live and the more shyt i see the less likely it becomes

Im sure any man would appreciate your past and current lady-like behavior

 

[Sierra Mist]

I make amazing points in EVERY thread... People are just sensitive. I hate people so I don't care if I hurt their feelings.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

I'm saying. It all comes down to responsibility Her pops was telling me stories of what he had to go through to be with his wife. He had to meet all her brothers, uncles, and pops, and be vetted. He said I'm gonna go through the same thing, so I need to get my mind right.

I remember on 4th of July I went over for a bbq, and i was sitting at the table eating ribs () and minding my business, I look up and about 15 nikkas is gathered round me at the table with the face on.

I had to answer every single question they had. Where I went to school, who I work for, have I ever had an STD, do I got kids, and do I realize that if I tried to do their fam dirty, I was gon get this work.

That's the way it's supposed to be IMO. Women need to make sure the nikkas they're fukking with are serious, especially if you gonna be letting that nikka fukk you raw.

 

[RugbyMan]

I make amazing points in EVERY thread... People are just sensitive. I hate people so I don't care if I hurt their feelings.

Don't celebrate too much or you'll get a flag thrown

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

Im sure any man would appreciate your past and current lady-like behavior

FOH bish.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

The fact that ya'll are so attracted to dusty-cornroll havin', weed-smellin', generic tattoo rockin' ass nikkas is naturally gonna set up future generations of black youth for failure. The black community has made it "cool" to embrace negative stereotypes. The "I don't give a fukk" attitude is killing us. The anti-academic attitudes are killing us.

Nobody seems to want address the elephant in the room of why so many of these men exist in the first place and how they don't share the same responsibility as women.

You all act as if women are going around and raping these unsavory types for the sole purpose of having a small fleet of children.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

What you went though is how it should be normally.


I don't get what women don't get about having Out of Wedlock children. When you allow a man to have sex with and impregnate you without putting a ring on it you're taking a risk no matter what. Because the man did not have to commit to you to do that, therefore he is more likely to walk out on you . And for God sakes if you gonna have pre-marital sex anyway you have to at least use birth control to be safe.


You'd be more safe by having children in a marriage because by then the man already committed to you and is less likely to walk out. I don't know many nikkas who'll marry a chick just to hit it and divorce her


Women need to understand that they don't have magical pussies that turn nikkas to father/husband material. The man is gonna be who he was from the jump.

I think brother havoc might be bout that life

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Dude I was just tryna get suggestions on what we should do for the betterment of our community is that too much to ask?

nikka do you realize where you posting? You can't be that dense, most the nikkas on here are borderline retarded.

The rest of us just having fun