Black Men need to "Man-Up", mentor these lil nigglets out chea.

[OG_StankBrefs]

shut the fukk up i cant even read that i dont speak slave

But yet you can understand dat old man gibberish when you negotiatin dat money in exchange for blowjobs.

Self esteem on E.

 

[YBE]

How about their fathers "mentor" them

 

[Just like bruddas]

I dont know where this single mother hate come from. I mean yes some of them are just and will take u down with them, but some of them actually have a lot going for themselves. If i can save a young black male from a life of wrong decisions and prison then u bet im gonna help.

Yall stay complaining bout the bums that women fukk with, well how the young man become a bum in the first? The cycle repeats

 

[theGoldmangod]

That whole "men lead by example" bullshyt is a figment of your imagination. The rampant simping on this forum should be proof of that. Behind closed doors, most nikkas get ran by their women. Women threaten to leave them and nikkas be on some shyt.

C'mon now

Men leading by example is bullshyt but women leading is somehow simultaneously the fall of the black community and the key to bringing it back

 

[Just like bruddas]

How about their fathers "mentor" them

whats if some kids arent that lucky?

If u had a chance to change a young mans life but giving 3 hours of your day, would you?

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

@ dis hoe neggin me.

Dat aint go do shyt.

 

[Sierra Mist]

if a dude a aint shyt nikka is getting women by the bundle i gurantee you there is some lying or game playing goign on. dudes like that tend to put their best foot forward until the woman lets her guard down.

and that 70% oow isnt just bums not taking care of their kids. there are upwardly mobile black men who be on the same bullshyt as jevontae from the corner store.

when did you son me in the precious thread? i forgot about that thread because i didnt get a notification about it. do you want me to reply??



everything you said men do women do too. if men gave the michelle obama types attention over the kmichelles, there would be more michelle obama types.

oh and youre welcome for the twerk vid

If you can't get to know a man to see if he's lying before you spread your legs for him then I still blame you for spreading your legs so fast. Women fukkin a dude a week into knowing him saying "Bu-bu-but I got trickedddd!!!!!"

Yeah, wait a little longer you dumb whore.

Like I said fukk both parties involved. Worthless pieces of filth ruining the economy!

And you got ethered.
http://www.the-coli.com/1509044-post208.html

 

[YBE]

whats if some kids arent that lucky?

If u had a chance to change a young mans life but giving 3 hours of your day, would you?

I could. I might. Its not my responsibility though.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

I'll simplify it because I actually have an essay on it. (On how economics or lack of economics changes a culture.)

Integration ultimately hurt the black community because all the black customers felt the white man's ice water was colder so they only patronized white businesses.

Black businesses collapsed. Blacks then discovered that white men would allow blacks to get in their sandbox, but wouldn't give them any toys.

Even after integration, a lot of businesses refused to hire black men who graduated college.

This is where it branches off in two directions:
The educated black men couldn't take care of their families so they left out of shame.
The non-educated blacks working factory jobs were then seeked because they at least had a source of income that could provide for a family.

Then came drugs and ultimately the war on drugs:
Factory jobs became outsourced and the uneducated blacks felt the same fate as the educated blacks felt in the 60s.
Those men then felt shamed and left their families.
The DRUG DEALERS then become sought out because right or wrong, they had money, while factory workers and educated blacks struggled to find work.
The war on drugs had blacks getting 20 year sentences for non-violent crimes.

Black women started working (they were more likely to be hired because whites didn't see them as threats. Remember, MEN build. Women just need to take care of their kids, so whites didn't fear hiring them.) Enter the black matriarchy... Manhood destroyed.

That's the generational side of it. The war on drugs goes a lot deeper. Add the rise of hiphop and the glorification of "the ghetto" and then it becomes a cultural issue. Enter the "strong independent black woman."

Before the drug dealers were seen as a necessity for when the educated and blue collar blacks didn't have money.
Now the hood black men are seen as "what's hot" and are promoted.

I couldn't get into every detail but whatever.

That's actually a nice assessment of the situation. But what does that have to do with not taking care of your children?

I'd think it'd be more shaming to abandon my family than be unemployed.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Mentoring is tough. Especially where it's really needed. I can't even mentor my younger cousins. They out here lookin at me like I'm a nerd cuz i went to school and have a career.

I do BBBS. It's been a good experience sp far. But I've done some work with inner city kids before that and its very frustrating trying to help a kid who is too young or ignorant to appreciate what you're doing.

 

[Sierra Mist]

How about their fathers "mentor" them

That's a novel concept with these people. Unless the father died in War, or died in a car accident or something I really have no sympathy for the mother. Poor kids though.

 

[RugbyMan]

So black women one day woke up and decided that it was to time fukk with the dregs of society?

And the fact that so many black males are conforming to a stereotype in the pursuit of p*ssy shows that they aren't leader material. A real black man with a good head on his shoulders is going to realize that he can get a woman even if he is a Braxton type and she's going to be quality. These "swagged out" nikkas are fukking hoodrats. Letting hoodrats dictate your identity? That's so demonic, friend.




And before you get upset, I'm not talking about you specifically. General terms.

I'm talking in general terms too.. especially in the big cities.

I know most of these men are more bytch-made than the women.

I agree with the bolded. Yet, those men tend to think on a different level and are open to dating non-black women. Many black women think in the box of the type of black man they want, and a "Braxton type", no matter how good of a man he is, isn't at the top of the desirability chart.

The whole point of this thread is that the woman was trying to say there are only 3 good brothas for every 100 black females. We all know that's bullshyt, thus, that's why dudes have gone hard at black women in this thread.

 

[Sierra Mist]

That's actually a nice assessment of the situation. But what does that have to do with not taking care of your children?

I'd think it'd be more shaming to abandon my family than be unemployed.

Manhood being destroyed and the wrong type of men are promoted. Personally I think a man should stay with his family and not leave due to shame, but that is what happened.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

I dont know where this single mother hate come from. I mean yes some of them are just and will take u down with them, but some of them actually have a lot going for themselves. If i can save a young black male from a life of wrong decisions and prison then u bet im gonna help.

Yall stay complaining bout the bums that women fukk with, well how the young man become a bum in the first? The cycle repeats

"I ain't fukking with someone else's b*stard child. fukk I look like, a simp?"

*b*stard child grows into a violent Chicago style teen and killer*

"This shyt is really sad. Kids killing kids. We've got to do better.

 

[AAKing23]

So black women one day woke up and decided that it was to time fukk with the dregs of society?

And the fact that so many black males are conforming to a stereotype in the pursuit of p*ssy shows that they aren't leader material. A real black man with a good head on his shoulders is going to realize that he can get a woman even if he is a Braxton type and she's going to be quality. These "swagged out" nikkas are fukking hoodrats. Letting hoodrats dictate your identity? That's so demonic, friend.




And before you get upset, I'm not talking about you specifically. General terms.

The point that dude is trying to make is that women serve as a great motivator for men, this goes back to ancient history. Dudes dreamed about having that dime piece on their arm as kids.

While you are right where you said men shouldn't dictate how they act based off women, the point is that we all dictate our behavior based on how women view us in varying degrees.


What I mean is, If you see a girl that you feeling and she say's that she like's well spoken dudes, you gonna try to speak as well as you can while you around her so you catch her attention you know what I mean.

IDK maybe that's a bad example but you get the point.


They're a huge influence on boys when they're young.