Black Men need to "Man-Up", mentor these lil nigglets out chea.

[Anothergirl]

I was even more appalled that it came from a woman.

ok so i used the term "ordinary" instead of the term AVERAGE. and it wan't to sh*t on black women. the point was many GOOD average looking black women are marginalized BY BLACK MEN next to their more exotic looking peers. you'll see it everyday on this very forum.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

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This is true, but then nikkaz would try to step their game up (not all though) Men of all races for the most part adjust to whatever standards women set up. If you say I don't have to be shyt, let's be real nikkaz ain't gonna be shyt

So men are led by the wants, journeys, and standards of women is what you are saying, right?

Please don't include all men in this. Just say "some of us nikkas". Cause I can't relate.

 

[Anothergirl]

I'm not appalled at the words, but more so about the fact that's true. It is. I can't lie about it. Dudes pass up "ordinary" women all the time because they don't look a certain way. Dude above just used not being "unattractive" as a trait measure for qualifying as a "good black woman".

exactly ppl dislike the messenger so much that can't even admit to the truth.

 

[Street Knowledge]

So men are led by the wants, journeys, and standards of women is what you are saying, right?

Please don't include all men in this. Just say "some of us nikkas". Cause I can't relate.

I never said all men, I said a lot are

 

[Peruvian Connect]

In college we had this boy, and dude was like "how are y'all gonna be mentors, y'all still depend on your parents"




Mentoring teenage boys breh? I don't Know if I have the energy/ patience for that.

In all honesty they are the easiest to mentor if you a chill nikka but u really about shyt.

 

[AAKing23]

I just thought about this; many of the dudes in this thread were going on and on about how black women need to make better choices when it comes to men. But then they'll be in another thread bragging about how they dog out and pimp women while other dudes "lol" and co-sign it.

If black women upped their game as much as you feel they need to, half of y'all be eliminated from the dating pool. Then you'd be coming on here talking about, "fukk black women, their standards are too high."

That would be good for them there's nothing wrong with having high standards as long as they're realistic, I rather have a bunch of nikkas trying to reach those standards instead of black women having low standards that are easy to reach.


Dudes would have no choice but to strive and try to reach those standards if they wanted to get with those women



Would that mean we wouldn't hear "nikkas ain't shyt" anymore

 

[Peruvian Connect]

That would be good for them there's nothing wrong with having high standards as long as they're realistic, I rather have a bunch of nikkas trying to reach those standards instead of black women having low standards that are easy to reach.


Dudes would have no choice but to strive and try to reach those standards if they wanted to get with those women



Would that mean we wouldn't hear "nikkas ain't shyt" anymore

nikkas ain't shiit. male and female.

 

[Street Knowledge]

exactly. imma use a personal example, there's a dude that sells dvds at a gas station near me. i forgot how the convo came up but he has 8 kids i'm like how many different women??? ALL OF THEM.

i'm thinking to myself, how does a guy sellin dvds for a living find 8 different women to procreate with. then to keep it 100%, one of his baby mommas rolled up and she was fine

makes me wonder if our women are criminally retarded or just taking advantage of the system whites have provided to them

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

That would be good for them there's nothing wrong with having high standards as long as they're realistic, I rather have a bunch of nikkas trying to reach those standards instead of black women having low standards that are easy to reach.


Dudes would have no choice but to strive and try to reach those standards if they wanted to get with those women



Would that mean we wouldn't hear "nikkas ain't shyt" anymore

A "man" that must be denied p*ssy to be motivated to achieve any upward mobility in life is not a man in the first place.

 

[MoneyTron]

Me and my GF had a discussion on black relationships on Sunday. She honestly could not tell me why black women are attracted to a lot of these dudes they get with.

She's got a friend who graduated from Georgia Tech with a chemical engineering degree who was in a relationship with a dude with 2 kids by 2 women, jail time, etc. Dude works at Wal-Mart part time. She was actually considering moving him out to her new job.

I'm like, why would she even consider even hanging out with dude?

It's not like she grew up in a messed up home. Both of her parents have good jobs and all 3 kids are in higher education.

It's like the decision making on both sides is completely fukked.

But that's just a tiny part of the problem. Just a small anecdote. The scope of the problem is so big that it could go off in 100 different tangents. Just makes me sad brehs.

 

[Rawtid]

Lol why would a nikka that only sells DVDs have 8 kids? Men must take responsibility for their actions and women should take responsibility for theirs. Imagine how far we could get if we quit blaming each other

 

[AAKing23]

A "man" that must be denied p*ssy to be motivated to achieve any upward mobility in life is not a man in the first place.

Why do you always have to one up every point that I make


So what would you prefer, the black community to remain as it is with black women procreating with men who are obviously unfit to be parents to their kids hence the single parent home epidemic.


Or a black community, where the women finally raise their standards and decide that they deserve better, and the men are held to a higher standard that they have no choice but to reach.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

No, I would prefer a society where men step up and lead as they are supposed to instead of blaming black women for not dragging them kicking and screaming into adulthood.

 

[AAKing23]

No, I would prefer a society where men step up and lead as they are supposed to instead of blaming black women for not dragging them kicking and screaming into adulthood.

Man we're just gonna have to agree to disagee breh No disrespect but I can't have a coversation with you if you can't acknowledge simple points

I done gave you everything I had in my argument

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Lol why would a nikka that only sells DVDs have 8 kids? Men must take responsibility for their actions and women should take responsibility for theirs. Imagine how far we could get if we quit blaming each other

Exactly.

My mentor once told me to imagine this scenario: If everybody thought they were wrong (regardless of whether they were or not) and took the corrective measures to fix themselves (even if they think nothing is wrong with themselves), how right would the world then become.

No, I would prefer a society where men step up and lead as they are supposed to instead of blaming black women for not dragging them kicking and screaming into adulthood.

The sad thing about it, when black women do step up and start making the demands as the leaders and men follow, men start complaining about women being over bearing and talk about how a matriarchal society won't last.

We see that happening now and dudes do not like it.

*Thinks a woman should let a man be a man Gets a white/foreign girl because she lets me control things and lets me lead *

*Next breath: "WHY WON'T YOU SET STANDARDS FOR ME TO LIVE BY???? "*

Black women will always lose when negros are weak as fukk.