Black Men need to "Man-Up", mentor these lil nigglets out chea.

[Sierra Mist]

I just thought about this; many of the dudes in this thread were going on and on about how black women need to make better choices when it comes to men. But then they'll be in another thread bragging about how they dog out and pimp women while other dudes "lol" and co-sign it.

If black women upped their game as much as you feel they need to, half of y'all be eliminated from the dating pool. Then you'd be coming on here talking about, "fukk black women, their standards are too high."

I never said any of those things and I've made the best points in this thread, so that is invalid.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

The thing that trips me out the most is that nikkas are so willing to hand women the broom and say, "Clean this shyt up," and will go sit on the couch, kick their feet up and nitpick and critique everything they do, calling them failures.

 

[Sierra Mist]

The thing that trips me out the most is that nikkas are so willing to hand women the broom and say, "Clean this shyt up," and will go sit on the couch, kick their feet up and nitpick and critique everything they do, calling them failures.

If it's their mess then sure. If you have kids out of wedlock you are a failure. Sorry but I come from a community that has standards. We don't live like wild animals here. If I make a mess, I clean it up, but I'm not the one making messes.

 

[Lewis Black]

As black men we should lead. No way around it.

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

Me and my GF had a discussion on black relationships on Sunday. She honestly could not tell me why black women are attracted to a lot of these dudes they get with.

She's got a friend who graduated from Georgia Tech with a chemical engineering degree who was in a relationship with a dude with 2 kids by 2 women, jail time, etc. Dude works at Wal-Mart part time. She was actually considering moving him out to her new job.

I'm like, why would she even consider even hanging out with dude?

It's not like she grew up in a messed up home. Both of her parents have good jobs and all 3 kids are in higher education.

It's like the decision making on both sides is completely fukked.

But that's just a tiny part of the problem. Just a small anecdote. The scope of the problem is so big that it could go off in 100 different tangents. Just makes me sad brehs.

A good pipe game can have dese brauds lose dey mind literally and figuratively.

 

[The Nigerian]

There is virtually no hope for the people that we're talking about for the most part. The problem is cultural and it's not going to be long until the culture is completely eradicated.

In the meanwhile, the best thing you can tell a Black kid is the following:
"To be equal you must be superior. The margin of error is razor thin for us. The only thing that you can do to succeed in this reality is to be a better person than everyone you deal with. You have to be more intelligent, harder working, better spoken, better dressed, and above all righteous in your excellence. This is the only way. It's better this way in the long run. Mediocrity always loses in the end and you can't win for losing."

The only way a black kid can succeed in this society is they have the belief of their own superiority in their heart. Too many of us are suck in loser mentality for a number of different reasons. It takes so much to overcome the constant barrage of messages that reinforce notions of a Black person's individual inferiority. The times in my life that I've made significant mistakes were those times when I allowed those negative forces to influence me and steer me away from the real truth.

Blacks that don't take this approach find themselves in the gutter, jail, or stuck at the bottom. And yes, they are going to be systemically eliminated from this society. Don't believe me? Just look at Harlem.

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

The thing that trips me out the most is that nikkas are so willing to hand women the broom and say, "Clean this shyt up," and will go sit on the couch, kick their feet up and nitpick and critique everything they do, calling them failures.

lol alright nah cmon Ligs.

 

[Rawtid]

If it's their mess then sure. If you have kids out of wedlock you are a failure. Sorry but I come from a community that has standards. We don't live like wild animals here. If I make a mess, I clean it up.

That's cool if you consider us failures but make sure you know the man AND the woman are both failures...they are both at fault. They are both responsible for the situation. That means taking the steps necessary to prevent it from happening it again.

Using dvd dude for example if he has 8 kids with 8 different but each woman only had one child, why isn't he looked as the retard who didn't learn?

 

[Sierra Mist]

That's cool if you consider us failures but make sure you know the man AND the woman are both failures...they are both at fault. They are both responsible for the situation. That means taking the steps necessary to prevent it from happening it again.

Using dvd dude for example if he has 8 kids with 8 different but each woman only had one child, why isn't he looked as the retard who didn't learn?

Like I said before, fukk the dead beats and fukk the single mothers that find them sexy. I don't discriminate. TRASH is TRASH.

 

[AAKing23]

It's pointless breh

The black community would rather live off "nut's and berries" and hope rather than tangible life concepts.


How can you expect a generation of black men who've had no fathers in their households to teach them leadership to suddenly become leaders when that was never instilled in them in the first place.


They're too far gone at this point you can mentor some here and there but the majority are already set in their ways, so you have to focus on the women who are the upholders of morality, the "gatekeepers" to life one might say.


But telling women to not get pregnant by certain types of men is seen as an unrealistic concept.


I don't get it, I just don't get it SMH

 

[marcuz]

The thing that trips me out the most is that nikkas are so willing to hand women the broom and say, "Clean this shyt up," and will go sit on the couch, kick their feet up and nitpick and critique everything they do, calling them failures.

aint nobody saying that but for something to be cleaned, you must first acknowledge its dirty


women aint even akcnowleding they fukked up on the humble. they're just "yea, nikkas aint shyt, go take care of ur children. my kid needs a mentor since all you nikkas are in jail, so who's ready to lead"

bytch please. and mentoring is useless until the source of the problems are fixed. fukk anyone looks like mentoring while the momma still bringing home aint shyt men and fukking them.

 

[Rawtid]

It's pointless breh

The black community would rather live off "nut's and berries" and hope rather than tangible life concepts.


How can you expect a generation of black men who've had no fathers in their households to teach them leadership to suddenly become leaders when that was never instilled in them in the first place.


They're too far gone at this point you can mentor some here and there but the majority are already set in their ways, so you have to focus on the women who are the upholders of morality, the "gatekeepers" to life one might say.


But telling women to not get pregnant by certain types of men is seen as an unrealistic concept.


I just don't get it, I just don't get it SMH

Lol the same women you are expecting to take lead didn't have fathers either so how do you expect them to know what a good man is. Men and Women are to be blamed my nikka. shyt ain't rosey for black women either.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

lol alright nah cmon Ligs.

Am I lying?

 

[marcuz]

A good pipe game can have dese brauds lose dey mind literally and figuratively.

pretty much, i asked a girl why do yall usually pursue bums instead of dudes with their shyt together, broad then told me straight my face

"them nikkas usually have the best dikk"

then after tellin me how her last boyfriend was doing all kinds of crazy shyt like trying to suffocate her with plastic bags, and putting belts around her necks while beating her. she was still loyal to this dude.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

Like I said before, fukk the dead beats and fukk the single mothers that find them sexy. I don't discriminate. TRASH is TRASH.

single moms are trash now?