Not even worth responding with this argument on display..she can go tell it to the choir of bitter baby mamma drama.. carrying a note has nothing to do with maturity or self reflection..mental trauma from slavery is not the dominion of black men ,that's supremacist propaganda,but she's to busy to notice it in her choice of men..how do you fault the father of your child for being anything but what he and the women around him showed you? Either she's too entitled to see it or she has the emotional scope of a child that wants the world to fall in place to accommodate her whims..we worship female anatomy before we acknowledge maturity.