Black men who date out because they feel rejected by black women. Are they c00ns?

[WHIPPEDCream]

Its a Sunday Vday All Star Weekend and you've been doing this all day

I don't have a valentine & I don't watch sports. It's just a normal day, B.

 

[DMGAINGREEN]

Black women get no where with this faux "community talk."Apparantly that's what we've been doing & still no results.They are still disrespected by their own men & the world at large.I'm not saying to not care about the black community, I mean that they should start caring about themselves instead of always putting everyone else before them.



I meant that I don't date black men by default because I am black.So just because I'm black does not mean i'm going to automatically be with someone else who is also black.I could have went further into detail in my original post but I didn't care to.Everyone, including black men, say offensive things about black women all day, everyday so I don't feel the need to be "careful."

Why generalize every black male for the small percentage of herb ass niccas who slander black women ... if that was the case I could use your terrible perspective of black men you posses and say all black women spew the same shytty narrative you do , but on some G shyt you'd probably be doing the black male population a favor by going to the other side so by all means go ahead

 

[Blackout]

Black women get no where with this faux "community talk."Apparantly that's what we've been doing & still no results.They are still disrespected by their own men & the world at large.I'm not saying to not care about the black community, I mean that they should start caring about themselves instead of always putting everyone else before them.

Actually black women have risen with us. From slavery to segregation to now black women have been with us all the way.

Back in the 60s and 40s black women had it worse than they did now. The things white men could of gotten away with was way worse than now. It looks like you are failing to acknowledge how far we have come.

Im starting to see why older black people have said that our gen is spoiled because of what you are saying right now.

Misogyny is a problem that needs to be addressed but you are exaggerating it.

 

[Guile]

I don't get the main premise of this thread black nerds really don't get a lot of love from any women, tbh.

There experieinces dating out are likely to be the dame as dating in.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

Why generalize every black male for the small percentage of herb ass niccas who slander black women ... if that was the case I could use your terrible perspective of black men you posses and say all black women spew the same shytty narrative you do , but on some G shyt you'd probably be doing the black male population a favor by going to the other side so by all means go ahead

It's not a small percentage of black men who slander black women & you know it. & The world, including black men already slander black women so it doesn't matter to me.& If I end up on the other side then so be it.

Actually black women have risen with us. From slavery to segregation to now black women have been with us all the way.

Back in the 60s and 40s black women had it worse than they did now. The things white men could of gotten away with was way worse than now. It looks like you are failing to acknowledge how far we have come.

Im starting to see why older black people have said that our gen is spoiled because of what you are saying right now.

Misogyny is a problem that needs to be addressed but you are exaggerating it.

A black man telling a black woman she is exaggerating the black woman's condition. Color me surprised.

 

[Blackout]

A black man telling a black woman she is exaggerating the black woman's condition. Color me surprised.

Compared to the 60s and 40s? Yes

For you to try to say its the same as it was in the 40s and 60s shows that you dont know much.

It was worse back then and we actually made progress to now. We are not done yet but we still are progressing.

I am saying you are exaggerating by saying there is no unity among black men and women.

 

[DMGAINGREEN]

It's not a small percentage of black men who slander black women & you know it. & The world, including black men already slander black women so it doesn't matter to me.& If I end up on the other side then so be it.



A black man telling a black woman she is exaggerating the black woman's condition. Color me surprised.

Nah , maybe you accompany yourself around the wrong people why you seem to be witnessing this abundant of slander from black men... but like I said no ones preventing you from swirling but that doesn't make it right for you to slander black men in general as if we have the vendetta against black women as a whole .... beside that I hope you have luck with your venture with white men you seem not have with black men

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

You aren't going to be able to find what you are looking for on the West Coast.

If you want a good Black Woman you're going to have to go to the Carolinas or Georgia. Anywhere else is a waste of time.

I don't know if you grew up in the Bay area or you relocated there, but when Tariq Nasheed talks about his come uppings in the region he occasionally mentions that Black Women in the area were not putting in effort or really checking for him when compared with other females.

This is coming from a dude who wrote a Mack book that is respected by dudes like Slickback and shyt. So it's something to take heed of particularly if you are talking about Cali. But the nikka has been global at a young age nonetheless.

There are Black Women who come from a two family home, good upbringing, aren't gold diggers and superficial but you are going to have to work real hard to find them.

Now you could spend time doing that or you could get the next good girl that comes regardless of color and move on with your life.

The choice is yours.

My mom tells me this. Shes from the south. She lived in the Midwest in her 20s. She raised me in California. She doesn't think very highly of the modern black woman. She's always telling to avoid a lot of them. And she's right. When I go to the south I fall in love. Those southern girls have my heart. I'm used to bay area California girls and rich girls. They fukked my head all up.

I'm still recovering. Lol you might be right. I took a vow of celibacy until I find her. I've had more than enough drug fueled freaky sex in my life. You every try dating with no intention of fukking? Girls thinks I'm Hella weird. But I'm trying to base my relationships on something more than freaky sex and money.

 

[Reginald Noble]

You every try dating with no intention of fukking? Girls thinks I'm Hella weird. But I'm trying to base my relationships on something more than freaky sex and money.

They will get jealous and think you getting your needs satisfied from another Woman. So be very careful if it's a female you are interested in.

There is nothing you can do directly to convince them that you not fukking another bytch while talking to them, the only thing you can do is put in the time and effort to show you are thinking about them with romantic gestures (for the 1 in 1,000,000 that are even worth thinking about on a day like yesterday)

Otherwise if she still concerned about potential "others" then there's nothing you can do and need to move on. 90% of Women in this country are insecure as fukk because daddy wasn't around stroking their ego when they were younger talking "my little princess" and shyt.

 

[Draje]

They take too much pride in being "different," which is ironic because many of them are the same & take on the same attitude.



1991.



I appreciate that you can empathize and feel that way but the truth is not many black men feel the way you do.You're the only person in this thread who has something to this effect, the others questioned my allegations, & etc.Black women are constantly told their time will come one day, let's just "fight this race battle first," but it will never come.They are holding on to a string of hope.



Typical c00n in secrecy. I'll respect a racist white man before I respect you.

Think I care about your respect, brehette.

I say what I want and do what I want, women

Lemme secretly be a racist c00n but publicly love black women in peace