Black men who date out because they feel rejected by black women. Are they c00ns?

[jwonder]

I'm out here in AZ where the brothers are on that hard. I met one dude who loves those cave bytches. Been married to one for 10 years. Average chunky looking cac at that. This guy is blacker than the lacquer that you find on your living room set. I mean he said black women would always comment on his color in a negative light. Calling him Critter. Some of ya'll are too young, but Critter was a horror movie about the black little monsters from out of space. It really is highly offensive. He was also called Grape Ape from the juice back in the day. Also about his diction. To me he just speaks proper English(uses slang too), to them he was talking like a white boy. He's not lying, because growing up I heard our own people say that to black people that was darker. shyt was mad ignorant. Said white chicks always gave him play.

This does happen quite often, so I can see how he could date out of race. But damn so do I, but not with cacs. I need a chick with a tan.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

I regret nothing. If you interpret my comment wrong that's on you.

Thats the problem she failts to realize. She trust nonblack men more than black men yet its mainly black men who actually care about black women because we only got ourselves. Ironic but sad.

I do not.I view non-black men & black men the same.

 

[Rell84shots]

The only slight pass is if they're latina, and even then it has to be a certain kind of latina. I've always dated sistas so i'lll leave this up to the Gumbel type black men

 

[Blackout]

I do not.I view non-black men & black men the same.

What have nonblack men done for you to consider them on the level of the good black men.

Typical kissing other races ass move when you give non blacks credit for doing less than black men.

Our ancestors didnt die, get abused by racist whites and suffer in jail for this crap.

 

[Biscayne]

Thats not them being nerdy. Its them being hipster.

Nerdy and hipster is not the same. Hipster has some social benefits and is a bit of an attention whoring while nerdy does not. In fact many hipsters claim to be nerdy to try and make it cool yet it just comes off as fake.

But alot of NBA players have nerdy tendencies. You'd be surprised how many athletes enjoy Anime, videogames, and certain music. I just don't think being a Black nerd is something that's rare in 2016. Black Nerds are too celebrated and there are too many gatherings for a Black man to feel as if dating out is the only way for him to find a woman with the same interest as him.

 

[philmonroe]

But alot of NBA players have nerdy tendencies. You'd be surprised how many athletes enjoy Anime, videogames, and certain music. I just don't think being a Black nerd is something that's rare in 2016. Black Nerds are too celebrated and there are too many gatherings for a Black man to feel as if dating out is the only way for him to find a woman with the same interest as him.

I agree you might find less depending on what your into but none nah son. Also as I said earlier you not going to get the "baddest" looks wise chicks on avg into that "nerd" stuff. That's just what it is and if,that's the route you choose have to know that. Also most "nerds" and the like of both genders aren't usually the greatest looking stereotypically (esp online when I see pics of them) so there's that too. One of my favorite podcast to listen I was like dang chick personality wise could get it then I saw the pic was only on the late night. She isn't the only one that fit a similar description of cool but looks wise I'm good and the dudes fit a similar style oftentimes.

 

[Blackout]

But alot of NBA players have nerdy tendencies. You'd be surprised how many athletes enjoy Anime, videogames, and certain music. I just don't think being a Black nerd is something that's rare in 2016. Black Nerds are too celebrated and there are too many gatherings for a Black man to feel as if dating out is the only way for him to find a woman with the same interest as him.

Sure some do but the main ones you see dressing hipster are just hipsters and not nerds. Hipsters go into anything to try to get attention.

Real nerds know wassup.

Its kind of annoying seeing hipsters trying to claim nerd when they are faking the funk.

 

[Reginald Noble]

I've always dated sistas so i'lll leave this up to the Gumbel type black men

I'm just asking.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

is it that bad?

Is what bad?

What have nonblack men done for you to consider them on the level of the good black men.

Typical kissing other races ass move when you give non blacks credit for doing less than black men.

I'm kissing non-black ass by saying I view all men the same?

 

[Blackout]

I'm kissing non-black ass by saying I view all men the same?

Considering the black men who fought, got jailed and abused and even died for your rights and those today who still support black women yes you are.

When I look at pics for Sandra Blands protest for example I mostly see black men more so than other type of men.

This colorless view of yours is not a good thing.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

Considering the black men who fought, got jailed and abused and even died for your rights and those today who still support black women yes you are.

When I look at pics for Sandra Blands protest for example I mostly see black men more so than other type of men.

This colorless view of yours is not a good thing.

& I still welcome those men with open arms.Sandra Bland was a single incident in the grand scheme of things.You won't understand why I view men as men because you are not a black woman,

 

[Blackout]

& I still welcome those men with open arms.Sandra Bland was a single incident in the grand scheme of things.You won't understand why I view men as men because you are not a black woman,

My relationship and undertanding with black women is pretty good and I have gotten a good view into what they have faced by embracing them as my allies aka my people in our black community.

You view men as men because you have no sense of community and you simply dont move with the black group and disown us.

You are on that colorless crap.

 

[DMGAINGREEN]

I regret nothing. If you interpret my comment wrong that's on you.

I do not.I view non-black men & black men the same.

Then how do you suppose to we interpret it , what you stated it right there clear like 20/20 vision you acting as if you said some witty/clever line that niccas have to decipher to understand lol

 

[Poitier]

Is what bad?

Its a Sunday Vday All Star Weekend and you've been doing this all day

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

My relationship and undertanding with black women is pretty good and I have gotten a good view into what they have faced by embracing them as my allies aka my people in our black community.

You view men as men because you have no sense of community and you simply dont move with the black group and disown us.

You are on that colorless crap.

Black women get no where with this faux "community talk."Apparantly that's what we've been doing & still no results.They are still disrespected by their own men & the world at large.I'm not saying to not care about the black community, I mean that they should start caring about themselves instead of always putting everyone else before them.

Then how do you suppose to we interpret it , what you stated it right there clear like 20/20 vision you acting as if you said some witty/clever line that niccas have to decipher to understand lol

I meant that I don't date black men by default because I am black.So just because I'm black does not mean i'm going to automatically be with someone else who is also black.I could have went further into detail in my original post but I didn't care to.Everyone, including black men, say offensive things about black women all day, everyday so I don't feel the need to be "careful."