I feel like we can weed out a lot of dead weight and/or make them upgrade themselves but raising our standards for each other. Make some standards and stick to them. Stop dating single parents, stop dating people who aren't trying to eat well or workout, stop with the bullshyt tattoos, stop dating fat people, stop dating people who don't have a clean house or car, no job, no career, stop dating people who drink and do drugs 24/7, stop dating people who don't care about their public appearance, dont date people who dont pay their bills, etc. If black people as stop excepting these low standards we could be better. Like how many people are on social media sites talking about team no make up, team no kids, team gym life, team clean house, etc because most people are now aware that these are some qualities people look for in others. I remember some guy posted a video of some girl he was going to the club with. He posted a video of how her house looked and people were posting up fake go fund me pages to help her clean her house.