Black Queen: BW need to realize white people and other groups are not our enemy, BM are.

[Canon]

I never said that. I said stop mistreating women.

she doesn't deal with black men

what's the next excuse?

 

[King_Kamala61]

she doesn't deal with black men

what's the next excuse?

I mean clearly. She is upset with us. We have a bad rep as men with how we treat our women.

 

[number21]

I never said that. I said stop mistreating women.

What is mistreating women?

 

[Canon]

I mean clearly. She is upset with us. We have a bad rep as men with how we treat our women.

pathetic

 

[King_Kamala61]

pathetic

 

[King_Kamala61]

What is mistreating women?

Womanizing....making b*stard babies...wasting women time...not being good to them showering them with actual love and not just slanging sick. I mean our music has been disrespecting women for decades in hip hop. Which is the number one genre black men consume. I guarantee you if we stop doing these things we can heal as a people.

Yes women pick the men but hey those women who choose bad men have evidence of poor choices. I'm not saying women are totally innocent, but we are men. We posed to be the leaders.

 

[Samori Toure]

Stop mistreating women and this shyt stops.

Women need to stop mistreating themselves. That is when shyt stops.

To sum it up: don't look, at other people to fix you. Fix yourself.

 

[number21]

Womanizing....making b*stard babies...wasting women time...not being good to them showering them with actual love and not just slanging sick. I mean our music has been disrespecting women for decades in hip hop. Which is the number one genre black men consume. I guarantee you if we stop doing these things we can heal as a people.

Yes women pick the men but hey those women who choose bad men have evidence of poor choices. I'm not saying women are totally innocent, but we are men. We posed to be the leaders.

Agreed.

So what is the right way to treat them? What and where would this be based on?

I dont want to hear pro-blackity black buffoonery like "we need to just act out black love".

Actual things with substance.

 

[King_Kamala61]

Agreed.

So what is the right way to treat them? What and where would this be based on?

I dont want to hear pro-blackity black buffoonery like "we need to just act out black love".

Actual things with substance.

Be romantic and actually court. Stop tryna make dating about sex but actually getting to know a woman.

You ain't gotta spend money or nutting or buy gifts. But actually giving a fukk about a woman geaux a long way.

Granted some women may not be receptive to that and that's ok. She just not the one to date.

Eventually women will fall in line to be receptive to courting.

Also acts of endearment is key too. Lol love letters while courting. Talk about building a future together...be flirty but be her friend too...

Introduce her to new shyt. Women love learning from men.

You shouldn't even be in each other living spaces until the 5-6 month mark.

Hanging out and doing lil shyt like visiting a museum, library, take a cooking class together, pottery class, geaux to art shows, book stores, parks...so much to do instead of being in each other's homes.

But no matter what put sex off the table for a good while.

 

[coldcall]

Their movement is a lot bigger than most of you realize. It's not just social media at this point. I've heard their talking points on the radio, podcast even local news. There's a hard push to racialize all of their issues poverty, DV, street crime etc. They use talking points from right wing / yt supremacist sources. Almost like they forget they're black too and those same negative stats apply to them on the female side.

 

[Canon]

Womanizing....making b*stard babies...wasting women time...not being good to them showering them with actual love and not just slanging sick. I mean our music has been disrespecting women for decades in hip hop. Which is the number one genre black men consume. I guarantee you if we stop doing these things we can heal as a people.

Yes women pick the men but hey those women who choose bad men have evidence of poor choices. I'm not saying women are totally innocent, but we are men. We posed to be the leaders.

and the white man did all that x10


matriarchy simp force needs to go right next to these women

 

[number21]

Be romantic and actually court. Stop tryna make dating about sex but actually getting to know a woman.

You ain't gotta spend money or nutting or buy gifts. But actually giving a fukk about a woman geaux a long way.

Granted some women may not be receptive to that and that's ok. She just not the one to date.

Eventually women will fall in line to be receptive to courting.

Also acts of endearment is key too. Lol love letters while courting. Talk about building a future together...be flirty but be her friend too...

Introduce her to new shyt. Women love learning from men.

So acting out black love. Based on no ideals, structure, or no guidelines to know when we're stepping out of line and something that generations will take to heart and keep to.

Just "black love" based on appeasing the woman and making sure she's "loved". That happy wife, happy life buffoonery will not do anything for black people and never will.

I will give my thoughts. The scriptures are where we black men must go and make it clear that we men are the leaders and the women are our prized possessions. That the black man must do everything and anything to make his god happy. The woman is doing everything and anything to make her man happy. Both of them (men and women) come together to raise their children.

Love letters and courting aint fixing this.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Womanizing....making b*stard babies...wasting women time...not being good to them showering them with actual love and not just slanging sick. I mean our music has been disrespecting women for decades in hip hop. Which is the number one genre black men consume. I guarantee you if we stop doing these things we can heal as a people.

Yes women pick the men but hey those women who choose bad men have evidence of poor choices. I'm not saying women are totally innocent, but we are men. We posed to be the leaders.

Dudes continue to ignore this time and time again.

 

[David_TheMan]

HImmy is cooking withe these threads.
A lot of smoke for him though instead of addressing the posts he brings to light.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Stop being a goof. Black women create just as many broken homes as Black men and if a person wants better treatment then they need to first learn how to treat themselves better.

yall love believing they are angels

some of you just cant be helped

How are your women going to be mentally healthy with music and mentality as this? 30 years of derogatory terminology blasted to the masses.