also agreed, which is because of a cultural problem that people ignore
you have a black male, and a black female. both are headed down the wrong path. she wants mr swagmatir, so he tries to mimic/become that person. she gets with the dudes she finds attractive, maybe gets pregnant, and decides to fix her life. get in college, get a nice job, etc -- the perfect educated hoodrat.
meanwhile, the guy who was never interested in school starts down the path towards death/jail. black male teens rarely rebound from their 'confused' phase.
Good point. That's why I laugh when I hear some women complain that there is a lack of "good" Black men available.
So many Black women reward irresponsible and "confused" Black males so much that they never break out of it. There comes a point when it's too late for a Black male to turn it around.
If a dude doesn't have his sh!t together by 21, chances are slim that he'll end up being a "good" Black man.
It's tough for brothas to reinvent themselves in this society. Once you're tatted up, got a few items on your record, etc., you're toast.
That's the hard truth.
Anybody ever notice how blacks lead almost all categories? "Most unemployed, Least like to retire,least like to marry"etc. Is it that bad in OUR communities? If 38% of black teens are unemployed,then what % of Jewish teens or Chinese teens are unemployed?WE have to take jobs from other races,because we arent building and when we do build we somehow adopt "Crab in Barrel" menatality.People can say what they want about Affirmative Action but even without it,we would be way worse.Damned if you do,damned if you dont among us.
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(crackheadish) at the same time, not doing shyt with themselves, but riding around telling stories about what they used to have, used to do, and used to fukk. The nikka ain't doing shyt now and they just turned 40. I refuse to let that be me.
gospel in these posts
thats why we need a social change before we can improve economically. disadvantages in america at large would still need to be addressed but in the mean time at least we're fightin for what we CAN get for ourselves. we make things that much worse by splittin OURSELVES up. the hood can't fukk with the middle class cuz they too "white/bougie", the middle class can't fukk with the hood cuz they made it for themselves, etc. you aint did shyt but leave yourself out alone
other races understand and take advantage of the fact that they NEED to stick together to eat... but step over to the booth and nikkas claim lil jojo and all these other chicago rappers/hood nikkas need to do die to make shyt better 