For the most part women are more emotionally connected to sex so while it may be easier for them to call someone, doesn't mean they like that person enough to have sex with them. I will agree that you shouldn't choose porn over the real thing.
I don't know why this is so hard for men to understand. I keep seeing posts talking about the ease of which women can get sex, but these women aren't consuming porn for the sex, but for the fantasy. Which is why female porn (romance novels, erotica) is waaaay different than male porn.
And yeah it's not that hard to fathom a woman being addicted to porn. Especially female porn...think 50 shades of grey or Zane.
Now if she's talking about being addicted to male porn that's understandable but only within the context of our current fukked social trends. A lotta women are trying to be the same as men sexually due to the dumb shyt our society keeps telling them. Male porn is trash. And I say that b/c I'm a woman and it really doesn't appeal to me. I can tell the women are faking, no context, no real passion, they just doin a job and gettin a nut on their faces. The males avoid the clit like it's the plague and the majority of those actresses don't even cum. But I'm supposed to pretend like I'm turned on b/c some nikka gone come by in his feelings about me being honest?
I've also seen a lot of the actresses even look uncomfortable. Nah. I'm good. Shyt doesn't look appealing.
A good steamy book with some characterization, emotional buildup, some tension and a good nail biting plot and the dycked down action?!
Maaaaannn
But the problem is that women have been shamed out of experiencing the emotional part of themselves b/c in our hookup culture feelings and emotions aren't convenient. People consider feelings to be a weakness. Women have internalized this and are trying to approach sexuality like men (which is wack azz sex to me...sorry guys) w/o the emotional intensity that makes sex amazing!
Why u do dis?!
Why? Because women are afraid of being alone, because they are just willing to settle for any type of companionship if they can't get what they really desire, all while pretending that they just wanna nut...
I'm not about that life. If you don't love me, aren't willing to give me 100%, can't commit, there is absolutely no benefit to me being on my back faking the funk. I'm a woman. I like being a woman. I'm just as equally valuable as a man. I won't denigrate my sexually or put my emotional needs to the side just so I can be fukkin b/c that shyt doesn't do anything for me.
Sorry I write books for posts. (Hell we need to read more anyway! Deal wit it!) I been going thru this nonsense in some recent dating escapades, so this shyt hit a nerve. Lol!