First I want to start off by saying they both were wrong. The brother was wrong for going back and forth with her after she rejected him, and the sister was wrong for uploading the video. If she wanted to put it out there that this was the wrong way to approach a woman, then she could have told her story online, which was bad enough. Again, uploading it was unnecessary. It wasn't that serious. Now I'm not recommending the approach the brother used, but to be honest, a lot of us are here as a result of how that brother approach that sister.
I almost experienced a similar situation as the video yesterday, while eating out. When I first walked in the restaurant, I noticed this short young sister with a very nice ass, mopping the floor. Her ass was round enough to make you think she was wearing butt pads. Plus she had some nice size breast. Then at the same time, you could tell everything was real. Her face wasn't all that cute, but kinda cute, especially for an older cat like me. I think it started when her co-worker came from behind the cashier, who wasn't giving the best customer service by the way, and started cleaning tables all in front of me while i was eating my meal, which seldom taste good in this particular fast food chain location. To be blunt, she wasn't attractive at all, although she had a slightly better shape than I thought. I'm not saying she had a nice shape, but like I said, a little better than I thought. I think I heard her say hello to me, but I didn't respond. At this point, it just felt like she was disturbing me. I really was into my meal, and I really wasn't interested in her, especially after the wacky customer service she gave me and, her looks, and especially after comparing her to the sister who was mopping the floor, with the nice ass. After comparing their bodies, she may as well been invisible. It was obvious she was cock-blocking, because she knew the sister with the nice ass (who couldn't even tell her co-worker was cock-blocking) was going to eventually come my way....and she did just that. She came right by me with that nice body, and she stayed mopping that floor back and forth in front of me way longer than normal. She kept her back turned giving me a long full view of that nice round ass. She stayed in front of me so long that even the other guys began to stare our way, and they had their women.
I haven't cat-called in several years, and the brother in the video probably sounded even less aggressive than me. Anyway, I first hollered at her while she was in front of me mopping the floor showing me her body. I jokingly asked her if she was trying to make me break my neck, (which could have meant from the slippery floor or from turning my neck to stare at that ass). I really meant the latter. Anyhow, she didn't answer. I didn't think asking her that was offensive since she didn't know what I meant (although she probably did), so I thought she didn't hear me. Then I said something else that might have been a little more aggressive. I can't remember what it was, but she still didn't respond. Although I said neither line very loud, I began to think she heard me, and was ignoring me. As usual, after I decided to really holler at her, the restaurant began to get more and more crowded, and she had started mopping in another location, close to the back exit. I'm not about approaching women on stage or all out where everybody is looking. I don't know why Black women want you to approach them in public to prove you're forreal, then get turned off when you actually do approach them in public. To be rejected is one thing, but nobody likes being rejected on stage in front of an audience, unless they're JJ from "Good Times".
So as I was about to leave, I decided to leave my tray at the back exit, near where she was mopping, and give it one more shot. This is where it almost got like that video. I boldly asked her what time she was getting off. And she responded, "Who me?", kinda loud and offended. That's when I realized how young this girl still was. And I replied "yeah". Then she rudely gave me the time she was getting off work. Then I noticed this Hispanic dude sitting at the table behind her, was staring at her, even though he had his lady. I'm sure he wasn't the only one staring our way, especially as loud as the sister was. I was going to follow up, but because she sounded so young, I wasn't sure what she was going to say next. So I played it off and asked, "Why is everybody staring at us?, these some nosing ****). Then I walked away, got me a refill at the fountain, and left. I notice while I was at the fountain, her cock-blocking co-worker came right out and started chatting with her. I know she was glad I didn't follow up, out of envy. And I still think this young curvy sister with the nice ass couldn't tell.
I may be wrong on this, and although they can be a little too nosy to be a group of men who don't like too many of us talking to their women in public, part of the reason that Hispanic guy may have been staring at this sister, is because they don't really like to see women tease men or use body language, then give them a hard way to go. That's just my opinion. This Hispanic guy probably seen Black women do this a lot to Black men. As far a I know, this young sister may have been paying me back for ignoring her co-worker, who knows. But to be honest, I had no intentions on trying to holler at this sister when I first came in this restaurant. Why?, for the same reason how it worked out, and how the situation in the video worked out. Plus she was kinda on the young side. Sometimes you just want to come in there and have a good meal, and not be distracted unless one of those young women really mean business.