After watching the video, I feel like her saying that was not about some sense of superiority over black men but a sense of inferiority in that she knows that she wouldn’t be able to measure up to a black man that has his shyt together. She would rather be with a man on her level, a man that’s a work in progress, because she views herself the same. I don’t see anything wrong with that. Her saying that she doesn’t want a black man doing better than her is out of feelings of inadequateness vs it being an ego thing.