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Not true. LA has great Black women, you just have to be plugged in to the right circles via profession or education. LA networking events had some of the sexiest professional black women.
Black woman living in LA laments not having “Pretty Privilege”.
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Not true. LA has great Black women, you just have to be plugged in to the right circles via profession or education. LA networking events had some of the sexiest professional black women.
No one's getting emotional my guy, This is just a conversation.
We're talking about Mid dudes who get curved by women. What I'm saying is that those cts can self improve and or women like the chick in question can reach the epiphany phase and settle down with a 45 year old HVAC repairman.
That's my point bunless nikkas can either clout up later in life and or chicks can decide that they can deal with a random nikka.
For one momma raised nikkas may not even know they're ugly for years most mid dudes like most mid chicks can do little things to give them just enough cool points to make them acceptable to women. Really the whole problem is that mid chicks like the chick in question just ain't settling for the mid dudes that their parents settled for when they had them.
what men bring to the table, things like money, resources, protection, etc...we don't start peaking until our 40s. Women peak when they are young, in shape, childless, and not
. The lie that men are told is that we should be focused on chasing women in our youth when we should be chasing career/purpose/future so that when we peak we can it we be even better. A lot of men waste their youth chasing women around who themselves are just looking for hot-girl summer until they 30. If you're a young man and you happen to find a wife, sure get married, but dudes spend way too much time chasing these socialites around.We've had alot of this shyt all wrong.
edit: i'm mainly talking about average blue collar dudes.
Yeah it’s long but it’s a brutally honest video. Most of us guys already know what she’s saying is true. I feel bad for her.
For the tl:dr crowd:
- Never felt pretty growing up.
- Went out to eat with her friends on her b-day. Dressed up, got zero attention. Her married mixed creole friend turned heads immediately.
- Her pretty friends wake up to money in their cash app just for being pretty.
- Tends to date “bottom of the barrel guys”.
- “HVM don’t want to spend money on me.”
- Ciara and Lori Harvey attract high value men because of their looks. She could pray for hours and never get her dream man.
- She doesn’t hang out with pretty girls because she was once elbowed out of the way by a guy to get to her friend.
- She has to be loud and funny just to get attention.
- When you’re dark skin and don’t have pretty privilege, you pay double the tax.
- She was on a flight and this black guy she was next to the whole didn’t acknowledge her. He gets on plane and spots a Latina/Indian looking woman. Within 5 minutes they exchanged social details and she was invited to a private party in the Hollywood hills.
- Pretty women at work get away with a lot more and have men offering them help. She works as a teacher and only gets help from the kids.
- Steve Harvey was right about men and women not being able to have platonic relationships.
- She doesn’t have any male friends. She fell in love with a gay male friend because she was getting male attention but it ruined their relationship.
- The only attractive feature she had in highschool was her butt, and the attention she received from it was ‘traumatic’.
I hope she doesn’t call into Kevin Samuel’s show.
She should really move from California. Not an ideal place if you want a black relationship.
lol. This is a typical chick who teaches English overseas.
I literally read that shyt 3 times like
I couldn't believe what I was reading until I saw the comment right under... Women are more down to fukk ugly guys??? Have you seen nikkas when the lights come on in the club, chasing for that last piece of p*ssy? Do you see some of these baby moms? What are you talking about? "nikkas will fukk anything" has been my quote in every ugly ass chick that gets found with some millionaire guy thread on here. Cause no matter how much money, dudes smash ANYTHING.
I used the example of Biggie. Biggie Clouted up and was able to get with Faith.
I know that's an exteme example but there's old ass dusty dudes in the DR with bad chicks on their arm (meaning they're in a relationship with them)
My point is women are generally willing to overlook looks if a nikka is bring something else to the table.
I know genetics doesn't work like that but if chicks where Handsome gang only then there shouldn't be any uglass men.
Besides what's considered fly changes over time. I remember when the Al. B. Sure! nikkas was the wave then it became the Wesley Snipes nikkas.
It used to be the super jacked Arnuld nikkas now bytches fukk with slightly underfed nikkas.
To keep it real what hoes consider handsome gang is low key hoe babble.
YES!!!!
Women are more willing to fukk dudes they find unattractive than men are willing to smash chicks they don’t find attractive?
Stephen Hawking had a bytch, he may have had a beautiful mind but he didn't have anything else, that nikka could barely talk.
Named the gentically deformed hoes that are getting wifed on the regular. I mean this chick isn't deformed why hasn't anyone wifed her?
Jaylen Tatum
Veteran
tarana burke
Mike Nasty
Veteran
Hmmm, there was a cashier at a grocery store. She had the disease where she had to walk using two crutches. She had a normal face, I thought to myself I bet she has a boyfriend. Sure enough I saw her a month later outside the store and it she was married with two kids.
Is it sad, if anything it's mildly unfortunate.
What is sad, is that quiet as kept black women are helping bring the end of black folk in Amerikkka by having unrealistic standards and dying alone like ol girl in OP or worse swirling and creating c00ns (more oft than not). If you get you get it, but for those who don't City Girls mindset, whore culture, being LGBTQ allegiant all alienate level headed, goal driven, stable black men such as myself.
The only thing I share with the woman in OP is I haven't come across a bw that checks my boxes for long term partnership aka "marriage material" (I'm not choosy when it comes to looks either, I just need something on a comparable level of myself aesthetically, it's personality/makeup where all these broads fail). If I can't have a bw spouse, I don't want my own biological kids. Dating out ain't for me, because I know they'll never truly get the black plight, but shyt a lot of the bw don't understand or care for the black plight either, they're just slaves to attention and money.
I'm looking to save, stack, invest, travel and eventually adopt. It's not really sad for me, it's just life, bw with the aid of WS fell the fukk off, it is what it is, can't cry over spilled milk.
She doesn't deserve one, nor has she earned one. She is the primary barrier to this as well. No need to bail out an able bodied and minded adult who is stuck on stupid
I'll have to take your word for it. I'll see soon enough, going to OC to finish up school in a month and I'm doing Accounting, maybe my luck changes. As for the bolded I'm not uber choosy on looks I'm more concerned with them not being basic, materialistic bytches that lack intellectual depth.
