Black woman says Ayesha should've had a hoe phase before marrying Curry.

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  • Women with 10 or more partners were the most likely to divorce, but this only became true in recent years;
  • Women with 3-9 partners were less likely to divorce than women with 2 partners; and,
  • Women with 0-1 partners were the least likely to divorce.
Source: Counterintuitive Trends in the Link Between Premarital Sex and Marital Stability

"Ho phase" is some single mother household equivalent for bro science type babble.
This is bad data because they never speak to how many women are in each group.....


Sure... 0-1 partners stay the longest... Now how many virgins and "i made one mistake" ass women are you meeting?

ZERO... which kinda proves the hoe phase as most women have had one
 

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This is bad data because they never speak to how many women are in each group.....


Sure... 0-1 partners stay the longest... Now how many virgins and "i made one mistake" ass women are you meeting?

ZERO... which kinda proves the hoe phase as most women have had one
conduct your own scientific study then.

Just know you already down 2-0 from this this study and a Millenia of common sense.

The "ho phase" shyt never made sense in the first place. It highly conflicts with other common sense wisdom of "you are what you repeatedly do"


Hoes making a lifestyle out of converting male attention from multiple suitors into money, gifts, rent payments, free drinks, free drugs, trips, clout etc. And Gump ass nikkas expect a woman to 180 from this lifestyle into being Betty housewife at the sight of a nikka on one knee from with a ring. :mjlol: shyt makes no actual logical sense but nikkas have been unironically deluded into feminist babble where evidence to the contrary exists all around them

When are we gonna have some self awareness to the fact that our country/culture and demographics have literally some of the worst marriage/coupling stats in human history when co-signing these bird babble narratives? If this shyt was so smart and made so much sense, shouldn't western men be killing it with marriage and happiness? Why isn't the ho'phase generation making strong families and bonds?? (Lmao)

The burden of proof is on you that this shyt isn't nonsense and you're playing from an extreme deficit rn
 

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SMH. Gotta stay outta people's marriages. There's some obvious things going on in that marriage that is none of our business.
She’s making it the public’s business
When you have a good woman
She protects the sanctity of your marriage and both of y’all’s image
When a woman openly cries about not being lusted by other men while being married to a GOAT athlete
She ain’t shyt and never will be
This debacle shows why most men are saying fukk all that noise with getting married or even dating these bytches
Between Michelle Obama publicly humiliating a man who was THE PRESIDENT OF THE FREE WORLD and this goofy broad
This shyt is speaking volumes on all women’s character of all colors
Even my own wife acknowledges these bytches are cooked :francis:
 

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conduct your own scientific study then.

Just know you already down 2-0 from this this study and a Millenia of common sense.

The "ho phase" shyt never made sense in the first place. It highly conflicts with other common sense wisdom of "you are what you repeatedly do"


Hoes making a lifestyle out of converting male attention from multiple suitors into money, gifts, rent payments, free drinks, free drugs, trips, clout etc. And Gump ass nikkas expect a woman to 180 from this lifestyle into being Betty housewife at the sight of a nikka on one knee from with a ring. :mjlol: shyt makes no actual logical sense but nikkas have been unironically deluded into feminist babble where evidence to the contrary exists all around them

When are we gonna have some self awareness to the fact that our country/culture and demographics have literally some of the worst marriage/coupling stats in human history when co-signing these bird babble narratives? If this shyt was so smart and made so much sense, shouldn't western men be killing it with marriage and happiness? Why isn't the ho'phase generation making strong families and bonds?? (Lmao)

The burden of proof is on you that this shyt isn't nonsense and you're playing from an extreme deficit rn

Facts. Like I said multiple times before in this thread, that hoe phase is good mindset is like saying the least likely person to become a drunk in their 40s is the guy who was a drunk in their 20s and 30s...
 

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I don’t think Ayesha is yearning to go back in time and give her coodacat to Tom, dikk, and Harry. I think she wants an identity outside of being Steph’s wife. Yeah, she has things going for herself, but most people just see her as Steph’s wife.

Women stay giving other women the wrong advice. Bytches act like sucking off Jim, James, Paul, and Tyrone is so fulfilling. F!ck off.

this is the answer.

but you got the birds and nikkaz talkin about "WHAT'S WRONG WITH JUST BEING STEPH'S WIFE!!!!".

Just projecting their own agendas, insecurities, etc. on the situation.
 

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I don’t think Ayesha is yearning to go back in time and give her coodacat to Tom, dikk, and Harry. I think she wants an identity outside of being Steph’s wife. Yeah, she has things going for herself, but most people just see her as Steph’s wife.

Women stay giving other women the wrong advice. Bytches act like sucking off Jim, James, Paul, and Tyrone is so fulfilling. F!ck off.

this is the answer.

but you got the birds and nikkaz talkin about "WHAT'S WRONG WITH JUST BEING STEPH'S WIFE!!!!".

Just projecting their own agendas, insecurities, etc. on the situation.


If she never got with Steph where would she be right now? Successful? Probably so. But would she be as big as she is now? Steph is the prototype every woman wants. Ayesha got him, so what's the problem?
 

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If she never got with Steph where would she be right now? Successful? Probably so. But would she be as big as she is now? Steph is the prototype every woman wants. Ayesha got him, so what's the problem?

problem is she just wants to be known for more than being his wife. I kinda get it.

of course she wouldn't have the life she has, but she wants something she can hang her hat on as well in addition to being Steph's lady.

I can understand that.

I think she could do a better job of articulating it.
 

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People are making this out to be more than what it is. She's not trying to sleep with multiple men. She just wants an identity outside of being a wife and mother, which is normal. Quiet as kept, some of our grandmas told the younger women to follow their dreams not because they're anti family or kids, but because they missed out on their dreams. A lot of people romanticize what they consider the golden age where women were regulated to being homemakers (ignoring the racism coded in this romanticization) , but a lot of them were mentally ill, drunk or were popping pills to survive. From their testimonies what made them happy was having meaningful work.

She was never going to be an actress with a worthwhile career. And honestly, she has to check her ego. It's a double edged sword to be Steph Curry's wife but it gives her more opportunities to pursue things that she wouldn't have normally. They have the financial means. And it shouldn't be a problem unless he's the one that has the issue with it. She needs to keep doing her until she's finds something that makes her feel fulfilled.
 
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So you have to be dragged through the mud to appreciate a good man?

That’s why so many black women are perpetually single.

We went to a birthday party last weekend and 90% of the black women were there together with their “girlfriends.” The few women with men were OLDER (60+).
a lot of people are dumb af
 

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People are making this out to be more than what it is. She's not trying to sleep with multiple men. She just wants an identity outside of being a wife and mother, which is normal. Quiet as kept, some of our grandmas told the younger women to follow their dreams not because they're anti family or kids, but because they missed out on their dreams.

She was never going to be an actress with a worthwhile career. And honestly, she has to check her ego. It's a double edged sword to be Steph Curry's wife but it gives her more opportunities to pursue things that she wouldn't have normally. They have the financial means. And it shouldn't be a problem unless he's the one that has the issue with it. She needs to keep doing her until she's finds something that makes her feel fulfilled.


She can still follow her dreams, what's stopping her?

It's easy to look back and think what could've been, but at the same time she would probably be some average woman living an average life.
 

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problem is she just wants to be known for more than being his wife. I kinda get it.

of course she wouldn't have the life she has, but she wants something she can hang her hat on as well in addition to being Steph's lady.

I can understand that.

I think she could do a better job of articulating it.

Well there's nothing stopping her from hanging her hat on the wall. She has all the time and money to do so.
 

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She can still follow her dreams, what's stopping her?

It's easy to look back and think what could've been, but at the same time she would probably be some average woman living an average life.
True, which is why she needs to check her ego. She's in a privileged position where she can do damn near anything. She should be able to talk about it in a past tense but also mention what she's doing continue that journey.
 
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