"Black women are obsessed with street dudes"- Brehette

[AAKing23]

Simple solution. Don't date women who chase those kind of brothers?

Find you a woman who wants you. If you have to look elsewhere for it, then do it. Just like women can't shame men who are successful into wanting them, you can't force women into wanting you if you are not what they desire. Still, unlike a woman, you should not be falling back on emotionalism to deal with this perceived problem. You should instead be seeking solutions for yourself. Leave the crying and shaming attempts to the females and feminine aspected males.

To be clear once more, you do not have to pursue those women. If it requires you to seek a viable woman elsewhere, then do it.

Nobody is crying about it, we are simply just stating what it is

And this is why black women get the shytty results they get

 

[Phitz]

Ya'll and your rules, ...they will cheat on a street dude with a "square" dude too

You will also have street dudes worried about square dudes taking their girl

Just have confidence in yourself and where you are, there is a lane for you when it comes to smashing



wifing is whole other topic, lets not conflate

 

[africngiant]

I don’t interact with no black women in my life that got a street dude. They married, dating, or talking to black men with real jobs. People be dating the wrong women and be making excuses for why it ain’t working out for them. Just like I don’t have no friends with multiple baby mammas or with no hood chicks. Men do the same shyt these certain women do and be dating hoes with baby daddies. If you are around that, you in the wrong element around the wrong people and in the wrong places.

street adjacent/womanizers* — dudes who they know will be up to no good intentions, have multiple women on their roster who they mistreat, clearly shows that he doesn’t gaf about the btch but they still want them because she thinks she’ll change the bad boy & “fun”. hoes love drama


ie love island and tea app

 

[africngiant]

Ya'll and your rules, ...they will cheat on a street dude with a "square" dude too

You will also have street dudes worried about square dudes taking their girl

Just have confidence in yourself and where you are, there is a lane for you when it comes to smashing



wifing is whole other topic, lets not conflate

street dude gotta work less to smash her and is liable to take her back anytime he wants. he’ll drop her then she’ll want the square nikka after

 

[Phitz]

street dude gotta work less to smash her and is liable to take her back anytime he wants. he’ll drop her then she’ll want the square nikka after

I was an immigrant square and had street dudes worried about me just speaking to their gf. I wasn't trying to smash NONE of them.

Threaten to be shot twice, I ran right into my lane like flash

I had to tell one of them we can't work together in class anymore lol

Another was trying to smash behind his back, I said "go work on your relationship"


Real life doesn't always fit into these rules

 

[Shadow]

"Ain't your momma black?"

"This just exist on the internet."

"Where'd you find this?"

 

[africngiant]

I was an immigrant square and had street dudes worried about me just speaking to their gf. I wasn't trying to smash NONE of them.

Threaten to be shot twice, I ran right into my lane like flash

I had to tell one of them we can't work together in class anymore lol

Another was trying to smash behind his back, I said "go work on your relationship"


Real life doesn't always fit into these rules

that’s fair. what made you an exception? it feels like they all move on fast if you’re not like “that” (the younger ones at least). they gonna lose interest in a heartbeat if you’re a square unless you’re bringing a lot of money in the picture. then most of the time that’s only after they’ve finished playing the field from what i see

 

[Phitz]

that’s fair. what made you the exception? it feels like they move fast if you’re not like that (the younger ones at least) unless you have a lot of money

Alot of guys in general are afraid to be genuine and like to follow too many unneccessary rules. If you're genuine and connect and people connect with you, men and women alike will connect with you and with women attraction can come into play. Being genuine you say and act what people are thinking but feel to shy to say...imho.

 

[semicko82]

A black woman likes street dudes thread in the year 2025

This shyt would've went plat pre COVID, but now it's

 

[prime]

I been call this shyt out and even other BW agree with us

I keep telling coli niqqas a lot of BW who are later millennial (born between 89-95) and Gen z like hood niqqas,hood adjacent niqqas,white men and studs who act like hood niqqas Y’all keep thinking this is cap and niqqas who say this are but even other BW are speaking out about this

 

[Neuromancer]

At this point who cares man. I'm not saving anyone.

 

[desjardins]

If you are competing with hood nikkas for women in your 30s and 40s you have other issues
Yall shouldn't even travel in the same circles or be at the same events at that stage in life.
The women who try to straddle between those two worlds will also reveal themselves

 

[NYC Rebel]

Black men are. Anyone who Black men validate as “real men” Black women will FOLLOW.

 

[alpo]

If you are competing with hood nikkas for women in your 30s and 40s you have other issues
Yall shouldn't even travel in the same circles or be at the same events at that stage in life.
The women who try to straddle between those two worlds will also reveal themselves

These lames will never get it

 

[Ski Mask]

Like someone on twitter said, look at the studs, who they try to emulate the most.