CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
A lot of stuff is caused by the media and people who push and perpetuate that agenda. It's a sort of social conditioning that cause separation and resentment between black men and women, light and darkskin.
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A lot of stuff is caused by the media and people who push and perpetuate that agenda. It's a sort of social conditioning that cause separation and resentment between black men and women, light and darkskin.
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I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
This is just an excuse for c00nery. It's like a black man who says he is afraid of bw and so only talks to ww (we all know these dudes). Hispanics look down on dark Hispanics, let alone black girls. Their anti-black bias ranks as high or higher than cacs. But c00ns see what they want to see . Studies say most ethnic groups hang around their own ethnic group, including African Americans. This implies most black girls hang around black guys and if black guys making fun of black females were an issue, that wouldn't be the case.
Posts like this is why you're so deep in the red
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at least you acknowledge it. the greater majority of both genders have been trained to only look at stereotypes.
Like Mos Def said "We either nikkas or kings, we either bytches or queens".
We grow up thinking we aren't good enough because we don't fit a stereotype we don't even like,
then we chase that stereotype in the opposite sex, knowing due to what we've seen that it's not gonna work. Then we get angry that it didn't.
By the time we've been stripped down to who we actually are and are comfortable with it, we've done so much damage to ourselves and others that we're scared to death that no one will accept us.
That's the whole men vs women thing here and everywhere else in a nutshell.... but we're too busy pretending to be stereotypes to even look at ourselves to change.
at least you acknowledge it. the greater majority of both genders have been trained to only look at stereotypes.
Like Mos Def said "We either nikkas or kings, we either bytches or queens".
We grow up thinking we aren't good enough because we don't fit a stereotype we don't even like,
then we chase that stereotype in the opposite sex, knowing due to what we've seen that it's not gonna work. Then we get angry that it didn't.
By the time we've been stripped down to who we actually are and are comfortable with it, we've done so much damage to ourselves and others that we're scared to death that no one will accept us.
That's the whole men vs women thing here and everywhere else in a nutshell.... but we're too busy pretending to be stereotypes to even look at ourselves to change.
godkiller
"We are the Fury"
The feelings are real for some, perhaps, but that does not make the feelings legitimate.
This is more a question of perception and delusion. Black people's tit-for-tat does not imply black men hate black women or vice versa, but some internalize those feelings and project them into reality. Meanwhile the same people are quiet about websites like Yahoo, YouTube, CBS Sports, etc (which registers thousands of comments everyday) where non-black males anti-black male and female invective everyday (in astounding numbers and approval). The same people ignore the widespread non-black support Cumia received and receives for his anti-black and anti-black female sentiments, instead harassing urban forums. It is this tendency that leads to trolls whom believe that black men hate blacks when that presumption is what they search for and therefore what they always find. Whenever I come across a controversial article about a black male or female, the comments are almost sure to be filled with racism. And if black men really hated black women, that racism would come from black commentator. Stunningly enough the comments come from non-blacks and cacs, almost uniformly, just like every study and every bit of evidence on Earth says they should. Perception and delusion can make a man believe anything.
If this fear were based in anything substantive, all the legions of young black and female ratchets who chill together everyday--notwithstanding the millions upon millions of black people that live outside the USA--wouldn't. Yet somehow they choose to fete in spite of all your so-called teasing, which is just emotionalism and exaggeration on your part. Your concern is a "false cause" fallacy whereupon a person attributes their shytty life to the wrong reasons. For example, an awkward and neurotic black male might get "lame" teased a little in black groups. If he has a weak mind and poor coping skills, he'll run away. The same awkward and neurotic might get less "lame teasing" with non-blacks (he might even be "cool" there), but he will exchange that "lame teasing" for racial jokes and epithets. He might end up estranged and blame "blacks" for his own estrangement and he is still getting teased, albeit in a way he accepts (it might seem a contradiction for a person to choose racism over anything else, but remember the c00n is weak and views blacks in a special light for isolation). The truth it is he who lacks the coping skill, or the confidence, etc. Thereon the false cause fallacy.
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godkiller
"We are the Fury"
In other words, while growing up, you were on the other side of the bell curve on the "lame" side, meanwhile other girls your own age were well-adjusted and happy. You grew up and now you're probably still a confused lame, except the issues have changed. Since you don't get what you want, you are a resentful lonely loser attacking black men. It's like clockwork. The world is not to blame for your own personal failures.
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
What black men have I attacked? Do you feel like I attacked you, boo?In other words, while growing up, you were on the other side of the bell curve on the "lame" side, meanwhile other girls your own age were well-adjusted and happy. You grew up and now you're probably still a confused lame, except the issues have changed. Since you don't get what you want, you are a resentful lonely loser attacking black men. It's like clockwork. The world is not to blame for your own personal failures.
You sound confused, breh...
No everyone should try to find somone on their level. This "good black men dont want black women" narrative is smoke and fukking mirrors.
Its like every guy wants the baddest bytch right? But every guy isnt entitled to that type of pie. So what then? Start spreading a narrative that all pretty women are gold diggers, all pretty women are stuck up, etc. It's smoke and mirrors to make people feel better about rejection and not getting what they want because they're aiming too high.
I'm from Miami, theres a huge black demographic here. I rarely see black/white couples and certainly not more than black/black. Am I gonna see more in Atlanta? am I gonna see more in New York? Am I gonna see more on the campus of FAMU or Morris Brown? No I'm not. I'm gonna see more black/white in places where the black demographic isnt very large.
To put it frankly, these women are either looking for black men where there arent many or they're aiming for black men beyond their level. It isnt black mens fault that black women arent as favored
Sk3ptical
alhamdulillah
at this thread
I hate it when some Black girls bring that "Good hair" bullshyt. It pisses me off so much, I want to punch them in the face.
It's also sad when you can't even befriend the nerdy Black guys because most of them don't want you ..
I remember a former female classmate asking me what shocking event happened in my life for me to start watching animes ..
Lord if this aint the fukking truth.
It's also sad when you can't even befriend the nerdy Black guys because most of them don't want you ..
I remember a former female classmate asking me what shocking event happened in my life for me to start watching animes ..
This is why I stress the power of the individual.
One person is all it takes to prove a stereotype wrong.
And you get to live the life YOU want to live. Nothing beats that.
feelosofer
#ninergang
The comments I see on here and hear in real life are disgusting!! The sexualization of young girls under the age of 18 (especially black girls) needs to stop! Stop calling girls under 18 hoes because you think she is “known around the block” and you think she’s trying to get the guy you like (The fact that some adult women think girls under 18 are their competition in getting adult men is sad and pathetic for multiple reasons but that’s for another confession) Stop calling young black girls “too grown” for wearing certain clothes. Stop saying young black girls are “fast” because they developed breasts at a young age or because she’s dating someone. Stop putting the blame on young black girls who are TARGETED by older men because of their age and their naivety. The worst part is most of these comments are from black women!! How are we gonna stop others oversexualizing black women when we do it to our younger counterparts? If you do any of the things above you do not stand for black womanhood and you can fukk off!
This one commenter said this. CHURCH!!!
This one commenter said this. CHURCH!!!