Black Women Holler At White Guys Not The Other Way Around

[Sindicated]

You do care because you put white and Latina women on a pedestal for being so nice while shaming black women.

Women are women. I have married white women and a Latina girl in an on/off again relationship, ready to throw away everything to fukk while being lovey doves with their partners.

honestly, you sound like them Lipstick Alley broads. The ones that say “black men are dangerous to women” but ignoring that every race of men has hurt/damaged women

Like I said I admit my faults but as @Yinny eloquently put it these are my personal experiences when I was on my ass and my self esteem was the lowest it was white and mainly Latinas who boosted me up while Black women routinely went out their way to make me feel like shyt.

Though I will say it was one Black Woman that actually held me down (took care of me when I was sick cooked for me etc oddly enough she was od white washed most of her friends was white and she was the type of Black Woman that you’d think only fukked with white dudes and these have routinely been the ones who actually treated me with respect)

So I know these type of Black Women exist, it just the fact that they are few and far between.

 

[Yinny]

Do you parrot this same logic on other boards or social media when you see how black women discuss black men with language like “bullet bags”, “target practice”, etc?

Absolutely! I have a small print there as I linger on my fav stro babble and random shyt but they legit have a thread on ugly kids and obvious self-hate topics. I'm catching up to a LOT of shyt I didn't know was happening on the web because it's not my circles and I /we don't find the shyt funny or cute at all. We have a virulent self-hate problem and people can euphemize or code-word what they want when the reality is it's bare bones cuhning and adopting virulently white supremacist rhetoric. Unfortch, my bandwidth for arguing with net dummies is limited and I don't hang in certain spaces where uh, folks feel comfortable entering, nor have platforms to speak these kinds of things (ie I miss it if that's what they are truly saying outside, they don't be in my spaces). My circles are Black and very-well educated and I only have seen "bulletbags" online by hapless Black hating idiots who would get clocked in the face in real life saying that shyt. Using words like that online won't get an argument or debate from me-they get blocked or cursed out, but in my presence, heh, good luck

 

[Sindicated]

@Yinny Are you going to share the time when a Black Man blatantly disrespected you to your face I’m interested in hearing your story

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Though I will say it was one Black Woman that actually held me down (took care of me when I was sick cooked for me etc oddly enough she was od white washed most of her friends was white and she was the type of Black Woman that you’d think only fukked with white dudes and these have routinely been the ones who actually treated me with respect)

So in the end, in spite of the other non-black women boosting your self esteem,., it was a black woman that held you down… and yet you still put the others on a pedestal?

I get that you’ve been hurt but just think about it… when it’s all said and done, no one will hold down a black man more than a black woman. That one you had may seem like a unicorn but believe me they’re not.

For real man, expand your social circles. Don’t let a certain kind of black women cloud your judgement (you even said she wasn’t your “typical” black woman).

 

[Draje]

Like I said I admit my faults but as @Yinny eloquently put it these are my personal experiences when I was on my ass and my self esteem was the lowest it was white and mainly Latinas who boosted me up while Black women routinely went out their way to make me feel like shyt.

Though I will say it was one Black Woman that actually held me down (took care of me when I was sick cooked for me etc oddly enough she was od white washed most of her friends was white and she was the type of Black Woman that you’d think only fukked with white dudes and these have routinely been the ones who actually treated me with respect)

So I know these type of Black Women exist, it just the fact that they are few and far between.

Gotta stop letting your anecdotal experiences take over your mind. You’ve talked with maybe .1% of black women in America and you’re assuming the majority treat you negatively.

Black men and black women are around each other way more than any other races so your negative experiences with them will be higher. Not because BW are meaner/ruder, it’s because you’re around them. Same reason crime is typically intraracial.

Its a matter of proximity and environment. Believe me, I work with and around loads of white women. They’re fake and manipulative as fukk too.

 

[Ahadi]

Are Black males protective of Black females?

Look at the most popular threads on here and let me know their content and the names they're called. Particularly African American women.

To be clear, I'm not in the space of anyone owing anyone they are not related to any claims to protection, but certainly the language shouldn't be oriented towards harm. It's giving self-hate complex.

Y'all do afford certain ethnicities protection but I'mma be quiet about that.
Anyway, my post didn't address protection, simply who y'all give platforms and who you deem as desirable is pretty clear. who you fukk and love is your business, but who you shade, slander and call ugly names ain't. While some Black men and women do fawn over pale or spicy skin, Black women are not at-large unwanted by white men. Nor do we have to be "loyal" to a group of males who use insidious, vulgar language and code words to describe women who share a color with your own goddamn mommas. *sticks up nose* Of course it ain't all y'all but tuh, enough to point out.

You gotta stop with this bullshyt.

Stop parading and chanting this bullshyt. You and all the other BW look like food and other groups will continue to see you as food and take your resources.



Screaming “We don’t feel protected” solves nothing. I hope when a lot of black women have kids they aren’t instilling this color purple / Waiting to exhale rhetoric into their boys & girls.

 

[Sindicated]

So in the end, in spite of the other non-black women boosting your self esteem,., it was a black woman that held you down… and yet you still put the others on a pedestal?

I get that you’ve been hurt but just think about it… when it’s all said and done, no one will hold down a black man more than a black woman. That one you had may seem like a unicorn but believe me they’re not.

For real man, expand your social circles. Don’t let a certain kind of black women cloud your judgement (you even said she wasn’t your “typical” black woman).

I never said non Black Women didn’t hold me down I said out of all the Black Women I’ve dealt with it was one that actually held me down and she was OD white washed.

 

[Yinny]

@Yinny Are you going to share the time when a Black Man blatantly disrespected you to your face I’m interested in hearing your story

I will not, they are anecdotes. No need for you to apologize for the actions of someone else just because you are both Black, but I was given an apology for a night in Brooklyn that got pretty crazy almost immediately after things "went down" ---> got hella physical with a group of Hispanic females and i was the victor. That's all I'l say. Way off-topic and did not sway any of my decisions on who to date, i was dating a Black man at the time who was not present and continued doing so.

 

[Sindicated]

Gotta stop letting your anecdotal experiences take over your mind. You’ve talked with maybe .1% of black women in America and you’re assuming the majority treat you negatively.

Black men and black women are around each other way more than any other races so your negative experiences with them will be higher. Not because BW are meaner/ruder, it’s because you’re around them. Same reason crime is typically intraracial.

Its a matter of proximity and environment. Believe me, I work with and around loads of white women. They’re fake and manipulative as fukk too.

Yeah I know this I was working on changing my mindset when the situation at my last gig happened that fukked me up. I’m purposely not trying to view all Black Women in a negative light which is why the next city I’m moving to will be a predominantly Black city.

 

[Sindicated]

I will not, they are anecdotes. No need for you to apologize for the actions of someone else just because you are both Black, but I was given an apology for a night in Brooklyn that got pretty crazy almost immediately after things "went down" ---> got hella physical and i was the victor. That's all I'l say. Way off-topic and did not sway any of my decisions on who to date, i was dating a Black man at the time who was not present and continued doing so.

Ok I understand I just wanted to know because I hear this shyt all the time online but when asked to share experiences they never do.

 

[Ahadi]

Cant dismiss other brehs experiences. That’s a big problem as well.

As “brehs” we should be listening and not just brushing it off because we can’t fathom the idea.

Strong black men can feel shyt too.

 

[HARLEM AL]

Yea I understand why they don’t want to believe it, shyt is a tough pill to swallow, but when people bring up the marriage rates AND std rates in the Black community it’s always directed at us.

There’s a deeper reason why a lot of Black Men don’t want to get married and why stds is a problem in the community, But because of simp ass mamas boys shyt will never be addressed.

As Black Men we need to focus on getting the bag and fukking hoes on some no strings attached shyt anything else is a waste.

Honestly bruh, its the women that dont want to get married. Even in this environment that isnt good for them there is a shyt load of dudes wanting to get married. Its the women that dont want to be married. If they do they want a partnership, which isnt marriage.....

 

[Yinny]

Yeah I know this I was working on changing my mindset when the situation at my last gig happened that fukked me up. I’m purposely not trying to view all Black Women in a negative light which is why the next city I’m moving to will be a predominantly Black city.

It’s a problem with your mind when you think like this. I cannot and will not without evidence say at large this is a view I should hold of Black men because 1 or 2 or even 20 did or said something. I have lived around Black people much ofmy life and can give a factual breakdown of ethnicities that have been disrespectful unwarranted and unengaged by me-and I still wouldn’t say—-> all “X”s are like this. Trends have emerged however.

 

[Ahadi]

Yea I understand why they don’t want to believe it, shyt is a tough pill to swallow, but when people bring up the marriage rates AND std rates in the Black community it’s always directed at us.

There’s a deeper reason why a lot of Black Men don’t want to get married and why stds is a problem in the community, But because of simp ass mamas boys shyt will never be addressed.

As Black Men we need to focus on getting the bag and fukking hoes on some no strings attached shyt anything else is a waste.

This is what happens when a lot of BW are running these social media accounts of corporate companies. Going off on emotional editiorial rants, sending mix messaging and posting in the benefit of their “sisterhood” & non-black ally’s who they think are their ally’s.


We need black male media, black male summits, black male promotion, etc.

 

[Yinny]

Which are fine to have, I support and think y’all should have safe spaces and outlets for y’all-but on here, y’all keep funneling energy into
charlatans and obvious homosexuals, former pimps. Is that truly who you want representing you?

You also complain about (Very smart brothas) and (Blavity?) which iirc are helmed by Black
men.

do you engage the content or ask to be a contributor or are you looking for a hivemind hero?