Black Women says that they want to submit to us, we just have to being doing financially better then them to unlock it.

[The Fade]

Yes to be a leader you have to have your shyt in order first. But a chick who wears a bonnet and gets on the the internet to yell at random strangers about submitting and a man has to basically fight her and win her submission is bottom of the barrel and not even close to being wife material.

It’s always gotta be some Final Boss fight just to get along

Everything is paywalled around a conflict

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Actually she is if she respect you. All a man got to do is the traditional man stuff like take out the trash, cut the grass, do house work like handy man shyt. A man that cooks and cleans when he has a woman in the house and it’s not voluntary charge her to the game and move on

Chores should be split 50/50. Cutting grass and taking out garbage only needs to happen once a week. No adult should need another adult to clean up after themselves. If that's the case, they house probably stinks and got roaches.

 

[Shadow King]

Let's be real now, how the fukk are you going to give direction to a woman and she makes more than you.

Most men in those situations have to deal with all sorts of bullshyt

By being a man...

 

[B86]

All my life I was amazed at how majority of people claim they are broke to the point where to can’t even spare $10-$20. I came to the conclusion recently most are not being literal they just don’t reveal they shyt and in hindsight it’s smart because exposing your hand can open up endless BS so my mantra now is to not tell anybody about my finances I don’t care who they are money topics at this point are annoying to me I don’t even entertain it unless they talking about making money even then if it’s not making sense quick enough I discard what they talking about

*Sorry for the rant, in advance*

There is some truth to this. Only thing is, within the last 2-3 years or so, if somebody said they don't have $10-20 to spare, a lot of the time they really mean it.

I don't know if you ever heard the song 'No Favors' by Yella Beezy, but it's my favorite song. To sum it up, nobody has ever experienced me asking them to borrow money and they never see me "broke", so they assume I got it and love to call/text for money. Which is fine; I don't mind helping and I'm truly glad that I can help, but damn it gets old. And go figure, I'm the one in the family and out of all the friends that has the most kids, a wife; whole family to support but they are still cool with calling me because I don't display when I'm hurting. But that's also because I'm damn good with creating weekly, monthly, semi-annual, and annual budgets and sticking to them so it's hard to go broke. I can tell you how much money I'm going to have in 5 years, give or take a couple thousand.

Sorry for the rant. Your comment just brought out the frustration I've been having lately with this "borrowing" shyt.

 

[AAKing23]

No need, I ain’t marrying none of these bytches

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

By being a man...

There's a lot of factors that makes you a man who's the leader. You can't be making $25,000 and calling yourself head of household.

That's how society has worked since the dawn of time.

 

[BrentWoodSean38]

Chores should be split 50/50. Cutting grass and taking out garbage only needs to happen once a week. No adult should need another adult to clean up after themselves. If that's the case, they house probably stinks and got roaches.

It’s not about need, it’s about knowing your role and shutting your mouth . Gender roles will always exist Like I said you got a woman demanding you cook she don’t respect you you not even a real man to her at that point and she probably smashing another nikka too

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

It’s not about need, it’s about knowing your role and shutting your mouth . Gender roles will always exist Like I said you got a woman demanding you cook she don’t respect you you not even a real man to her at that point and she probably smashing another nikka too

No she shouldn't make demands, but we shouldn't expect her to cook 7 days a week.


Everybody is tired after work, why not make things easier for each other?

 

[FishNGrits]

Actually she is if she respect you. All a man got to do is the traditional man stuff like take out the trash, cut the grass, do house work like handy man shyt. A man that cooks and cleans when he has a woman in the house and it’s not voluntary charge her to the game and move on

That’s cool, I mean I clean because I don’t want to live in a nasty azz house but if you don’t clean your living space that’s cool

 

[Premeditated]

You supposed to be with someone who got similar cultural values. Ain’t no “turning off”
It’s not supposed to be a fight. We’re providing risk protection and gathering wealth for our families. Not starring in a Real Housewives show

If you have masculine energy or bad cultural values I’m not spending time getting you to “turn it off”
Your daddy was already supposed to beat that out of you and condition you to be a bride. That means you’re behind

so you tell me which culture anywhere around the world that has women that naturally go to men that have less means than her and submit to those men?

 

[Gizmo_Duck]

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

and at the same time if you wasn't with me shooting in the gym you don't get to taste the better life if your only asset is p*ssy, your submission is not a value added asset.

word to our dead coli dad Mr. Samuels.

 

[Roid Jones]

 

[Ozymandeas]

So if I’m making $75K but my wife makes $125K, I gotta deal with a nasty attitude? Yea. Hard pass. Y’all have fun with that though.

 

[BrentWoodSean38]

No she shouldn't make demands, but we shouldn't expect her to cook 7 days a week.


Everybody is tired after work, why not make things easier for each other?

she can make a sandwich in a matter of minutes my guy