This shows the mindset of a lot of black women (little girls)…when I was younger, a few of my little gfs told me I was too nice…wtf kinda ish….okay, so now i see why there is so much abuse, aggression, and violence within our community…our men aren't men enough for our own women...GTFOH…our little boys have to become monsters/killers to even find attraction within our own race/neighborhood…boys are killing other boys for respect from someone who ain't worth spit…this homo/role reversal lifestyle has lttle girls pulling these kind of moves too...
But what's really bad about that concept is that most Black Women have become so thuggish and brutish that they can only see Black Men capable of Lying and Beating them to really feel like they got a "Man" which is the tragedy of life in Urban Inner City America for the last 50 or so years.
If you ask a typical "Black Women" of the "Urban Ghettos" to pick between a "Thug", "Player" or "Regular Black Man"(You know them) as to who best fits the qualities of "Masculinity", "Dependability", "Promiscuity", "Wealthy", "Fatherly", "Criminality", "Brutality", "Sexuality", and "Future Present" and you gave them only 3 choices between them...you likely see a black women choose like this:
Thug: Masculinity, Criminality. Brutality
Player: Promiscuity. Sexuality. Wealthy.
RBM: Dependability, Fatherly, Future Present
Now some Black Women would exchange Brutality with Sexuality if they could get away with it because they'd likely think being "bytch Slapped" is stimulation. Some Black Women are so poor(living on WIC/Section8) that any man who though money at them seems to be wealthy except many "Players" get cash from Mom or they GFs. As for the RBM's, sadly the six quality some Black Women look for in a man are ingrained in them as children so its unlikely they'd even realize how important the RBM quality are for a successful life. Which is why life in "Urban Inner City America" is so unsuccessful.
