Black women told me black men and boys are coddled ...

[Cadillac]

this is a narrative these bytches especially those aligned with LSA type broads keep pushing.

 

[Hungerpain]

Even if it was true(it isn't) who is "coddling" these lil nikkas because it damn sure ain't no fathers.
Oh yea single mothers that are too damaged and stupid to realize that treating their son like their "king" and best friend isn't good parenting.

Whole country caters to and makes life easy for women and bytches got the nerve to be jealous and call the most oppressed group of people In the country(black men/boys)"coddled" because his mom that dragged him into this bullshyt world where the cards are stacked against him for her own selfish reasons buys him some shyt every now and then.

Incredible.

 

[Prynce]

I appreciate your self awareness at your age.

Thank you.

 

[Prynce]

Wasn’t there another thread where posters were saying that black women baby their sons and raise their daughters and a lot of posters agreed? But now it’s a lie and black boys are neglected and black girls are spoiled?


I’m confused. Is this another attempt to feel sorry for yourself and shyt on black women?

From my experience fathers spoil their daughters and mothers spoil their sons. That’s how it was in my family.

This is me saying that both little black boys and little black girls both have it harder on average than other children

But this recent trend of women regurgitating some academia without understanding it tend to forget that black boys suffer violence and neglect way more than black girls

That isn't being coddle. Also Im not into oppression Olympics between BW and BM. Thats retarded

 

[Wild self]

Low key a lot of people from older generations have a resentment towards today's children. Mainly because kids get whatever they want from their parents. A luxury they did not have when they were coming up.

Personally, I have no problem with "spoiling", as long as they are well-mannered, responsible, and respectful of others, and do well in school.

Most of these kids turn out fine anyway.

To a certain extent, this is true. Especially people growing up in the crack era. They see kids today with all these expensive gadgets and toys, that the oldheads feel like they missed out on a prime childhood.

 

[Legal]

Female children in GENERAL are more coddled and tend to be more likely to grow up entitled regardless of race. We assume girls need more protection and are more sensitive so we put more resources into making them comfortable and protecting them.

Boys grow up being told that nobody gives a fukk about your feelings and you need to get tougher when life gets tough.

People just desperate for a boogeyman and to run from their poor choices.

Sounds about right. Nearly every man that has a girl trends toward being overprotective. For some, it's a matter of them thinking only they can help their child avoid the fukkery they've seen women stuck in in their lifetime. Others are lead by societal norms to believe that all girls are, by default, too soft to handle the world on their own.

Boys are often told from the youngest age that no one will be there for them, and they need to handle their own problems, because no one else cares to.

Wasn’t there another thread where posters were saying that black women baby their sons and raise their daughters and a lot of posters agreed? But now it’s a lie and black boys are neglected and black girls are spoiled?


I’m confused. Is this another attempt to feel sorry for yourself and shyt on black women?

From my experience fathers spoil their daughters and mothers spoil their sons. That’s how it was in my family.

Can't speak for that thread, but I'd say that statements like that are usually terribly formed generalizations.

Just going from what i saw growing up and interacting with people, I THINK people who say that are really just referring to single mothers (regardless of race) that didn't have adequate preparation or support for parenthood. I've seen plenty of cases where the mother will baby her son because he's effectively the only constant positive male relationship they have (other than their own parents).

But there are plenty of single mothers that are able to balance everything and raise well adjusted children despite their disadvantage.

However, I really don't think saying that boys are facing a tougher situation than girls was the original point of the tweet. I think it was really just to point out that boys have their own struggles as well.

 

[Elle Driver]

Low key a lot of people from older generations have a resentment towards today's children. Mainly because kids pretty much get whatever they want from their parents. A luxury they did not have when they were coming up.

Personally, I have no problem with "spoiling", as long as they are well-mannered, responsible, and respectful of others, and do well in school.

14 year-old Brianna has 5 A's and 3 B's, keeps her room clean, washes dishes without being told, and doesn't talk back.....asks you to get her those new Jordan's that come out in 2 weeks.

"They're yours, sweetie"

Besides, most of these kids turn out fine anyway.

I hate that mentality. Just cause you grew up strict even if you did well, dudnt mean you have to. My kids do well, Ima spoil em if I can afford to. They responsible and don’t have to be chased after to do what they got to, I’ll reward them. I noticed that resentment too. They be wanting you to continue cycles of nonsense because they jealous and miserable.

 

[feelosofer]

Coddled by who, because Black boys are essentially left to fend for themselves by the time they hit puberty maybe a few years before.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Coddled by who, because Black boys are essentially left to fend for themselves by the time they hit puberty maybe a few years before.

Forced to be the man of the house before 13. Tough world.

 

[The Fade]

I hate that mentality. Just cause you grew up strict even if you did well, dudnt mean you have to. My kids do well, Ima spoil em if I can afford to. They responsible and don’t have to be chased after to do what they got to, I’ll reward them. I noticed that resentment too. They be wanting you to continue cycles of nonsense because they jealous and miserable.

Yeah we need to talk about this sorry group of elders who compete with their progeny

“Oh you 10? I was 12 when I was your age” ass bums who don’t wanna pass down wealth

“This is mines, get ya own little nikka”

 

[The Fade]

Forced to be the man of the house before 13. Tough world.

There’s belief that if a black man isn’t constantly doing something or going thru strife then he has no worth and deserves no love. There’s something off if he’s seen relaxing. It’s a taboo

My pops would talk to me about shyt like this, left over psyche damage from slavery. Even other black men look down on you too

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

This is me saying that both little black boys and little black girls both have it harder on average than other children

But this recent trend of women regurgitating some academia without understanding it tend to forget that black boys suffer violence and neglect way more than black girls

That isn't being coddle. Also Im not into oppression Olympics between BW and BM. Thats retarded

This seems like a good opportunity to remind them of that stat.

From my own experiences I’ve seen first hand black boys getting abused and even heard stories from others so if it is this prevalent as it seems then it needs to be given more attention and something needs to be done about it. It can’t just be used to throw in someone’s face as a counterpoint to their argument.

There’s a very thin line between discipline and abuse.

 

[Wiles]

A man defends himself...

No sense of brotherhood..

White man did a number on black folk

 

[Neuromancer]

Oh you 10? I was 12 when I was your age

 

[Neuromancer]

No sense of brotherhood..

White man did a number on black folk

You hate to see it. We are our brothers keeper.