missyleebunny
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It's broad, sweeping generalizations like these that stop headway and real discussions from being had.
Try again.
Blacks In IR Gotta Realize They Are No Longer Part Of The Black Community
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It's broad, sweeping generalizations like these that stop headway and real discussions from being had.
Try again.
missyleebunny
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Yes. wtf. I haven't read the tread, there's 5 pages, I can't be arsed.
Nope. BW-WM is such a small population that it is more than fair to describe the niche.
missyleebunny
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Nope. This is your opinion colored by your jealosy and hypocrisy towards such pairings.
Far from anything that will help us have a re discussion that makes progress.
Why do you like wm bw relationships so much
missyleebunny
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Who said that? ??
Only thing I see you post about
GiGi
Slaying Bed Bucks™ since 1981
Breh.
Gigi basically said she can't attract black dudes because she doesn't look a certain "type" of black. I don't see why she'd lie about that. I mean she could have said black dudes want her but she doesn't want them but she didnt.
Gigi like Chris B probably got made fun of by blacks for looking to black. Now they c00ning it up.
Nah I think they're both extremely hurt and have low self esteem.
Gigi talks crap on black men all the time. But she finally slipped up and said basically she wants to date black men but can't attract them.
I mean let's be honest. A black women in California with all the Eva Longorias, Drayas, Lucy Lui's, Kim Kardashian that is dark skin and afrocentric isn't getting that much play from black men and you know it. Gigi is one of those women who went off the deep end and because of that developed a hatred for black men and now dates whites.
She doesn't believe a black guy would want her. That's sad to me.
Didn't "slip"; I have always openly on this site talked about not being asked out by black men. In my experience black men will usually either look/admire/then not approach or completely ignore. I do not hate black men but I hate the way that (some/many) black men treat black women.
I have never been teased for being too dark (I am brown skinned....not that it should matter). I receive compliments on my looks often enough to not question my level of attractiveness (I am not trying to sound conceited just stating my experience). And I have a healthy self esteem and sense of self (and standards).
But let me just state that I am not alone in my experience. Many black women simply do not discuss the "issue" in the same context in which I do. I am simply the other side of the coin. I am the black woman who views (B) and (C) as options whereas many other black women do not.
What bothers me most about having this discussion is that the ENTIRE emphasis is on "Well, what's wrong with GiGi?" There is NOTHING wrong with GiGi. That's the point. There is nothing wrong with the way in which I move throughout this world BUT as a black woman I am always viewed as the "problem". There is a lack of intellectual honesty in any of these discussions because black men never seem to want to be really honest about the reasons behind many of the "statistics" that are constantly being thrown in the faces of black women.
GiGi
Slaying Bed Bucks™ since 1981
I can not speak for anyone else but I am none of the above. Not uptight. Not afraid to be in my own skin (I'm a black woman who wears her natural hair...can't get more "comfortable in my own skin" than that). And I am beyond comfortable amongst "my" people in social settings as well as in mixed or all-white settings.
missyleebunny
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Nope. Only thing you choose to see, sure.
Left to your own devices, bm will conclude whatever is most soothing to their egos, regardless of truth.
Both sides have to be present to have a meaningful discussion.
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