Boys, does my preference make me racist ?

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You did good. I feel the same. All races of men feel this way about their women. Why are black men "insecure" for feeling the same? :what:

Whiteboy finds out a white woman has slept with a black man, she's "tainted". Its always been like that:what:

...except that's not the case here because....

:wow:

Aite, backstory.

Bout 2 months ago, I met this chick and been fukking with her since. Around the time we first started talking, we got into the convo of dating and our types. I told her I only date black women and she told me she doesn't have a preference and dates any race and that her ex was white :ehh:



So im like cool, that wasn't gonna stop me from fukking with her
, however, it was gonna stop me from getting serious with her since I cant seriously be with a chick whose been with white guys:francis:( of course I didn't tell her that at that point cause I was tryna fukk :pachaha:)

...and OP might be a decent dude and all. I could never know him personally, but your actions seem kind of corny, IMO. Cape smiley me down if you must, but it just comes across that way.

Seems like you're pumping and dumping a black woman (who you claim to "love") while using pro-blackness and your feelings about oppression as an excuse... :francis: :camby:

Just be real with yourself and realize that you really didn't feel her like that...or when she told you off-rip, you could have let her know how you felt...OR if you're really savage like that, then fukk, lose her number, and hit her with the "who dis?"

You're in here sounding like it only bothers you that she wants a relationship but it's pretty apparent that you want to keep her around.

She told you what it was up front and if you truly felt that strongly about it, you would've kept it pushing before you started fukking the chick. Let's say you knock her up. shyt happens. You're leaving that black kid in a single parent home because she was up front about her past and you chose to fukk anyway? To be fair, I think it's just as corny when guys on here preach that "I only love black women. I mean, I might fukk white chicks, but never anything serious." If you're truly that pro-black then you shouldn't be presenting any opportunity for procreation. :ld:
 

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What's with these shaming tactics?

It's how women police men's (especially black men) sexual activities. A lot of women today want the freedom to do whatever they please and sleep with whomever they want but still want men to value them as a prized possession. Sorry, it doesn't work that way. Men have standards as well.
 
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You make it sound as if OP did something wrong :mjpls:.
Well jeez....UH YEAH......she's good enough for sex, but nothing more because, she was w/a man who had little to no melanin(maybe she made a mistake, maybe her taste in men changed). We are never going to have any kind of nation building if we are so concerned w/such pettiness. :mjpls:
 

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Of course not, because I believe this goes both ways. I wouldn't have a problem dating a black man if he had previously been w/a white woman. As long as he isn't being disrespectful, how is it affecting this relationship?

And if you have kids, what view of the world will you give them?
 

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so a man is a fukboi for not being honest about his intentions(which women want to know)
but its ok for a woman to hide her past (which men want to know)

sounds like your just another female hypocrite

nikka it's not the same situation!!! :mindblown: Talking about past relationships or not is a choice everybody has and if you are not ok with it you just have to stop seeing that person and that's it.
By lying about your intentions you are using a person and you are playing with her feelings which I know for you men it's ok and you don't give a damn fukk.
And that is the exact reason why women ask the " what are we " question after a while. Because no one wants to invest time or feelings on someone without being clear about the so mentioned " intentions ". :birdman:
 

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It shouldn't matter what race of men she slept with. You are offended that she was with a white man, but obviously the dack didn't care and only wanted to thrust. If you really can't trust/don't mess with women who have been w/white men-why not just totally disregard them all together(including sex)? They are "tainted", so it's best that you not taint any part of your body either. Glad you don't speak for the majority of black men

:comeon: Did you see me call anyone tainted. If we all have preferences, why you tripping of mine ? :stopitslime:

Shyt ain't hurting nobody.
 

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My bytch lets me know about the cac last week

Her: white Guys have small to medium never big, black guys are mostly big

Me: thanks for that info , but let's stop talking about this

lol
 
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For the most part , no racial group of men wants to wife a chick who has been getting banged out by outsiders. :yeshrug: It's a territorial thing breh

Now.. Yall do know that this only applies to the insecure men right... There is a wild assortment of white boys who have bedded and wedded sisters whom were pounded out by the best..... :whew: and vice versa....

At the end of the day, if you're a helluva man.... chicks gonna respect it and dig you for it, regardless of color....
 
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The right thing to do is let her know that they're incompatible the very moment she told him that she's been with a white person, but nikkas is cowards so he kept fukking because he couldn't be upfront, that's c00n shyt tbh.


Real Talk..... Never fukk with another person's emotions like that... We as men shouldn't have to go that route.... Now I understand doing this shyt in your teens, and maybe early 20s... but once you reach a certain level of maturity..... misleading a chick shouldn't be an option..... never had to do it.. never will
 

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Real Talk..... Never fukk with another person's emotions like that... We as men shouldn't have to go that route.... Now I understand doing this shyt in your teens, and maybe early 20s... but once you reach a certain level of maturity..... misleading a chick shouldn't be an option..... never had to do it.. never will

A lot of boys never grow up to be men, they're just grown kids and they behave as such.
 

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Real Talk..... Never fukk with another person's emotions like that... We as men shouldn't have to go that route.... Now I understand doing this shyt in your teens, and maybe early 20s... but once you reach a certain level of maturity..... misleading a chick shouldn't be an option..... never had to do it.. never will

A lot of boys never grow up to be men, they're just grown kids and they behave as such.

:sas1:just stop dropping gems and let these nikkas have children out of wedlock with someone that they are incompatible with...:sas2:They say nothings a good teacher like experience....
 

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oh shut up yall use nikkas for free meals while actively making them feel like they have a shot to get with yall
fukk outta here men and women both have bs they use to get by on the other sex

Omg the free meals thing :pachaha: stttoopppp, take your $30 salmon and mash entree and sit down somewhere
 
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