Breahs: My girl is attempting to ban me from tricking on my ex. smh.

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i stopped fukkign her like 5 months ago (that was only 3 times after 1 year of not hitting it) ... so that chapter is done.... n my girl not sharing (any more)

and she can take care of herself.. but they will just be pay check to pay check and i'll feel bad cuz she's actually a nice person + my son is a lil god.

If she working on bettering her situation?
 

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Wut else do u buy her tho? I dont see nuttin wrong wit the car as thats a family possession and ur boys gonna get driven in it too.

But if u out here buyin her gucci handbags n shyt :patrice:
 

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just because im not a shytty person doesn't mean im perfect.
U always come at my neck n talk shyt.. I never diss u queen. Seems like ur a judgmental and shytty person. But its ok.... chicks like u have given me the most p*ssy
 

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hell my 1st husband mayneeeeeeeeeeee he took care of the boys erry need, bought me a cutlass, but all that extra shyt i had to hustle for, he'd gimme what i needed to make the money but I had to get out there, and as fucced up as it may be , it made me a better person.
 

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I don't really think it's current girl's business. You were doing this before she came into the picture.... so obviously you felt it was necessary. Plus, your child's mother will always be there.... i didn't read you saying anything about this new woman becoming your wife.. if she was your wife, then that's different..

If you cut back on what you do for your BM, make sure that it is YOUR decision, not b/c of what the new girl said. You don't wanna cause issues between you and her, which may make it hard for yall to coparent and shyt. Not to mention, don't want any issues with your child's mom and your new girl...
 

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Wut else do u buy her tho? I dont see nuttin wrong wit the car as thats a family possession and ur boys gonna get driven in it too.

But if u out here buyin her gucci handbags n shyt :patrice:
Pay her half of school for him. Paid dte when she was very late. Paid other random things.

Nothing consistent... like today gave her 100. This is y my girl started tripping like, "r u her man"...

She's conscious and afrocentric, lol... on of those types... so naw there wouldn't be any high end brands. But whole foods organic foods... and all natural products cost a lot
 

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Pay her half of school for him. Paid dte when she was very late. Paid other random things.

Nothing consistent... like today gave her 100. This is y my girl started tripping like, "r u her man"...

She's conscious and afrocentric, lol... on of those types... so naw there wouldn't be any high end brands. But whole foods organic foods... and all natural products cost a lot
So u wouldnt exageratin when u said "trickin" :patrice:

Yeh i think ur girl has the right to feel some typa way breh
 

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I don't really think it's current girl's business. You were doing this before she came into the picture.... so obviously you felt it was necessary. Plus, your child's mother will always be there.... i didn't read you saying anything about this new woman becoming your wife.. if she was your wife, then that's different..

If you cut back on what you do for your BM, make sure that it is YOUR decision, not b/c of what the new girl said. You don't wanna cause issues between you and her, which may make it hard for yall to coparent and shyt. Not to mention, don't want any issues with your child's mom and your new girl...
coparenting is one thing that means they come together. but if he pulling all the weight n she aint making no effort.....
 

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What is the race of yo girl?
Curious :patrice:
and it's none of her fukking business the fukk you taking care of yo seed ultimately.

One thing I think is that nikkas need to understand if you can still be cool with yo baby momma but u got yo other shyt going on its alright. This ultimately helps the kid not to grow fukked up in a kinda a way cuz yall separated but its in an harmonious type of way
I mean shyt my parents kinda like that(my dad helped her on getting us a house n shyt and he gave her his old car he dont pay no child support never and now we all 18+)

Man as speaking for yo child:"fukk THAT bytch" !!! :pacspit:
 

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She might continue to live paycheck to pay check if she has you picking up the slack. Being a nice person is irrelevant. If you are done with that, your money has to be done too. As long as your son is taken care of. Make sure he has what he needs and leave it at that. Anything else will cause problems. If she can't get it together then maybe he should be with you.

I can understand helping out one in a blue moon. But trickin? no.
 
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