BREAKING Anthony Bourdain dead from suicide at 61

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You know, this shyt is really bothering me this morning...

As a 41 year old white man (I know :flabbynsick:) I can tell you I have found myself home from work, kids in bed, sitting with a drink watching TV and realizing I’m not really watching it.

I’m just sitting in this house, with all this stuff surrounding me, with no clue what I want to be when I grow up, and then realize I’m already grown up.

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I can imagine with depression, feelings of isolation, addiction etc, that type of thinking can really lead you down a well.

CAC ALERT!!!! :dame:
 

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...how ridiculous is it to see folks caping for selfish unassisted suicide by juelzing mental illness....


NAMI and Suicide sympathizers have to stop doing that ... at its most rudimentary level, suicide has some measure of a self-centered element, if not outright selfishness.


Just call a spade a spade :snoop:


RIP, tho.
 

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Man fukk what y’all talking about in here. If I wanted to commit suicide, I’d do the shyt and not think twice. It’s MY life. I can do whatever I want with it. Kids or not. But I’ve always admitted to being selfish. I definitely consider myself a good person though. But it is what it is. My life is about me. I don’t have kids. Maybe if I had kids my mind frame would change. But if I wanted to commit suicide right now, I’d wouldn’t give two fukks about how friends and family felt. If I wanna do some shyt, I’m gonna do the shyt. Period. It is what it is
 

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NAMI and Suicide sympathizers have to stop doing that ... at its most rudimentary level, suicide has some measure of a self-centered element, if not outright selfishness.


Just call a spade a spade :snoop:


RIP, tho.
Nope. U guys cannot rationalize that illness from the point of view of someone who's healthy. Talk to an actual suicide survivor
 

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Nope. U guys cannot rationalize that illness from the point of view of someone who's healthy. Talk to an actual suicide survivor

I’m not the healthiest emotionally by any means :mjlol:

Many are NOT.


But damn we got grown men on here that refuse accountability :mindblown:


Here are the passes for suicide (low level/absence of selfishness/self centeredness)

Intense past trauma
PTSD
Verifiable neurochemical changes in brain affecting mood/physiological functioning
Wholesale, complete loss of EVERYTHING you loved, “owned” and cared about (this one can go either way but I’d damn sure get it if someone said “fukk it” after such a catastrophic loss)
Major Depressive Disorder
Terminal Illness (although many LIVE and live harder when they get the news of terminal illness)
Sudden loss of major body functions/parts (see above for people who still choose to LIVE harder)




Y’all gotta stop with this shyt ... really. Y’all gotta stop.


Man fukk what y’all talking about in here. If I wanted to commit suicide, I’d do the shyt and not think twice. It’s MY life. I can do whatever I want with it. Kids or not. But I’ve always admitted to being selfish. I definitely consider myself a good person though. But it is what it is. My life is about me. I don’t have kids. Maybe if I had kids my mind frame would change. But if I wanted to commit suicide right now, I’d wouldn’t give two fukks about how friends and family felt. If I wanna do some shyt, I’m gonna do the shyt. Period. It is what it is
Appreciate that honesty and measure of accountability .
 
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I’m not the healthiest emotionally by any means :mjlol:

Many are NOT.


But damn we got grown men on here that refuse accountability :mindblown:


Here are the passes for suicide (low level/absence of selfishness/self centeredness)

Intense past trauma
PTSD
Verifiable neurochemical changes in brain affecting mood/physiological functioning
Wholesale, complete loss of EVERYTHING you loved, “owned” and cared about (this one can go either way but I’d damn sure get it if someone said “fukk it” after such a catastrophic loss)
Major Depressive Disorder
Terminal Illness (although many LIVE and live harder when they get the news of terminal illness)
Sudden loss of major body functions/parts (see above for people who still choose to LIVE harder)




Y’all gotta stop with this shyt ... really. Y’all gotta stop.
Are you the gatekeeper of determining what level someone's personal turmoil should be or some shyt. This is devolving into simple critical thinking now. You know most people don't see how you may feel on the inside regardless of your external circumstances. So what are we even talking about here?

People are ignoring the long term struggle that he was clearly going through for the sake of taking some high horse position on the subject. It's obvious he was battling for a long time, and just like the body succumbs to cancer, the mind can succumb to suicide. It's true. It can't not be.
 

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Are you the gatekeeper of determining what level someone's personal turmoil should be or some shyt. This is devolving into simple critical thinking now. You know most people don't see how you may feel on the inside regardless of your external circumstances. So what are we even talking about here?

People are ignoring the long term struggle that he was clearly going through for the sake of taking some high horse position on the subject. It's obvious he was battling for a long time, and just like the body succumbs to cancer, the mind can succumb to suicide. It's true. It can't not be.

:mjlol:


The poster you dapped a couple of posts ago just admitted to being selfish.

You guys are something else :mjlol:


Be well AND accountable . :ufdup:
 

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:mjlol:


The poster you dapped a couple of posts ago just admitted to being selfish.

You guys are something else :mjlol:


Be well AND accountable . :ufdup:


You damn right I’m selfish about MY life. It’s mine. It’s not for other people, it’s for me. I used to be insensitive to suicide, until my best friends 14 year old sister hung herself in the living room and her parents came home and saw har hanging. That changed my views.

Sometimes in life it’s a choice between 2 bad choices. Someone’s mindframe with kids could be, either stay here and suffer, or take my life away and satisfy myself, but leave trauma for your kids to deal with. Like I said, maybe my mind frame would change if I had kids. I don’t have kids. As it stands now, if I wanted to commit suicide, then I’m doing the shyt. Life will go on.
 

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You damn right I’m selfish about MY life. It’s mine. It’s not for other people, it’s for me. I used to be insensitive to suicide, until my best friends 14 year old sister hung herself in the living room and her parents came home and saw har hanging. That changed my views.

Sometimes in life it’s a choice between 2 bad choices. Someone’s mindframe with kids could be, either stay here and suffer, or take my life away and satisfy myself, but leave trauma for your kids to deal with. Like I said, maybe my mind frame would change if I had kids. I don’t have kids. As it stands now, if I wanted to commit suicide, then I’m doing the shyt. Life will go on.

Again, appreciate your honesty about being selfish. :salute:
 

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:mjlol:


The poster you dapped a couple of posts ago just admitted to being selfish.

You guys are something else :mjlol:


Be well AND accountable . :ufdup:
I don't get what that had to do with my reply to you. I guess you just needed the last word:yeshrug:
 
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