Breaking up with women is so fukking hard

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Been together for 13yrs. Started long distance. I stepped out on her. Got caught. The other chick snitched online. I'm still not on social media. The other chick was younger and wanted to be serious. Became a stalker etc. Me and my girl made up a yr later. And decided to move together. Weve been living together for 3yrs. My heart isn't in it. Shes everything u would want in a woman.

We took a break. But still live together. She didnt want me sleeping on the couch. We still sorta dated. And eventually got back together. When we were on a break I had something on the side. And she wont let me go either. Smh co worker. I tried blocking her and everything. She got her friend to call me to talk to her. I go to work with drama and come home to it. But it's my fault cause I wont end it the right way. I'm too sympathetic. And I think the other one is a Narcissist.
Things wont change until you move out breh.

I know because I lived with my ex for 3 months after the break up. She wanted me to try it to see if the feelings could be salvaged but all it did was cause more confusion and pain.

Immediately after leaving it felt like I had lost my right arm, like when you've lived with someone for so long and do everything together you become intertwined in each others lives. 7 months later I've healed and I'm beggining to enjoy the freedom and single life but I had to make that jump and move out.

Relationships are hard man. The worst for me was the guilt.. feeling like I'd wasted her time when she could have found someone else willing to give her the things she wanted. She text me a month after asking how could I leave her alone in that house by herself and it almost broke me yall.

It'll take time but I know she'll be aite.
 

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Things wont change until you move out breh.

I know because I lived with my ex for 3 months after the break up. She wanted me to try it to see if the feelings could be salvaged but all it did was cause more confusion and pain.

Immediately after leaving it felt like I had lost my right arm, like when you've lived with someone for so long and do everything together you become intertwined in each others lives. 7 months later I've healed and I'm begging to enjoy the freedom and single life but I had to make that jump and move out.

Relationships are hard man. The worst for me was the guilt.. feeling like I'd wasted her time when she could have found someone else willing to give her the things she wanted. She text me a month after asking how could I leave her alone in that house by herself and it almost broke me yall.

It'll take time but I know she'll be aite.
I feel u. I feel forced but then shes all I've known for all these yrs. And I've been a cheater since forever. I dont sleep with a bunch of women. I fall in love and have long term side situations. And I can't stop it. I live a double life and it kills me. To see her happy with me knowing how I've moved. And worked my damndest to save face. Showing her the best sides of me. While I'm messing with this other toxic one. Arguing every week. Kicking her out my car ghosting her. Then she's begging me back. I dont know how to stop it. And I cant help myself.
 

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that reality check. The foundation of the inevitable “it’s either me or them” :demonic: mentality all brehs should develop.

:wow:


Women have that mentality

I’ve been dumped a bunch of times in my life and in all those relationships there were times I knew I should have walked away. But was like they are too hot or I don’t want to hurt them.

now I put myself first just like women do
 

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I feel u. I feel forced but then shes all I've known for all these yrs. And I've been a cheater since forever. I dont sleep with a bunch of women. I fall in love and have long term side situations. And I can't stop it. I live a double life and it kills me. To see her happy with me knowing how I've moved. And worked my damndest to save face. Showing her the best sides of me. While I'm messing with this other toxic one. Arguing every week. Kicking her out my car ghosting her. Then she's begging me back. I dont know how to stop it. And I cant help myself.
Leave her alone breh.

Your only hurting her. It'll hurt now but best for both of you in the long term.

You've got issues you need to deal with before you can commit to a good woman. I'm the same as you breh and I broke up with my ex to sort my life out.

95% of woman out here are trash so we need to do our part not to fukk the good ones up.

Take a few years by yourself fukking the hos and find a good woman when you are ready. Tell your girl if it's meant to be you will find each other again in the future but you have to be alone for now because you dont want to keep hurting her.
 

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Leave her alone breh.

Your only hurting her. It'll hurt now but best for both of you in the long term.

You've got issues you need to deal with before you can commit to a good woman. I'm the same as you breh and I broke up with my ex to sort my life out.

95% of woman out here are trash so we need to do our part not to fukk the good ones up.

Take a few years by yourself fukking the hos and find a good woman when you are ready. Tell your girl if it's meant to be you will find each other again in the future but you have to be alone for now because you dont want to keep hurting her.
I'll definately taken your advice into consideration. Thank you
 
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I can never get a clean break, I’m so retarded that I impress myself.

I gotta avoid getting in relationships cuz I can’t keep doing this shyt :mjcry:

Seeing them cry hurts me so bad :mjcry:

Run a neg train on me brehs, I deserve it the bullets :mjcry:


Wanna have a drink with me, @CarmelBarbie @Lootpack and @Pressure and talk about it:ohhh:

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Been together for 13yrs. Started long distance. I stepped out on her. Got caught. The other chick snitched online. I'm still not on social media. The other chick was younger and wanted to be serious. Became a stalker etc. Me and my girl made up a yr later. And decided to move together. Weve been living together for 3yrs. My heart isn't in it. Shes everything u would want in a woman.

We took a break. But still live together. She didnt want me sleeping on the couch. We still sorta dated. And eventually got back together. When we were on a break I had something on the side. And she wont let me go either. Smh co worker. I tried blocking her and everything. She got her friend to call me to talk to her. I go to work with drama and come home to it. But it's my fault cause I wont end it the right way. I'm too sympathetic. And I think the other one is a Narcissist.
Almost my story exactly. I feel you so much right now.
 

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I can never get a clean break, I’m so retarded that I impress myself.

I gotta avoid getting in relationships cuz I can’t keep doing this shyt :mjcry:

Seeing them cry hurts me so bad :mjcry:

Run a neg train on me brehs, I deserve it the bullets :mjcry:
You want us to run a train on you breh? Don't go out like that. :dame:
 
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