Things wont change until you move out breh.Been together for 13yrs. Started long distance. I stepped out on her. Got caught. The other chick snitched online. I'm still not on social media. The other chick was younger and wanted to be serious. Became a stalker etc. Me and my girl made up a yr later. And decided to move together. Weve been living together for 3yrs. My heart isn't in it. Shes everything u would want in a woman.
We took a break. But still live together. She didnt want me sleeping on the couch. We still sorta dated. And eventually got back together. When we were on a break I had something on the side. And she wont let me go either. Smh co worker. I tried blocking her and everything. She got her friend to call me to talk to her. I go to work with drama and come home to it. But it's my fault cause I wont end it the right way. I'm too sympathetic. And I think the other one is a Narcissist.
I know because I lived with my ex for 3 months after the break up. She wanted me to try it to see if the feelings could be salvaged but all it did was cause more confusion and pain.
Immediately after leaving it felt like I had lost my right arm, like when you've lived with someone for so long and do everything together you become intertwined in each others lives. 7 months later I've healed and I'm beggining to enjoy the freedom and single life but I had to make that jump and move out.
Relationships are hard man. The worst for me was the guilt.. feeling like I'd wasted her time when she could have found someone else willing to give her the things she wanted. She text me a month after asking how could I leave her alone in that house by herself and it almost broke me yall.
It'll take time but I know she'll be aite.


mentality all brehs should develop. 






