Breakups
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Eat shytLady.Libra ain't shyt
Suck assEat shyt
Time heals everything. And keep yourself busy/engaged outdoors from time to time.,Don't try to force anything in haste, especially if there are emotions involved, else you might end up hurting yourself in the process.
I used to think it was easy to get over people cuz I have never cared about people like that and I'm the type that can close a chapter quickly, due to my mentality. But shyt, men also go through emotional trauma and I did learn from that. All I need to do is just to keep thinking about the negative energy around the person and how the person did me wrong. However, the last one changed my perspective. I didn't even know I was that emotional connected to her till we broke it off. And damn, it took me 2 years to completely get over it.
I did everything from fukking different bytches, to clubbing every night, to getting super-high and drunk whenever I'm in solitude so as no to think about it, etc. I almost self-destruct. But it just lingered there and didn't go away. I had to stop and focus on myself and how to be a better person. And with time, I was able to get over everything and be a better person in the process.
Time is all you need.
I used to think it was easy to get over people cuz I have never cared about people like that and I'm the type that can close a chapter quickly, due to my mentality. But shyt, men also go through emotional trauma and I did learn from that. All I need to do is just to keep thinking about the negative energy around the person and how the person did me wrong. However, the last one changed my perspective. I didn't even know I was that emotional connected to her till we broke it off. And damn, it took me 2 years to completely get over it.
I did everything from fukking different bytches, to clubbing every night, to getting super-high and drunk whenever I'm in solitude so as no to think about it, etc. I almost self-destruct. But it just lingered there and didn't go away. I had to stop and focus on myself and how to be a better person. And with time, I was able to get over everything and be a better person in the process.
Time is all you need.
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AlainLocke
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Realize the people that you meet and the relationship you had is ultimately inconsequential, a random occurrence that happened in the time. The emotions you felt are a biological response to the desire to mate with someone that you liked. The words and sentiments expressed to your mate, are forced out of you due to these emotions. Love is a spell. Love in combination with loneliness and instability is a powerful spell.
The emotions that you felt, in actuality can be felt for anyone...you just happened to meet someone that fit the specifications that you have due your cultural upbringing, biology and your geographical limitations. There are 8 billion people on the planet.
Reduce human interactions into basic math and biology removes all the color and the romanticism out of relationships...any relationship.
Relationships are an event that people find themselves over the course of a life. All types of relationships.
People shouldn't let their relationships define their lives.
They just don't matter.
Plus all romantic relationships ends in tears...
I only had one serious break-up because I thought it was special....
Then I realized they just aren't...
No thanks. That's your fave past time...don't forget to lick his sack. Bon apetite.Suck ass
Now, you did say that you weren't speaking to me anymore. Keep your word and don't be a pesky liar.
What is it? You need to have the last word (I won't see it though because you are now on ignore)? Go ahead and then LMTFA.
DRUGS WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
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It's hard. We were together for over 7 years. Found out he cheated on me while having this perfect relationship and family. It's like he had 20 million dollars and just burned it. I don't know how to let him go. Loved hard and didn't see this coming.
Thank you
It's been no contact since I left. It's hard. He never admitted he cheated and haven't heard a word from him since. Makes me feel like nothing meant anything to him. He hasn't begged me back or apologized or anything. Straight ghosted. Instead of being pissed and angry I'm sad and upset. I truly didn't see this coming nor him jeopardizing everything we built. I keep the door cracked to see if he will walk through it or not but I need to stop. Not letting him and what we had go is hurting me. I just don't know how.
I just turned 37 yesterday. My whole life got flipped upside down in the blink of an eye. For real. Appreciate all the advice y'all have given.
I have heard so many dudes on her comment about brehs being in my dm. Honestly that hasn't happened since I've been a member.The brehs that will be in your messages will let you know
May I ask what happened?
what if i told you
ALL break ups are a good thing
people who are happy + satisfied with their partners dont break up. like a happily married couple wont randomly be like hey lets get a divorce fukk it
break ups are a terrific thing
ALL break ups are a good thing
people who are happy + satisfied with their partners dont break up. like a happily married couple wont randomly be like hey lets get a divorce fukk it
break ups are a terrific thing