Breh asks his wife if she could ever cheat on him

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I can’t believe that this is getting props.
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Imagine the lack of love and respect that one must have for a partner….that you have to actively avoid temptations so that you dont succumb to them.

Thats the sign of a loving relationship?

Da hell???
 

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that was a mature answer and she outlined reasons why she doesn’t even put herself in those situations. People need to be honest with themselves. No matter how much you love your SO. No matter how loyal or faithful you are…There are several people that have your number and in the right situation biology takes over.
Nahh that's a immature mindset to hold its something called self control that we must learn to have at some point
 

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I get whats shes saying to a certain extent. putting yourself in bad situations often and not expecting something bad to happen eventually is unwise. Avoiding them is much safer. But failing under the wrong circumstances that weren't your doing does not absolve you of accountability.
Because we are also creatures capable of reason. We might not able to control our desires or thoughts. but we can say no to things we want. and even yes to things we don't want.
Wrong or Right scenario is irrelevant if you decide to be loyal enough. If people can go on a hunger strike when every fiber of their being is telling them to eat, you can say no to sex, even if its someone you are extremely attracted to and you know nobody will find out.
Resisting temptation is possible.
 

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I mean she gave the right answer. Anything can go down in the "right" situation.

Anybody could sit here and express some faux moral superiority and say "never me" but lemme tell yall something:

I was once that guy proudly proclaiming what I would never do.

And I got TESTED and I resisted many situations but from experience, boundaries are the only thing that truly works. And that's true for both men and women

There is no right situation. You either cheat or you don’t.

She is saying this to absolve herself of accountability. “Ol I cheated on you because of these conditions”. This is just a spin on the “I cheated because I was drinking and didn’t know what I was doing” excuse women love to use. WAKE UP breh.
 

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Nahh that's a immature mindset to hold its something called self control that we must learn to have at some point
Spare me the moral gymnastics. Her avoiding certain situations and environments is her exercising self control.
 

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Spare me the moral gymnastics. Her avoiding certain situations and environments is her exercising self control.
No moral gymnastics here so I don't know what you're talking about lol weird.. anyway I stated my opinion and you yours, enjoy your evening and weekend.
 

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Spare me the moral gymnastics. Her avoiding certain situations and environments is her exercising self control.
“let me avoid being around dikks other than my husband’s because I am likely to hop on them and fukk them” is a self control exercise that your wife shouldn’t have to engage in.
 

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“let me avoid being around dikks other than my husband’s because I am likely to hop on them and fukk them” is a self control exercise that your wife shouldn’t have to engage in.

“Let me be obtuse on purpose so I can present disingenuous positions for the sake of arguing”.

I’m around women every single day of my life. I don’t go hang out with attractive women alone while under the influence of alcohol…because the chances of something happening greatly increase.

She’s removed herself from this temptation and y’all are still mad.
 
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