Breh creates a dating app for the "high value" black folk

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I’m not disagreeing with you my brotha

That doesn’t change the fact that “high value man” has a definition. You yourself put 80k on it and a lot of good men don’t meet that criteria either

You’re trying to fuse high value man with high character man

I won't get into this argument. I'll just say this HVM talk is for the birds.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

That’s minimum dude. Can’t you reason and use common sense?

10k a month and yes everyone you named would be HVM.

What pull and influence do you have with $10k a month? You not hanging with high rollers on $120k salary.

 

[Houston911]

I won't get into this argument. I'll just say this HVM talk is for the birds.

You came in the thread unprompted though

 

[Doobie Doo]

Bro this is silly. Any mam can be of value and a high value man is one who a lot of people value. There is more than a million women in this country your age that will place some value on a man making the type of money you make

But that's my point. HVM is a set of parameters that you either meet or you don't. It's not a testament to my character or defines me.

Athletes are excluded too because they are paid off potential and not necessarily accomplishments

 

[Jazzy B.]

Dudes adjust the criteria to make themselves fit.

He’s sorta right, a billionaires perception of what is high value would differ from a millionaires whose would differ from a person making 6 figures and so on.

Now that’s just if you keep it to strictly income.

But what if women start adding social, resource and racial value to what is High Value. As they’re also important in society. Which type of men do we know have the highest value of that in our society in high numbers and by default

This is why I say brehs who preach this need to be careful because it leads to a rabbit hole where you start co-signing the rationale of wenches and Divestors.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

You came in the thread unprompted though

Because I'm tryna figure out what's what. And if we being honest a lot of folks claim high value when they really ain't. Is a wealthy dictator high value? Is Putin high value? The world is shytty because we looking at the wrong things.

I think we should all focus on just being good people.

 

[High Art]

Just so I'm understanding correctly, theres no white women on this app?

Sounds like a dealbreaker.

 

[Brolic]

I can already tell what kind of women gonna be on there.

35+, 60k in college loans, not gonna fukk on the first link, and probably have kids.


I’ll stick to shooting fish in a barrel on Hinge.

Probably 200+ pounds too.

 

[69 others]

But that's my point. HVM is a set of parameters that you either meet or you don't. It's not a testament to my character or defines me.

Athletes are excluded too because they are paid off potential and not necessarily accomplishments

But these parameters are silly. What does a person pulling six figures for several years have to do with their value? So a man that hit the lotto for 500 mil today or inherit 10 mil is less value than a regular working man?

 

[69 others]

dup. mod delete

 

[69 others]

He’s sorta right, a billionaires perception of what is high value would differ from a millionaires whose would differ from a person making 6 figures and so on.

Now that’s just if you keep it to strictly income.

But what if women start adding social, resource and racial value to what is High Value. As they’re also important in society. Which type of men do we know have the highest value of that in our society in high numbers and by default

This is why I say brehs who preach this need to be careful because it leads to a rabbit hole where you start co-signing the rationale of wenches and Divestors.

this. even the whole men-built society shyt kevin was preaching was tethering on the edge of white supremacists talking points and brehs don't even realize it.

 

[Uncouth Savage]

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I won't get into this argument. I'll just say this HVM talk is for the birds.

an easy way to solve this is for a person to ask themselves

what professional or fraternal group can I join today
or would seek me out
what board could I sit on etc etc

 

[Houston911]

He’s sorta right, a billionaires perception of what is high value would differ from a millionaires whose would differ from a person making 6 figures and so on.

Now that’s just if you keep it to strictly income.

But what if women start adding social, resource and racial value to what is High Value. As they’re also important in society. Which type of men do we know have the highest value of that in our society in high numbers and by default

This is why I say brehs who preach this need to be careful because it leads to a rabbit hole where you start co-signing the rationale of wenches and Divestors.

I’m not saying people need to subscribe to it, I just don’t see the reason to change the definition instead of just making a new term

 

[Doobie Doo]

But these parameters are silly. What does a person pulling six figures for several years have to do with their value? So a man that hit the lotto for 500 mil today or inherit 10 mil is less value than a regular working man?

winning the lotto doesn't make you HV, it means you hit a lick. Same with atheletes, most get their money off potential of what they COULD/SHOULD do. Money alone doesn't make you HV, your network, your reputation, your character all factor in as well.

I don't define my life by these parameters either but I definetly believe in setting parameters of what it is and isn't.

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

Hinge and Raya is all I need