Breh gets shut down my some ladies, then proceeds to get his fiya out the car

Crayola Coyote

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U better delete this post

for what? We gonna act like women
Nikkas can clown all they want, I know exactly what you're getting at. And that's coming from someone who is VERY successful with women and have been my entire adult life. My broad and decades long experience approaching women has shown me plenty of instances when it's NOT just a simple "rejection". It is exactly as you said, where the woman will go out her way to try to embarrass you or frame you as some creepy who is stalking them, and a long line of completely unnecessary reactions.

Now, personally, I'm collected enough as a man to not react the way the breh in the video did, but that's not to say the next man won't, as we see here. Not every man is built to be blatantly disrespected and embarassed. Especially when he's a Black man who has to spend all day dealing with that bullsh*t from society, only to have some butterface walmart working chickenhead attempt to step on his manhood when its all said and done. Everybody doesn't handle that well.

I've literally seen women put their hands in a man's face when he approaches and begins to speak on some...
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Right in the man's face. Even making contact sometimes and bopping his nose. When you approach a woman, you are already resolved that you are making yourself wide open and vulnerable to her for that moment. When a woman takes that opportunity to disrespect you and try to make you feel small, not every man will react to that well. And I don't know how much I blame them. I've seen the blatant and unnecessary disrespect far too many times, or over far too many years. I know that it happens and it happens often.

And you know what else I've noticed? I've never seen it turn ugly unless the woman being approached disrespects the guy. Anytime it has gotten confrontational, from my experience, it was because the woman got disrespectful as f*ck. Doesn't excuse what this guy did, but it does a better job of explaining how things can get to that point than the narrative her caption is trying to paint.

All I will say to brehs is if you're not built for that disrespectful rejection type sh*t, be careful who you approach and how. And try not to ever approach when she's with her friends, as her inclination to try to clown increases ten fold.

I will also say, and you all will notice this as well...it's as rare as the loch ness monster to come across actual ATTRACTIVE women who act like this. Who feel it necessary to take that moment that a man is trying to holla at them as an opportunity to elevate themselves while demeaning him. That is something that I have only EVER seen unattractive, insecure women do.

THIS. thank you
 

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Perhaps, but he approached a bunch of women, right?

I was told a long time ago by a young woman not to approach a group of women in order to holla at one. Even if my approach was presentable, I would be susceptible to getting clowned.

Some women don't like to get approached whether presentable or not. Others don't mind.

Either case, dude should have went on his way. The gun play shyt was uncalled for and since he did it towards white women, he put himself in a dangerous situation.

women shouldn’t be giving men advice on how to approach them when clearly they don’t be approaching women or men at all.
 

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women shouldn’t be giving men advice on how to approach them when clearly they don’t be approaching women or men at all.

Eh..

Depends on the woman. I expect young women to not be as mature as women 10+ years their senior. Plz under that she told me this over 30+ years ago!

At the time, I thought the advice made sense because some women do act a certain way around their friends than they do when they are alone. Especially the pretty ones who have less attractive homegirls.

How I see it now is..

If you are a man who approaches a group of women to holla at a specific one, then go for yours! If she is interested, then she will excuse herself from her friends and deal with you. If she don't, then you know why...

One thing I agree with KS is that he said that single women keep other single women SINGLE! Those who do wanna be single will MINGLE!

It's that simple!
 
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