Breh I need help with hoes

[africngiant]

Just read this post in its entirety. It sounds like you got the sauce, your just pouring into the wrong dishes right now. Going by what you wrote I think you’ll find your footing. Just keep putting yourself out there and you’ll eventually start standing out as your own entity that cant be replicated. Hoes and women alike will be attracted to it. Dont let your college buddy get you down, a little competition is good to keep you on your game. Use him for whatever he’s worth at this time. He might end up solid or he might not but it sounds like you’re at least keeping yourself out there with him and getting some play. Letting go of the anxiety is easier said than done but the only way to get past it is to keep it pushing until you get older and grow out of it. This wont happen if you choose to isolate yourself though.

yeah i don’t mean to come off like a dikk or humble bragging but still posting on your story after 56 unanswered hours is kind of crazy lol. i might have the initial sauce maybe but i def don’t have a killer instinct to back it up


the game’s not meant for everyone but i just want to be successful and maybe find a wife atp but seems like they all want to play games out here

 

[Stir Fry]

yeah i don’t mean to come off like a dikk or humble bragging but still posting on your story after 56 unanswered hours is kind of crazy lol. i might have the initial sauce maybe but i def don’t have a killer instinct to back it up


the game’s not meant for everyone but i just want to be successful and maybe find a wife atp but seems like they all want to play games out here

Yeah I understand that it’s harder these days in your generation. Keep plugging at it and find peace at being with yourself in the meantime. This way, if/when the right woman comes along you’ll be ready for her and she’ll feel confident in being with you. Again, standing out from the pack isn’t necessarily a bad thing, make it work for instead of against you.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Honestly @bourgeoisie tall freak gave you the info you needed, you speak like you are above avg across the board but you not getting results, maybe you have blind spots or lack the self awareness, Have you ever asked your women friends what they think or if they can hook you up with anybody? Usually girls dont let a good catch that they know go without throwing their single friends a opportunity. Not counting going to gentlemans club and trying to hit on the working girls, how many women have you hollered at in your daily life this week? In the last month? How many dates? What social events you and your boys step out to, NOT counting the strip club runs?

dude really went out of his way to reply to your reply to me, instead of replying to me directly. i can see clearly now why the gworls avoid his passive ass. respectfully but thanks for the shout out lol

 

[africngiant]

Yeah I understand that it’s harder these days in your generation. Keep plugging at it and find peace at being with yourself in the meantime. This way, if/when the right woman comes along you’ll be ready for her and she’ll feel confident in being with you. Again, standing out from the pack isn’t necessarily a bad thing, make it work for instead of against you.

i wasn’t meant for this lowkey breh, i might be too soft for this smh. but the world knows how to make us harden hopefully my mind can cement more. i really don’t like dealing with people anymore guys or girls they’re cruel when you’re mentally vulnerable especially us growing up and navigating previous trauma as minorities

it’s like i have the ego now of christian bale clashing with the anxiety of a rabbit lmao

 

[Billie Jean]

 

[International Playa]

Dating is a numbers game.

Use dating apps, copy & paste a fun cute message to 50+ women, 10 women will respond, 5 women will be open to talking to you. 2-3 women will open to going on a date. Maybe 1-2 women will fukk you

 

[Roid Jones]

Breh I am so sick and tired of not being able to get these hoes no matter what I do it seems like I just can't catch a break I am a good looking successful guy but it don't seem to matter Breh I had thought I was close to getting a hoe recently too I went to the blue flame and I thought I was gonna get some buns you know what I'm saying but nah it didn't happen I tried everything but it was like the universe was against me

I had a little convo with a shorty at the club the other day you know how it goes I was trying to holla but she was just giving me the cold shoulder she was all like I'm sorry but I'm not interested and I was like what do you mean you're not interested I'm a good looking successful guyBut she was all like I'm sorry Breh I don't know what to do anymore it's like no matter how hard I try I just can't catch a break it's so frustrating and it's starting to really get to me

Breh why is it so hard to find someone who will give me a chance I just don't understand it I am a good guy and I deserve to be happy just like everyone else

Breh I am so angry and frustrated right now I just want to find someone who will love me for who I am and not just judge me based on some ridiculous standards is that too much to ask for so sick of this breh

 

[Roid Jones]

Dating is a numbers game.

Use dating apps, copy & paste a fun cute message to 50+ women, 10 women will respond, 5 women will be open to talking to you. 2-3 women will open to going on a date. Maybe 1-2 women will fukk you

They don't wanna hear it tho

 

[StackorStarve]

Breh I am so sick and tired of not being able to get these hoes no matter what I do it seems like I just can't catch a break I am a good looking successful guy but it don't seem to matter Breh I had thought I was close to getting a hoe recently too I went to the blue flame and I thought I was gonna get some buns you know what I'm saying but nah it didn't happen I tried everything but it was like the universe was against me

I had a little convo with a shorty at the club the other day you know how it goes I was trying to holla but she was just giving me the cold shoulder she was all like I'm sorry but I'm not interested and I was like what do you mean you're not interested I'm a good looking successful guyBut she was all like I'm sorry Breh I don't know what to do anymore it's like no matter how hard I try I just can't catch a break it's so frustrating and it's starting to really get to me

Breh why is it so hard to find someone who will give me a chance I just don't understand it I am a good guy and I deserve to be happy just like everyone else

Breh I am so angry and frustrated right now I just want to find someone who will love me for who I am and not just judge me based on some ridiculous standards is that too much to ask for so sick of this breh

Didn’t read the other comments so my bad if I’m repeating shyt but off top sounds like your problem is simple. You’re putting too much energy into chasing it. Anything you chase with that level of anxiety will run away from you. If shorty said she’s not interested it should’ve been the end of the convo. Ain’t no talking your way into it. If you’re handsome gang and have some money in your pockets the only reason I can see you not baggin anybody is your demeanor/how you carry yourself is weak as fukk or you say a bunch a corny shyt to women that don’t like corny nikkas. My advice to you would be to talk less, be extremely assertive with the shyt you do say, and take no for an answer as if it never mattered in the first place. You’ll have women chasing you down in no time breh.

 

[Turbulent]

Breh she was all like I'm sorry it's just not a good fit and I was like what do you mean it's not a good fit You're just a cac I deserve better than this

You're whole outlook makes no sense. You tell yourself you deserve better than her yet you're the one trying to get her. Some things aren't aligned in your spirit.

You're not getting girls cause they don't feel comfortable and safe with you. Once you start feeling like a girl is turning you down, you need to back off and accept it. If a girl feels like you won't take no for an answer, she already knows you might end up being a stalker, you might embarrass her, or kill her down the line. You need to develop social awareness, learn to read the signs, learn when to back off.

You need to learn how to lose before you can learn how to win...

EDIT: you have a combo of arrogance and low self esteem when what you need to have in order to win is confidence and humility.

 

[King Poetic]

First off why u telling chicks u a good looking successful guy?

And secondly u probably have better luck on online dating sites than out in public nowadays

 

[ultraflexed]

We still tryin to get with women in 2022?

What's the alternative

 

[Mordith]

OP is clearly a CAC trolling ya'll gullible asses.

 

[International Playa]

They don't wanna hear it tho

Their own fault at this point, sex has never been easier to get than today. So many single lonely women out there looking for man, especially during holiday time.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Consider yourself a good guy but refer to women as hoes brehs