Dog Based Gremlin
Veteran
Yes I did. I'm saying how I want to fight for partial custody but sometimes I just want to end it all.
Drop off to Mexico like one said
Breh, My baby mama pushing me to the edge. I'm serious
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Drop off to Mexico like one said
Peachstate
Lady
She sounds insufferable. Get 50/50 custody if you can't get full. And don't think you can catch up later. Sometimes, you can't, so don't give up on you daughter.
Also, I'm telling you right now, if your bm comes up missing, I'm snitching. This happens too much to take it lightly.
Also, I'm telling you right now, if your bm comes up missing, I'm snitching. This happens too much to take it lightly.
Saysumthinfunnymike
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Dog Based Gremlin
Veteran
She can't go missing, she Lizzo size
She bugs me cause I been trying to better myself. I'm still ugly gang but I'm not desperate anymore to deal with her
Hathaway
Someday, We'll All Be Free
Nah my guy you good.. You don't need a journal. You vent wherever a writing space is available.
Breh sounds like he's on the verge of being a mass shooter. He's obviously better off moving on with his life
Before you stand in front of a judge you need to make sure your affairs are in order, Breh
Do you keep track of how much time and money you spend on/with your kids? Do you know your kid’s schedule and stuff like that? You should do your best to maintain a positive relationship with the mother (yeah, I know but suck it up) also wouldn’t hurt to figure out if your state is a single party consent state when it comes to recordings. If it is, quietly record all negative interactions and always be a modeled citizen in those interactions. Also, don’t ever text anything crazy or cuss her out around people cause women save things like Law & Order detectives
This is all true. Especially the part about finding out the laws around recordings
The fact is, if you love your child, she WILL use that against you. Verbal agreements don’t work. Smoothing things over don’t work. She has power over you and will exploit that as much as possible. The only thing that will put a stop to all that shyt is taking it to court. Truthfully you may not even have to go all the way to court, just having your attorneys mediate will do the trick. However either way once you get custody and visitation established she loses that power over you and you won’t be walking on eggshells or being angry all the time
However you also mentioned she feeds your child lies and alienates them. That’s actually a huge red flag in custody proceedings and I’ve seen it entirely flip a case around almost on its own (A parent who engages in alienation is frowned upon because they actively inhibit the child’s healthy relationship with both parents which is the main goal of what the courts goal is). So long as you’re showing them you don’t do the same thing, you’ll have a strong case
Lastly as others have said, don’t engage in the BS with her. Ignore it but be persistent in looking out for your kid and document these things. You don’t want to appear high conflict and even if she’s the one who initiates 90% of conflicts, the moment you engage her at that level once and she can prove it will reflect very poorly. They’ll just look at both of you in the same light which won’t help your case
BunchePark
Coli N Calisthenics
nikka I read that as "my mama"
Read the first 3 replies and said WTF going on in this bytch
Ok now I see it's ya BM, ok blk man why isn't she ya wife? Can she ever get a ring based on how she gets down...can you get on page 1 and proceed? Did you truly pick the wrong one? Did you at least get a boy?
If yes, fukk it get joint custody and raise ya mini me!
If a girl, raise her right and put her on game!
Kill ya BM? nikka NEVER are u serious
23 chromosomes from YOU
23 from MOM
You both and required start to finish top to bottom
Read the first 3 replies and said WTF going on in this bytch
Ok now I see it's ya BM, ok blk man why isn't she ya wife? Can she ever get a ring based on how she gets down...can you get on page 1 and proceed? Did you truly pick the wrong one? Did you at least get a boy?
If yes, fukk it get joint custody and raise ya mini me!
If a girl, raise her right and put her on game!
Kill ya BM? nikka NEVER are u serious
23 chromosomes from YOU
23 from MOM
You both and required start to finish top to bottom
Why does this woman, the mother of your child have so much power?
Is she the only one that can take care of the child right now, and so she has full custody? If not, seek custody. Why not document the b.s. behavior she's doing like keeping the child from your parents and lawyer up?
But you probably are right about her giving you difficulties because you do not want to be with her. In all reality we are supposed to marry the people we create children with. That's what works best in most cases for the child. As long as the two parents are not abusive or drug addicts, something seriously damaging like that, it is best for the child to have their mom and dad together building a legacy for their family.
That's why its called a broken home when the parents aren't together. So yeah, you're right she probably does feel some type of way about that since she has the child living with her and has most of the responsibility. Still does not excuse her behavior though.
If you're serious about your complaints get custody otherwise you are just complaining and blowing off steam.
*edit Just realized you said off her as in kill her. HELL NO! Take control of your situation.
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Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
Superstar
why?
just why?
Breh said she's lizzos sizeGo make another baby mama to beat her ass like real nikkas do
