Breh Roasted Shorty who thinks being a bad bytch is inspirational
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King
The black man is always targeted.
I just used her as a reference for the body type I like
I know damn well not to try to DM these IG thots that’s day 1 shyt
That’s the kind of woman I’d approach in real life. Don’t do that online shyt apart from a few dating apps
This.
He has been given excellent advice in this thread.
When I was fukking random women it wasn't MY LIFE GOAL. Even in college p*ssy wasn't the most important thing to me..my life didn't revolve around it. I was just doing me (going to parties, sporting events, going to class in college)...in doing those things I came across women. You vibe with them and talk with them and go from there. As long as you're not weird or super thirsty you'll vibe with someone.
When I met my wife we instantly connected be because we were on the same wave goal and life wise. So it clicked.
I like art so I go to museums a lot. Almost every time I'll end talking to both men and women there about pieces. Some of the women are bad some aren't. But we're just art lovers in the same space talking about art. If I was single and looking to Holla I'd just extend the convos and play it how it go (again not pressed) and get a number or say let's have lunch or some shyt. Its not difficult. But I'd leave every trip happy because I went there for the art.
Also don't use p*ssy for validation of self. Thats a whole notha problem.
Voice of Reason
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I just used her as a reference for the body type I like
I know damn well not to try to DM these IG thots that’s day 1 shyt
That’s the kind of woman I’d approach in real life. Don’t do that online shyt apart from a few dating apps
There are plenty of women in the hood that naturally have that build(I think she is fake though ).
Like you said she most likely already has a dude and some other dudes chasing her but she wouldn't be unattainable to a man that is on his shyt.
Some of these dudes must live mostly cac towns.
King
The black man is always targeted.
I live in a mostly CAC town, nowhere near the hood
White women disgust me tho. I only check for brehettes and melanated women.
Oddly enough I have the least success with black women for whatever reason, whole lotta wenches and stuck up broads out here
Haven’t been called ugly since I was a kid.
I’m not some model, but I def ain’t ugly. I’ve had women I know tell me I’m pretty good looking. And I have a good body so that ups me anyways.
I just honestly think unless you’re a celebrity or some shyt women don’t give a fukk about random men. You could be attractive, tall, whatever but unless you’re literally one in a million - women just aren’t checking or throwing signals like that
Highly doubt they give a fukk about how “confident” a guy looks either
Are you looking for women to fukk?
Or are you looking for a relationship?
I ask because sometimes the goal produces the problem. If your goal is to run through bad bytches thats (in my humble opinion) a waste of time.
If you're looking for a partner. God (assuming you believe in God) will let you two cross paths at some point. Its not a race lol.
Also you're 23...im 38. You came up in a social media texting Era. A lot of younger people don't communicate well. We had to approach women and that bred convo skills confidence. It also let you see that they're just people. I'm old lol...do young people still talk like that? Or is it all digital?
Also don't be so hard on yourself. Everybody ain't for everybody bruh.
NeilCartwright
All Star
I can’t wait till this trend passes lolHigh value
Alpha
These terms are stupid as hell
Voice of Reason
Veteran
I live in a mostly CAC town, nowhere near the hood
White women disgust me tho. I only check for brehettes and melanated women.
Oddly enough I have the least success with black women for whatever reason, whole lotta wenches and stuck up broads out here
You need to move to a black city like Atlanta,Houston, Charlotte, DC if possible
...and some waffle fries
Superstar
A bad bytch is just another blade of grass.
King
The black man is always targeted.
I’m not in that stage of life. I barely had any sexual partners to begin with, haven’t had sex in over a year.
I’m mainly looking to fukk, maybe friends to fukk as well if I like em like that. It’s what I feel on the inside, no way I can or want to change that.
Ehh, I’m in Cali so I feel like I know how shyt is, there’s a little bit of everything even though there’s not really any black people out here anymore.
Not really interested in moving out. All those cities seem boring as hell if we’re being honest.
@KingZimbabwe are you still in school? have you started a career or do you still have a job or neither? do you have your own place?
you don’t have to answer these questions but you are still young at 23...when I was that age the answer to those questions was—yes, part-time job, and no...so even tho p*ssy was available, I still felt I needed to accomplish more for myself in terms of building and growing...confidence increased as I accomplished what I wanted for myself not for p*ssy which became second nature...I was a slow starter but once I hit 25/26 and felt I had my ducks in a row, it was a different ball game...long story short it could be your mindset holding you back...it’s always been instilled in me to do my work first before I “go outside to play” so on a personal level my confidence has been tied into getting shyt done first...once I felt I had certain things squared for myself, my approach toward women was different
you don’t have to answer these questions but you are still young at 23...when I was that age the answer to those questions was—yes, part-time job, and no...so even tho p*ssy was available, I still felt I needed to accomplish more for myself in terms of building and growing...confidence increased as I accomplished what I wanted for myself not for p*ssy which became second nature...I was a slow starter but once I hit 25/26 and felt I had my ducks in a row, it was a different ball game...long story short it could be your mindset holding you back...it’s always been instilled in me to do my work first before I “go outside to play” so on a personal level my confidence has been tied into getting shyt done first...once I felt I had certain things squared for myself, my approach toward women was different
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King
The black man is always targeted.
What exactly changed for you? This is the problem here. Everyone is talking about this mythical concept of confidence as if it will change your life.
You gotta be more specific. How exactly did you change how you interacted with women? What did you do differently?
I added a little bit more to my post to show why my mentality changed and the answer to those questions I posed for you is what brought that change in me...within those 3 years I went from being in school, with a part-time job, living at home to having my degree, being in the 2nd/3rd year of my career with a house...and it’s not that I felt I needed these things to get women...I wanted these things for myself...once I had those things, I was personally happy and my energy/attitude (confidence) changed as I felt comfortable “going outside to play” bcuz shyt was taken care of...again in a nutshell, if you’re a goal-oriented person then your mindset could be getting in your way at a young age when it comes to dealing with women...this doesn’t apply to everyone bcuz I grew up with nikkas who had none of these things but were still getting tons of p*ssy bcuz other things fueled their confidence...everyone is different tho
The Solid One
Superstar
im blck asf
Get ya c00n azz outta here
okay, sir blackness
