Brehette asks women if theyve ever suggested exercising to increase dating options & hilarity ensues

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Unsolicited advice just makes you (or anyone) look like an ass

Friends support not judge

That type of advice is not appreciated especially if you’re not also big

Big girls know that they’re big girls

They might like their size too

If losing weight were easy, we’d all be the size we wanted
lmaooooooo

my nikka it took time calories and a sedentary lifestyle to get fat.....it's gonna take work, caloric deficit and an active lifestyle to get healthy, a friend would tell a friend the truth if they actually care.



i guess that's the difference with men, we are brutally honest with each other
 

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I disagree with this. Dudes are more disillusioned than anyone and constantly expect women who aren’t in their league. We’ve got entire movements of losers coming together due to this: incels. Dudes mad that the “Chads” are taking the top women.

With women, they’ll shoot down every guy and sit around waiting for the top tier guy to select them. And at some point they settle…or they don’t and remain single and miserable. With men, they’ll shoot their shot and get shot down by all the top tier women before settling. The difference is that men think they’re the prize and don’t understand…most men are losers. Meanwhile women will go to their grave assuming the right man is gonna be struck by lightning and pursue them, any moment now…

People just gotta realize they aren’t the star and settle.

How do you change this when we live in an era where delusion is encouraged
 

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chicks will put anything in they mouth but a vegetable

Some of these chicks have whole dresser drawers filled with junk food while they're clothes is on the floor

Knew one bytch who had a whole flamin hot cheeto repositroy in her bedroom

all these movements largely supported by women love to append "phobic" and "shaming" to the end of something when being called out for it

Women have insulated themselves in an impenetrable fortress of bullshyt to avoid those truth bombs logic arrows and accountability lasers


how they emphatically choose to race to the bottom and keep each other delusional because "it feels good"


Since we're on the subject, he'res some fine track to fit the mood, fukk it


:whew::ohlawd:
 

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Some broads ain't made to be thin. If she got a big ol watermelon head and titties, she gon look like a lolly pop when she drops weight.

Some women gotta drop lbs to hit their natural weight while others look ridiculous when they lose lbs.
but those aren't the women we're talking about here....these some used -to-be-skinny-in-highschool women who got fat once they got that college degree or office job. it is what it is.
 

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This...I want my people to keep it 100 with me 24/7 and thats why we are still friends til this day. If I'm messing up in life and I don't realize it tell.me so I can evaluate what you're talking about.

I don't want my people to be some fake cheerleader....people always talk about being honest until its directed at theirself..if your people can't be straight up with you then who can?

Also i don't understand this "Real friends don't judge, they support". Support what exactly? A bad habit? My closest friend suffered with alcoholism...did I support him by saying "hey man if these women don't like the fact that you drink everyday then f them they don't deserve you king" what kind of friend would i be? We gotta be honest with people and people need to stop being so sensitive...for me its simple..."what they are saying about me, is it true? Yes or no?" thats it....

Years ago I was over 300 pounds..I knew I gained weight but I didn't realize how much I gained. When I moved back to jersey from Cali all my boys looked at me like "wtf happened to you..you look sloppy" and I did...I got.myself back into the gym and put in the work. If my boys were on some "you looking good brotha lets go get these burgers and fries" they wouldve been killing me...the only thing they would've been supporting is the shortening of my lifespan

People can be honest without it being mean spirited






:mindblown::mindblown::mindblown:

This is madness....how does this make any sense????


I've realized this (well, I've always kinda felt this for years but yeah), women always tend to give advice like this to protect feelings.

Why is this so? Men dont waste time doing this shyt. I'm not saying to be an a$$hole, but we don't do this "you're fine the way you are dear" type advice women do.

They don't get punished(in the short term) for being fat, nikkas still be fukkin them so what reason do they have to change:manny:
Sadly, this is apart of it.
 

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She might as well be asking Advanced Maths questions, because the responders are still stuck on the 1+1 what-does-friendship-actually-mean basics.





Every defensive keyword and phrase jumped riiiight out. :francis:
 

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Unsolicited advice just makes you (or anyone) look like an ass

Friends support not judge

That type of advice is not appreciated especially if you’re not also big

Big girls know that they’re big girls

They might like their size too

If losing weight were easy, we’d all be the size we wanted

That self defeatist attitude......lmao...
 

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I don’t really watch his videos but I can see why Kevin Samuels is popular. You really can’t use common sense like these posts above when talking to most women.

Anything you suggest to improve their lives is instantly taken as critique:

“Don’t tell me how I should look!”

“Don’t tell me how to raise my children!”

“I look good for myself and no one else. Your opinion isn’t needed.”

I say let women like this remain delusional. And then wonder why they eventually will end up lonely or with a man who’s only with them because they keep their fridge full.
or have a good job with a full fridge....breh my cousin is a dental hygenist but she and her mom are whalesssssss but she managed to get a breh to lock her down, bro is a damn athlete type nikka with nothing going for himself...lays up while she works alll day:mjlol:i said gotdammit corey holcomb was right:yeshrug:
 

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The numbers don't add up
If being fat hurt black women as much as dudes online claim it does it wouldn't be nearly as many fat black women out here as it is. The cultural impact would be so much the stigma among women would be engrained from the gate
The reality is that being fat has minimal effect on these women ability to get dikk or to get bum nikkas to lay up with them
Sure they might not be getting celebrity level men who have options but the majority of women regardless of size ain't getting those dudes
also vibrators...fat bishes love vibrators
 

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Whether they want to lose weight or not the thing that sets off an alarm is this: they're unwilling to change up anything they're doing to try to get who they want. And ill say this for all people not just women. If you're unhappy being single try to change something about yourself cause its obvious what you're doing isn't working. That whole love me for who I am is bullshyt. You can change your physical and still be who you are. You can change parts of your personality and still be who you are.
You don't have to tailor yourself to a specific person but switch something up.
But complaining and not doing anything to change yourself is annoying and one of the biggest reasons you're single and will remain single and losing.
 

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Whether they want to lose weight or not the thing that sets off an alarm is this: they're unwilling to change up anything they're doing to try to get who they want. And ill say this for all people not just women. If you're unhappy being single try to change something about yourself cause its obvious what you're doing isn't working. That whole love me for who I am is bullshyt. You can change your physical and still be who you are. You can change parts of your personality and still be who you are.
You don't have to tailor yourself to a specific person but switch something up.
But complaining and not doing anything to change yourself is annoying and one of the biggest reasons you're single and will remain single and losing.
Who are you? :lupe:
 
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