I'm actually amazed by this topic...ol girl is getting slammed on her twitter by a lot of women...I hate assuming but a lot dudes wouldn't react the way the women are.
I think that's where the difference lies with all of these dating advice videos...dudes are usually straight up "hey breh you may not be getting any women cause you're out of shape"...most dudes that I know would just take that on the chin and get to work
We tell dudes that are out here struggling to: get their bread up, get in shape, and better yourself overall...not once has the word fatphobia come out. On the flipside when this is mentioned to women it turns into a nasty event
For women it seems as if they want to avoid hurting other women's feelings by promoting things that just might be holding them back..."Focus on you queen..one day a man will fall out of the sky to fulfill all of your needs"
Bad attitude = strong woman
Obese = accept her for what she presents
Loud = accept her because that's who she is
Legit question, if this was a child would you let this fly? Where has the accountability gone?