Brehette calls out women who didn't grow up in the hood for chasing hood dudes

[Piff Perkins]

People don’t even know what a hood dude is smh.

She is talking about a street nikka. A street nikka and a hood nikka ain’t the same thing.

Plenty of good hood dudes. They are hood cause they just happen to grow up there. A street dude is in the streets.

Good example: Bron was a hood dude. From the hood, has experienced struggle, etc. He was NOT a street nikka. Women largely can't tell the difference between the two because the prototype in their mind is a guy in a nice fit who talks a certain way and fits the "noble savage" aesthetic. Speaking of which, the only thing I disagree with in the vid is the idea that only (or mainly) black women fall for this. The noble savage or bad boy thing has been around forever across American culture. It's featured in most mafia movies, cowboy movies, biker movies, etc.

 

[ORDER_66]

I dont understand how is this a problem???

 

[lib123]

Good example: Bron was a hood dude. From the hood, has experienced struggle, etc. He was NOT a street nikka. Women largely can't tell the difference between the two because the prototype in their mind is a guy in a nice fit who talks a certain way and fits the "noble savage" aesthetic. Speaking of which, the only thing I disagree with in the vid is the idea that only (or mainly) black women fall for this. The noble savage or bad boy thing has been around forever across American culture. It's featured in most mafia movies, cowboy movies, biker movies, etc.

Brehettes are the only group that falls for it in large numbers and tries to get into relationships and reproduce with those types in large numbers. Other groups of women treat them like flings and largely move on from those types by 24-25 and rarely reproduce with them.

And it’s interesting you bring up Bron because he grew up in the hood but never had a street persona and Brehettes were never attracted to him like that. On the flip side Allen Iverson grew up hood and brehettres started loving him when he transitioned to a street persona.

 

[50CentStan]

Textbook example of bird babble.

Hood dudes aren't worth its the worst part of the black community and relationships

But i love glorilla who promotes the worst of the black community

Silly bird

 

[Still Benefited]

Good example: Bron was a hood dude. From the hood, has experienced struggle, etc. He was NOT a street nikka. Women largely can't tell the difference between the two because the prototype in their mind is a guy in a nice fit who talks a certain way and fits the "noble savage" aesthetic. Speaking of which, the only thing I disagree with in the vid is the idea that only (or mainly) black women fall for this. The noble savage or bad boy thing has been around forever across American culture. It's featured in most mafia movies, cowboy movies, biker movies, etc.

Brehettes are the only group that falls for it in large numbers and tries to get into relationships and reproduce with those types in large numbers. Other groups of women treat them like flings and largely move on from those types by 24-25 and rarely reproduce with them.

And it’s interesting you bring up Bron because he grew up in the hood but never had a street persona and Brehettes were never attracted to him like that. On the flip side Allen Iverson grew up hood and brehettres started loving him when he transitioned to a street persona.

Its à narrative created by black men to escape accountability. What makes you think women arent attracted to Lebron James? And Iverson had a street aesthetic but he was a ball player too.


But theres the problem. Theres this narrative that black women are messing with dudes they shouldve KNOWN were bad people. Drug kingpins,drug dealers,gang members etc. When the fact is most black women are having children with regular blue collar workers. Who may have grew up in the hood and keep that aesthetic like Iverson. But they typically are regular guys working in warehouses,restruarants,call centers and other low skill jobs.


So this idea that black women are seeking gang members and drug dealers out is propaganda.


Thw truth black men dont want to admit is black women are having babies with regular guys from the hood. But sadly even having babies with regular/good guys from the hood isnt a wise choice.


Yall dont want to say this because many of yall are from the hood too. But the truth is if you are from the hood,treating your woman good is not glamourized. In fact its frowned upon due to the culture we came up in.


And if treating your woman good isnt valued. Of course you will have a community full of baby mamas and coparenting. Street nikkas are getting a bad wrap, when truth is black men generally have been programmed not to value black women or treat them well/be faithful/thoughtful/committed.


Time to stop acting like these statistics are the results of street nikkas alone. Black men from the hood are not good candidates to date or have children by. Simply based on our programming.

Not saying there arent good black dudes in the hood. Im telling you most hood dudes seperate their character apart from how they treat women,its compartmentalized. Thats not a recipe for building black families whatsoever

 

[Peruvian Connect]

I’m a hood nikka, I have a degree, a job and never been to jail.

But my area is undeniably the hood. I grew up with 2100 slaughter gang nikkas lol.

There is a difference between the dudes in the streets and guys like me. I also don’t have much in common with a suburban dude.

Okay and? You want a cookie? It's hood nikkas/street nikkas with degrees, jobs and never been to jail and some have been to jail.

Okay...

There's a difference between drug dealers, killers and jackboys too. But you lump em all together

 

[Prynce]

Okay and? You want a cookie? It's hood nikkas/street nikkas with degrees, jobs and never been to jail and some have been to jail.

Okay...

There's a difference between drug dealers, killers and jackboys too. But you lump em all together

lol don’t know what you talking about. Plenty of dudes from the hood that ain’t criminals. A street guys is a criminal. Hence the term in the streets.

A good example of a hood dude is Lamar Jackson. He is a hood guy no doubt but he ain’t a crook and never was.

You just have a weird hating bias. Maybe the hood brehs got the girls u always wanted?

 

[lib123]

Its à narrative created by black men to escape accountability. What makes you think women arent attracted to Lebron James? And Iverson had a street aesthetic but he was a ball player too.


But theres the problem. Theres this narrative that black women are messing with dudes they shouldve KNOWN were bad people. Drug kingpins,drug dealers,gang members etc. When the fact is most black women are having children with regular blue collar workers. Who may have grew up in the hood and keep that aesthetic like Iverson. But they typically are regular guys working in warehouses,restruarants,call centers and other low skill jobs.


So this idea that black women are seeking gang members and drug dealers out is propaganda.


Thw truth black men dont want to admit is black women are having babies with regular guys from the hood. But sadly even having babies with regular/good guys from the hood isnt a wise choice.


Yall dont want to say this because many of yall are from the hood too. But the truth is if you are from the hood,treating your woman good is not glamourized. In fact its frowned upon due to the culture we came up in.


And if treating your woman good isnt valued. Of course you will have a community full of baby mamas and coparenting. Street nikkas are getting a bad wrap, when truth is black men generally have been programmed not to value black women or treat them well/be faithful/thoughtful/committed.


Time to stop acting like these statistics are the results of street nikkas alone. Black men from the hood are not good candidates to date or have children by. Simply based on our programming.

Not saying there arent good black dudes in the hood. Im telling you most hood dudes seperate their character apart from how they treat women,its compartmentalized. Thats not a recipe for building black families whatsoever

I’m speaking from Brehettes I know and interact with IRL. I’ve heard way more vocally crush on AI and Melo vs Bron.

 

[FukkaPaidEmail]

Everything is a fetish according to the internet .

And where the fukk did this distinction between a hood nikka and a street nikka come from ?


I grew up in the trenches and have never identified as a hood nikka or and nobody would’ve referred to me or any nikka like me as that growing up . Maybe it depends on where you grew up .

 

[Boxchevy]

Other groups of women treat them like flings and largely move on from those types by 24-25 and rarely reproduce with them.

So the prisons who house non black men, don't have mostly non blk women visiting them??....so non black 'bad boys' are mostly childless??...yall really just be saying anything on here...LoL...@gloxina

 

[jay83]

The main issue is attractive women. Is she saying majority of attractive women are going after bad boys? Or just women in general?

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

bytches watch one episode of Blues Clues
Learn a new word and just be saying shyt

 

[lib123]

So the prisons who house non black men, don't have mostly non blk women visiting them??....so non black 'bad boys' are mostly childless??...yall really just be saying anything on here...LoL...@gloxina

I’m speaking in general. Generally speaking attractive cac women aren’t going after the bad boy types in large numbers after 24-25. It’s obvious y’all don’t understand how other groups of women move impacts why they get married at higher rates and are baby mamas at much lower rates.

 

[010101]

folks end up together based on lack of sense HA*

 

[MostReal]

She dispels the fantasy around being with hood dudes (they aren't safer to be around, actually the opposite) and says that hood dudes view women who didn't grow up in the hood who try to get into relationships with them as naive, gullible and silly. She basically said what a lot of y'all have been saying for years lol.

I'm happy she said it