Yeah it is. The trauma and emotional fall out is the same. My brother was engaged to a woman that came out to him after putting him through all types of shyt he thought he was responsible for. He’ll never get married now because of what her deceptive ass put him through.
this thread is about a person that is downlow, which does in a way connect with your story about your brother and the trauma caused by dealing with someone who was not up front about their sexuality with him early on.
There’s a difference between being down low which can cause trauma for both the person trying to stay in the closet and the people they fukk versus those that are upfront about who they are. Your brother was with a downlow chick. Down low people deserve to be exposed. Which was my main point, and it got lost because a poster that pawgs and very well might be dL got in his feelings.
there aren’t many differences between down low men/ down low women deception. But there are differences when it comes to hiv and std rates and the risk posed to partners.
Gay and bisexual men have higher STD rates
Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Health | CDC
versus lesbian women:
Special Populations - 2015 STD Treatment Guidelines
you’ll see some clear differences in that information, which I know grinds
@ALMIGHTY GOD gears because I came with actual evidence to support the fact that lesbian/bi women actually don’t have a high incidence of stds or hiv compared to the male counterpart. Whereas he just pulled shyt out of his bussy because he doesn’t like me.
Anyway, Like I said, people deserve to know who they’re fukking with upfront. That guy deserved to be exposed. Granted extortion and all that other shyt I’m not with, but exposing men that are secretly fukking other men, or women secretly fukking women needs to happen more to protect those that truly don’t know their partners sexuality.