Brehette is upset because breh took her to feed the homeless on the first date. Is she wrong?

[dora_da_destroyer]

IDK seems logistically that type of date is a huge crapshoot for accomplishing what a man wants to in a first date, building attraction. Sure its a cool lil story but 9/10 a chick, a normal ass chick isnt calling you back after that

Honestly, I think most of the black community has a very limited ideas of what a date is. You literally build attraction from talking, that can be done in absolutely any setting, and again, nothing is stopping y’all from keeping the date going and doing something 1:1 after. Literally every date I’ve had where we was really feeling each other extended beyond the one thing we initially planned for.

 

[Deafheaven]

Honestly, I think most of the black community has a very limited ideas of what a date is. You literally build attraction from talking, that can be done in absolutely any setting, and again, nothing is stopping y’all from keeping the date going and doing something 1:1 after. Literally every date I’ve had where we was really feeling each other extended beyond the one thing we initially planned for.

I get that but like…it seems like so much so soon

I think black people are pretty open minded dating wise, just not that open minded Ive taken ladies to all types of niche weird shyt. But they were usually more low key settings where talking was or vibing was the focus. This shyt would be so high energy to me.

 

[Toe Jay Simpson]

Feed the homeless is code for the nikka she drive out of town to go see that don’t have no job and she bring him McDonald’s and let him nut up in her

 

[frush11]

People get in their way so much.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

3 zig zag sauce clubstrauant

I’m going to start using this… just an FYI

 

[ThatTruth777]

could have just told him what u wanted to do

 

[Richard Glidewell]

I moreso meant even a normal ass chick aint going to vibe with a homeless shelter as date one, let alone some of these psychotic narcissists out chea. I have plenty of experience with women which is why anyone thinking this is a good first date is looking fugazi to me. You investing a ton of time n energy into someone you dont even know if you like for one, and it doesnt facilitate building attraction unless shorty likes to see you pass out bread.

If you trying to establish exceptionalism rightfrom the jump this is a way. I'm not looking for a normal chick especially not if today's variety. A woman who truly had it in her to give back to her community and not just as a front is first choice on my list. I know and can see she is about something in her life and that is worth building on. p*ssy is easy to come by I can fall and trip into p*ssy, but somebody of substance ain't always attached to it........ I'm passing up the normal chick 10 times outta 10........a good first date ain't about what is about who.......

 

[Ricky Fontaine]

Man y'all new nikkas got it rough nowadays smh.

I remember in my early twenties (not even that long ago less than 5 years.) I was taking girls I was interested in to the library because if they didn't go to college, chances are they never even been to one before. And we would just hang out til we got bored and went to get something to eat and chilled and that was a nice day.

Now you got 12 year olds saying they need a nikka wit a bag

 

[CrushedGroove]

She's stupid. I took my now wife on a walk downtown and we stopped and bought a poetry book (Nikki Giovanni), grabbed tacos and sat and talked while live music was playing down the street.

It ain't about shopping and pics of Master Chef plates. He was showing interest in what she claims to be interested in.

 

[Geek Nasty]

She's right


What on earth was the dude thinking lmao

He figured he had to feed her bum ass might as well help out a few other brokies at the same time

 

[Born2BKing]

Black women prefer conventional dates where they know you've spent a good amount of money. Anything else they think you are broke or being cheap.

Then hey, she not meant for me if she care about that.

 

[Shadow King]

Reason 2516 why I'm no longer auditioning for box...

 

[YvrzTrvly]

Why isn't that something you do on a first date. Pretty obvious this whore was looking for a come up while buddy was judging her character

 

[The Wall Is Undefeated!]

An unorthodox date idea. However, I don't see why not.

 

[King Poetic]

bytch barley give a nickel to a nikka outside of McDonald’s

But if u go for a minute or two and then go out to eat no problem

But these broads today are looking for free meals and drinks and run back on social media to diss u anyway