i would look at it practically, without emotions.
- i have covid, you risk having it too. how does that benefit us?
- how expensive is it for both of us to stay versus just me?
- why are we exposing ourselves to covid? why are neither of us vaccinated?
they're both idiots and this is fake. but he's in his feelings too much and she's not self-aware enough to realize she hurt him.
if my girl and i are going anywhere, we plan for anything. extra money, insurance, emergency flights, etc.
if worse comes to worst, i'll stay behind and she can go. it's "women and children first" for a reason, brehs.