Brehette shares her struggle supporting 3 kids alone

[King Poetic]

You have kids even at age 25,30,35,40 having too many kids and no one take accountability for their own decisions

Look at that Kendra G thread on here

U got women 25,35 40 and even 50 years old with multiple kids with multiple men and they literally be laughing when they say their kids father came from a 1 night stand, daddy in jail or daddy was married to another woman when she got pregnant and no one takes responsibility for letting dudes fukk raw

I have yet seen sistas in large numbers say “ HEY EVERYONE I fukkED UP BY fukkING BUMS”

But u hear in large numbers “ MEN AINT shyt, YOU TELLING ME I HAVE TO WORK TWICE AS HARD BECAUSE I HAVE A BUNCH OF KIDS”

These adults are still teenagers mentally

And believe me i see that shyt all the time

 

[David_TheMan]

I’ll ask again. What’s a more effective strategy? Going after all the women who got pregnant by a single loser. Or going after the loser who got multiple women pregnant.

The most effective strategy is full personal responsibility for actions.

That is women who chose wrong life with it. Women have the legal right to have abortions without the consent of the father of child, they can have abortions without knowledge or consent of husband. Due to that men should have the right of certificates of b*stardization, to be able to disown all responsibility for the child under the identical circumstances in which women can obtain abortion

Child support should be abolished.

Government enforcement of private decisions acts as a subsidization. Women need to be held accountable for who they choose to sleep with sleep with a bum face the consequences of sleeping with a bum, with no government ability to bully or provide for you. The same way a man has to suffer if he gets the wrong woman pregnant with no legal recourse.

Very simple. Stop simping.

 

[David_TheMan]

You have kids even at age 25,30,35,40 having too many kids and no one take accountability for their own decisions

Look at that Kendra G thread on here

U got women 25,35 40 and even 50 years old with multiple kids with multiple men and they literally be laughing when they say their kids father came from a 1 night stand, daddy in jail or daddy was married to another woman when she got pregnant and no one takes responsibility for letting dudes fukk raw

I have yet seen sistas in large numbers say “ HEY EVERYONE I fukkED UP BY fukkING BUMS”

But u hear in large numbers “ MEN AINT shyt, YOU TELLING ME I HAVE TO WORK TWICE AS HARD BECAUSE I HAVE A BUNCH OF KIDS”

These adults are still teenagers mentally

And believe me i see that shyt all the time

They aren't teenagers they are women.
Allergic to accountability, with poor impulse control, low attention spans, and unearned sense of entitlement.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

It would be interesting to see what the fathers look like. I wouldn’t be surprised if they’re relatively good looking bums.

This is why I tell childless brehs never under any circumstances, should they entertain single mothers. Even if it’s for “recreational” purposes. Women CHOOSE which child they keep. The baby dad will always have sexual access.

She can talk all that smack about her her baby daddy/daddies ain’t shyt, but remember, from conception to birth, she made a conscious choice to keep that child.

She could’ve closed her legs, taken plan B or got an abortion (which she had done with plenty of other men), but she CHOSE to keep that particular child. To go through nine months and a c-section scar to birth his seed means something.

Even the most pro-life woman will get an abortion if she doesn’t want to carry on a man she doesn’t feel is worthy’s legacy. But the one she truly has feelings for, she will risk her life birthing his seed.

 

[lib123]

This is why I tell childless brehs never under any circumstances, should they entertain single mothers. Even if it’s for “recreational” purposes. Women CHOOSE which child they keep. The baby dad will always have sexual access.

She can talk all that smack about her her baby daddy/daddies ain’t shyt, but remember, from conception to birth, she made a conscious choice to keep that child.

She could’ve closed her legs, taken plan B or got an abortion (which she had done with plenty of other men), but she CHOSE to keep that particular child. To go through nine months and a c-section scar to birth his seed means something.

Even the most pro-life woman will get an abortion if she doesn’t want to carry on a man she doesn’t feel is worthy’s legacy. But the one she truly has feelings for, she will risk her life birthing his seed.

They were literally just talking about this on the recent Joe Budden Pod. The consensus including from the new co-host Mona was that by the time the child is 6 or 7, there’s usually so much bad blood or the parents are just not into each other anymore that they stop hooking up.

 

[Two Stacks]

What confuses me is so many women have the same story, and don't learn from each other.

That's because they don't listen not even to each other. They have so much hope and optimism that they won't end up like the rest. They think they will have a perfect blissful Disney fairytale happily ever after life.

Lemme tell yall a quick story.

Chick I liked from way back finally became available (2023). Knew from jump she had 2 kids. She wanted to HAVE ANOTHER KID (???), finally go to school, all the while being carless and jobless. Deals with depression and trauma etc etc from the past. Extremely heightened standards. STILL wants to have another kid while not being stable. At 40. Who's gonna sign up to that, and take care of her and those two kids? Why? Women always say they have someone who would and I challenge them all. GO GET THAT MAN THEN. They never do because he doesn't exist and if he do he dont want them either.

She should've stayed gone after the ex husband had a baby while they were officially broken up. Now shes mad she had 2 kids with a dumbass.

If only she wouldve accepted my offer back in 2010-11 when we were 24 right? Decision making is horrible. And whats worse is she actually waited to get married and have kids.

 

[Illuminatos]

She looks like Bobby Shmurda.

 

[lib123]

What confuses me is so many women have the same story, and don't learn from each other.

That's because they don't listen not even to each other. They have so much hope and optimism that they won't end up like the rest. They think they will have a perfect blissful Disney fairytale happily ever after life.

Lemme tell yall a quick story.

Chick I liked from way back finally became available (2023). Knew from jump she had 2 kids. She wanted to HAVE ANOTHER KID (???), finally go to school, all the while being carless and jobless. Deals with depression and trauma etc etc from the past. Extremely heightened standards. STILL wants to have another kid while not being stable. At 40. Who's gonna sign up to that, and take care of her and those two kids? Why? Women always say they have someone who would and I challenge them all. GO GET THAT MAN THEN. They never do because he doesn't exist and if he do he dont want them either.

She should've stayed gone after the ex husband had a baby while they were officially broken up. Now shes mad she had 2 kids with a dumbass.

If only she wouldve accepted my offer back in 2010-11 when we were 24 right? Decision making is horrible. And whats worse is she actually waited to get married and have kids.

The environment and situation you’re born into largely dictates your life outcomes. She was probably born into a similar situation. If she was raised in a married two-parent household, she probably wouldn’t have ended up in this situation.