Brehette shares her struggle supporting 3 kids alone

[jilla82]

and in 16 years when these kids are either under performing in life or in jail the Coli will be able to blame a Republican for this mess

 

[Diunx]

Man I really hate when kids appear out of nowhere like an RKO, if only there were several ways to prevent having kids I can't afford...

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

That’s not always true.

It is always true. I'm not just talking shyt I live this bruh. At the end of the day the most important part about raising a child and what comes first is do you have the resources to take care of the child. Now someone being irresponsible and childish and not wanting to do it is entirely something else and not what I'm talking about. Like I said I don't get any help from my sons mother outside of she put him on her health insurance (even though he is still covered on mine) and we make it just fine as far as finances. The fact that I don't have to work insane hours to financially support two households when I can take care of him by myself and make it easier ok everyone(which in most situations is how it probably would be if women would let their pride go and realize this) allows me to better be a father and also has stabilized his life. Putting a child in a situation where one parent has to work all the time to come up with all the money to give to the other on top of the expenses they take on when the child is with them is foolish and makes no fukking sense.

 

[lib123]

It is always true. I'm not just talking shyt I live this bruh. At the end of the day the most important part about raising a child and what comes first is do you have the resources to take care of the child. Now someone being irresponsible and childish and not wanting to do it is entirely something else and not what I'm talking about. Like I said I don't get any help from my sons mother outside of she put him on her health insurance (even though he is still covered on mine) and we make it just fine as far as finances. The fact that I don't have to work insane hours to financially support two households when I can take care of him by myself and make it easier ok everyone(which in most situations is how it probably would be if women would let their pride go and realize this) allows me to better be a father and also has stabilized his life. Putting a child in a situation where one parent has to work all the time to come up with all the money to give to the other on top of the expenses they take on when the child is with them is foolish and makes no fukking sense.

No in certain situations it does make more sense for the higher earning parent not to be the primary parent. For example if the father is a high earning executive and travels a lot and the mother is a stay at home mom or works part time or a normal 9-5, it makes more sense for the mother to be the primary parent and the father to pay child support.

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

No in certain situations it does make more sense for the higher earning parent not to be the primary parent. For example if the father is a high earning executive and travels a lot and the mother is a stay at home mom or works part time or a normal 9-5, it makes more sense for the mother to be the primary parent and the father to pay child support.

Like I said if he doesn't want to do it that's on him. I found a way to make it work and it doesn't financially break anyone else. Too many situations the children have to stay with the broke parent when the parent who has more resources could not only take the child full time, but the court won't give the child up because the courts are incentivized to put the higher earning parent on child support. You are speaking about a very rare situation that is not that common. I live in a far more common reality and have been through this and dealt with the courts and the system. Most men would love to be a full time parent, and we wouldn't complain about it like these women do but as long as you make more money to pad the retirement fund of these judges you will be fukked over by the family court.

 

[Mowgli]

feel it for the kids

doesn't amerikkka give money for kids?

if she was in canada she'd rpob be getting like one grand for each kid

Should probably get over 10 grand if she's having taxes withhelds

 

[David_TheMan]

We're simps until someone impregnates your goofy ass daughter. Imagine defending some nikka with 10 kids. If this was the OLD DAYS none of the men would agree with you fukk boy. The men would've shot the nikka or forced him to handle his responsibilities way before he ever had multiple broken families. That shyt is terrible for community building and needs to be forcefully shamed.

Lol you are still simps.
Saying it's your daughter like suddenly you whore daughter is never responsible for her actions is rich

You mother, daughter, grandmother, aunt, niece, and everyone else picks who they sleep with and need to be accountable for their actions.

Dumb ass simps like you just enable bad decision making by letting them off the hook. Funny how you don't give a damn about your sons though . Y'all have been indoctrinated into accepting and only thinking in a misanderist frame.

 

[lib123]

Like I said if he doesn't want to do it that's on him. I found a way to make it work and it doesn't financially break anyone else. Too many situations the children have to stay with the broke parent when the parent who has more resources could not only take the child full time, but the court won't give the child up because the courts are incentivized to put the higher earning parent on child support. You are speaking about a very rare situation that is not that common. I live in a far more common reality and have been through this and dealt with the courts and the system. Most men would love to be a full time parent, and we wouldn't complain about it like these women do but as long as you make more money to pad the retirement fund of these judges you will be fukked over by the family court.

Lol that's not true at all. Kudos to you, but most men definitely do not want to be the primary parent. And among the minority of men who do want to be the primary parent, it's extremely difficult as far as the family courts in most states unless the mother agrees to it or she has clear mental or drug issues.

 

[Problematic Pat]

I wonder where the fathers are.

The fathers didn't want the kids. Hoes never listen when dudes tell them that.

 

[The Burger King]

Lol you are still simps.
Saying it's your daughter like suddenly you whore daughter is never responsible for her actions is rich

You mother, daughter, grandmother, aunt, niece, and everyone else picks who they sleep with and need to be accountable for their actions.

Dumb ass simps like you just enable bad decision making by letting them off the hook. Funny how you don't give a damn about your sons though . Y'all have been indoctrinated into accepting and only thinking in a misanderist frame.

No use arguing with him breh. He’s literally in here talking about relationship dynamics from over a century ago, he’s got his head in the sand.

 

[lib123]

The fathers didn't want the kids. Hoes never listen when dudes tell them that.

That could be true but there are situations where bums intentionally knock women up so they have a fallback place to stay.

 

[DA_LURKA]

Ok, I hear you. Now, please also state how you would punish women who are the other 50% of the problem?

Oh see that's different...

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

The one I referenced that had no kids but didn’t use birth control (my ex) used the calendar method and wore a ring that tracked everything. The other chick I referenced no she doesn’t use any methods to prevent pregnancy. The other women as well that I’ve encountered also didn’t use any methods to prevent pregnancy. And these were all educated professionals making great money. The cliche is that bum chicks move like this but that’s just not true.

It’s been eye opening to say the least. My take away is that women just don’t care. Being a single mom isn’t shamed in society and there’s no shortage of men ok with being with a single mom. And most women want a child whether the man is around or not.

Whats the difference between women of other races with lesser rates of having kids out of wedlock?

 

[#1 pick]

fukk her and them kids.

Wow, what did she do to you

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Ok, I hear you. Now, please also state how you would punish women who are the other 50% of the problem?

Is his goal punishment or just making dudes take responsibility for their actions?

Making the parents stay together goes both ways