The people that were dragging her were ugly too. Y'all don't want people to have self esteem cause y'all are trash yourselves. If people stop accepting trash then you'd be out of a job. Shame.
Keep your head up sis, get yourself equally yoked. The Most High knows what you need.
Plus she can lose weight brehs. Or find an African.
Good luck then
Because a lot of Africans aren't fukking with y'all either.. Word to somalia
This shyt is funny to me, because this is what yall say when your approach to AA men get challenged...
"oh yeah, well i can go to ______ men and _____ men and be cool" when they're less likely to meet your unrealistic expectations, are more abusive, and treat their women with even less respect then you think we do.
Yeah, she could loose a hundred pounds... Bet a stack it doesnt happen...
Yeah, she can meet a foreign guy with everything she is requesting... Bet a stack it doesn't happen or better yet lasts because of her mentality.
If it wasn't for her superficial shyt, there would've been less backlash.
But the fact that she shyts on black men that DO have those qualities and is looking for some outside support for her shallow shyt means that she is done. If she does find a nikka, she is settling and most likely to save face.
She could lose a hundred pounds.. But her thought process makes her a bird abd she most likely will end up worse than when this all started.
My self esteem isn't the highest, I can't lie. But even on my worse day I've encountered better