Oh spare me your bull sh*t.
You put "dark as f*ck," in the same line as all the other "negative," traits you listed:
"Single, fat, dark as fukk"
So don't back peddle now,that line alone explains your mind set.I bet you're sitting behind the screen just as dark if not DARKER than this girl.
& Since when does this constitute as "dark as f*ck?"
Is this not a skin tone that is average of a Black person?
& People got the nerve to f*cking question why I have the stance on Black Men that I have.
You are the same men that got the nerve to b*tch about being mistreated by general society BECAUSE of the color of your skin.Y'all really got the audacity to be upset when people judge you by the color of your skin instead of your character.& Then turn around and look down upon & think you're "better than," or "too good," for Black Women whose skin color falls on the darker end of the spectrum.
I understand your frustration, alot of this stems from self hate on both sides, both are equally bad.
I love black women, I married a black women, is she light skin yes, but that was not a factor, I would of happily married my ex who was an probably easily one of the most beautiful women in world and was dark skin and one of the smartest women you'll meet in your life.
Unfortunately we "those" that hate themselves and their kind and gravitate towards anything that opposite of themselves. Including alot guys here on the Coli suffer from colorism, but they'll learn when they catch a rape charge, or when their 40+ an alone and miserable, alot of those that suffer from colorism are athlete and entertainers carried that mindset that light is right, even better if it's white. They might not say it but their actions prove it......the women have a huge problem with this also.
I'm brown skin myself, most of the time when I tried to talk to darker skin women or brown skin women they wanted light skin " Chris brown" type guys......it's far from being a black men problem.
Even with all that said, this girl deserved every bit of criticism for her unrealistic, unattainable, stupid,expectations knowing damn well it ain't happening for HER!!!!