Dr. Narcisse
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I think it's both plus I don't want children.

I think it's both plus I don't want children.
@Elle Driver @Raedawn07 @CinnaSlim @LovelyDay, @Onlooker and all of my fellow Coli ladies all of you are so lovely and nice. There are surely some non-bitter non-idiotic men out there who would be lucky to have you if marriage is the way you want to go. I truly love all of your posts!![]()
people think im a trollHow you get so far in the red?
Your probably attracted to a certain image of black males that are associated with heavily with certain stereotypes that have a conflict of interest in what you want out of life and men. Its funny how many people do this, its like dudes complaining about not being able to find a woman but only like women who look and dress like IG thots or southern pale skinny blonde hair blue eye white women. Yeah you probably can't find a woman if thats what you are trying to hook up with.
this liberal mentality has and will continue to be harmful towards black peopleBlack women should marry whomever they like.
You love who you love.
Because I still like black men,somewhat. And i have black nephews,and I figured the coli is the best example of how a black male SHOULDN'T be.I am trying to teach my nephews how to be great black men.Why are you on a majority black male board then? Go where you are "wanted" and understood.
They're my only choice. I honestly don't see myself dating a white guy but statistically, I have a better chance at finding a white guy who would want to wait before marriage.Brothers are your first choice right? And lets hope it do.
Yeah. I tend like tall,cute nerdy, goofy guys. Guys like, Alfred Enouch from How to get away with murder?
So I've said several times already that I'm never getting married, although my brother told me never to say never.
I explained in one thread more or less what it would take for me to get married. But also I have way too many fears about marriage to want to even put myself through it. So as of this period in time, I do not want marriage. That may change.
With that being said, a black man is at the top of the list. I stopped selling out years ago.
They're my only choice. I honestly don't see myself dating a white guy but statistically, I have a better chance at finding a white guy who would want to wait before marriage.
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this liberal mentality has and will continue to be harmful towards black people
I hope you're not actually Nigerian you fukkin clown
Shut the fuk up,you spineless liberalVery few black women marry out of their race this is a non-issue.
I'm probably not gonna marry. I'm gonna ride motorcycles, do yoga, get tattoos, travel the world and probably settle down somewhere warm, doing locs and natural hair and selling incense, coconut oil and tea out of my natural health food store lol.