Brehettes are single men who are 30+ with no kids or wife a red flag to you?

[Yinny]

No. I get asked a LOT why I don’t have them or am around events where all people talk about is kids and tbf I don’t think I want any. I don’t think that’s a fair projection on someone to ask why they haven’t tied themselves to someone for the rest of their lives and let’s be honest, most kids are unplanned- and I specifically would have to plan mine to make sure they’re healthy.

 

[SupaHotFire]

Women hate and are disgusted by virgins, swagless men and men who dont get attention from other females more than anything else on this Earth

if you 30 and never had a serious relationship to the point you never got engaged or married, guess what her homegirls are gonna be telling her about you?

That’s really all this is about. And honestly women feel uncomfortable around men much younger than that who don’t have experience.

But anyone who actually believes that a 30 year old single dude with his shyt together is worse than a young woman with two kids is an idiot.

 

[NotaPAWG]

a red flag?

that’s what i want lol

not every man wants a child by 30 and there are many men who think beyond a sex session. there are plenty of people who don’t make impulsive sex decisions. and there are plenty of men who waits YEARS to decide to even propose because the person you date at a certain age can become a totally different person years later. dating a girl at 17 is far different than dating her at 27., yes, a women in her mid-late 20s can be a whole new women in her 40s and that’s a risk one has to take, but by late 20s, early 30s you have a general idea of how that women will be 10 years down the road and determining if the risk of her drastically changing is worth it. that can be said for either gender, though.

and there are many men who don’t believe in marriage and honestly, i understand why because the system in terms of divorce is misandrist.

 

[NotaPAWG]

Women hate and are disgusted by virgins, swagless men and men who dont get attention from other females more than anything else on this Earth

if you 30 and never had a serious relationship to the point you never got engaged or married, guess what her homegirls are gonna be telling her about you?

your logic makes zero sense

 

[International Playa]

Im 31, i have had a few pregnancy scares, luckily nothing came from it. I honestly have yet to date a woman I would settle down with. Currently lady Im talking to got potential tho, time will tell.

My homie from work is 34/35, dude impregnated an alcoholic on a one nightstand, years ago. I see him cry every month child support taking his money. He just had another baby with his current gf, things are great for them, but I rather not have his situation.

When I feel I got a great woman, I will have kids. If I dont, Im not having kids. Greatest thing you could give your kids is a good mom.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

As I enter my 30s I have seen it both ways now. I've had women question why I ain't got kids or been married and I've had women who said they are happy there's no baggage/drama so

I'll say this tho. The women who question me, don't cut me off regardless of if it's a flag. Women regardless of what they say aren't fukkin with broke boys after a certain age.

 

[International Playa]

I can see why from a female perspective. If you're not well off and don't have kids then what have you been doing all these years.

Yup thats the red flag. If you got no kids & are not well off, thats loser shyt

 

[SupaHotFire]

your logic makes zero sense

You as a woman don’t agree? Lol I know so many women who are turned off by dudes who don’t have experience. Obviously it’s not all of them.

And I’m no where near 30, I’m talking college age and early-mid twenties women of all races, cept maybe Asian...

I’d imagine this only gets worse as the women get older.

 

[Serious]

I was tryna join that no kids at 30 club. I only made it to 28

How you doing @wire28 , you made it past those dorms at real HU, how's residency going....

I didn't have my first child until I was 32. I got married at 30. My wife is 5 yrs younger.

There's nothing wrong with it, but ....
If you're 30 ish and still going out every weekend, always everywhere, doing everything. You start looking a lil funny to some women.

You wait to late and you turn into 37 yr old that hangs with people 8 yrs younger than him because all your friends have got married and started having kids.

If you're playing the long game you better
A. Live in a large metro area
B stay in shape
C ge financially stable

Got all 3, still aint 30 yet.

 

[Serious]

your logic makes zero sense

Nah there's legit women who resent inexperienced dudes...

 

[DaRealness]

Shaming tactics will never work on me so these old ass dumb struggling broads can take that 'red flag' b.s. elsewhere. I've been married before, but this old chick 10 years my senior wanna come tell me it's "strange" someone my age doesn't have kids....meanwhile she's never been married, still not in a relationships and her kids are by different men lol. FOH.

 

[NotaPAWG]

You as a woman don’t agree? Lol I know so many women who are turned off by dudes who don’t have experience. Obviously it’s not all of them.

And I’m no where near 30, I’m talking college age and early-mid twenties women of all races, cept maybe Asian...

I’d imagine this only gets worse as the women get older.

not in the least. i’ve hooked up with and met plenty of men in their late 20s and early 30s who’ve only been in 1 or 2 long term relationships, never been engaged etc who i was extremely attracted to. there’s are tons of men, especially these days who don’t even believe in marriage who think the pros arent worth the risk and the cons. there’s plenty of men who don’t want to raise children in this world and prefer to practice ethical egoism.

you take two people in their mid 20s who get married, say by 30 the women falls out of love etc, the repercussions of that is going to to financially hurt the male more, esp if the women is seeking material goods after.

now here’s another situation, my father is about to retire in a few years, if him and my mother divorced she would be entitled to a pretty great percentage of his pension. his pension is much larger than her 401k.

edit: i’ll even go on to say this

your average person works to live so hopefully they can retire at decent age and live somewhat comfortabley. throwing marriage into that mix is a huge risk. i’m realistic about the fact people change, feelings fade. why should any person compromise their lively hood and future ability to be able to support themselves especially when they worked very hard to even get to that point to appeal to another persons feelings, especially when feelings aren’t concrete?

 

[Jone2three45]

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[Lord_nikon]

Turn a man down that gets full checks brehettes

 

[Serious]

I am 39 with no kids and only married once...also live alone.

Most women give me the then the when I told them I didn't have any kids and single. I got turned down quite a bit for not having a degree.

I think not having a degree made more women turn away from me rather than finding out I had no kids but this is just me.But only one woman I ever was with actually knew the reason why I decided against having kids so for me I was better off taking that choice into my own hands.

If only these women knew your situation as an entrepreneur

That degree requirement wouldnt mean shyt