FeverPitch2
Superstar
When Drake dropped "Nice For What", I was like
Most of my exes were pleasant women to deal with. I vetted them for that before dating them seriously.
I've noticed that some women are generally hostile towards their suitors or significant others.
I've also noticed that some women are sweet as pie when they're trying to get chose but once they do, things change.
I was dating this chick and one day, she talked to me in my house like she was my mama.
I checked her immediately. Firmly, but calmly.
She asked "what's wrong with what I said?"
I said " Nothing, but you coulda been nice about it."
She said "and kiss your ass?"
Clearly, we had to get deeper into it at that point.
The fact that she thought being pleasant to the man who she couldn't bear to be away from was equivalent to "kissing his ass" was very telling.
We aint last much longer. And she was sick about it.
But I digress.
A LOT of women dont get chose because they're unpleasant, combative, pathological complainers, or they're just downright mean.
Otherwise, they'd be wifed up.
I said that women tend to think in extremes.
For some women I think being nice to man registers in their mind as being weak, a doormat, or overly submissive.
Brehettes:
Is being nice to your man hard for you?
Is it a challenge to bring down the guard you use for the rest of the world with your man?
Do you feel like if you're nice to him, he will see that as weakness and try to dominate you?
Most of my exes were pleasant women to deal with. I vetted them for that before dating them seriously.
I've noticed that some women are generally hostile towards their suitors or significant others.
I've also noticed that some women are sweet as pie when they're trying to get chose but once they do, things change.
I was dating this chick and one day, she talked to me in my house like she was my mama.
I checked her immediately. Firmly, but calmly.
She asked "what's wrong with what I said?"
I said " Nothing, but you coulda been nice about it."
She said "and kiss your ass?"
Clearly, we had to get deeper into it at that point.
The fact that she thought being pleasant to the man who she couldn't bear to be away from was equivalent to "kissing his ass" was very telling.
We aint last much longer. And she was sick about it.
But I digress.
A LOT of women dont get chose because they're unpleasant, combative, pathological complainers, or they're just downright mean.
Otherwise, they'd be wifed up.
I said that women tend to think in extremes.
For some women I think being nice to man registers in their mind as being weak, a doormat, or overly submissive.
Brehettes:
Is being nice to your man hard for you?
Is it a challenge to bring down the guard you use for the rest of the world with your man?
Do you feel like if you're nice to him, he will see that as weakness and try to dominate you?
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