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Brehettes: Are you nice to your man?
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Peachstate
Lady
Of course. It's the LEAST you can do as a woman, especially if you date black men. He goes out and works hard every day in a hostile world; why would he want to come home to more hostility?
My husband likes a little bit of feistiness in the right context, but never disrespect or meanness.
My husband likes a little bit of feistiness in the right context, but never disrespect or meanness.
Studious one
Change names, like change clothes; stay a fly girl
Yes. I mean, why would I want to be an a$$hole to him. I don’t think it takes anything away from me to be sweet. I know some women take that as a weakness, but I’m sure of myself. I don’t have to be combative, it gets us nowhere.
Your reading comprehension is shot...
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
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im going back in september
keep getting hypertension dealing with these western women brehs
Patrick Kane
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Something very underrated when it comes to dating and easily often overlooked.
A lot of women have this problem too and can't seem to understand what is wrong with them even if they check every other box and are fine as HELL.
They also think well other people perceive me as "nice" so in their mind, they couldn't possibly be mean or combative as a person.
But it's different with your significant other. The special person YOU choose to be with. But like OP said, a lot of women will view being nice like that as being a push over or submissive to their man so they limit it once in a relationship. I've had to stop dealing with women for this very reason
A lot of women have this problem too and can't seem to understand what is wrong with them even if they check every other box and are fine as HELL.
They also think well other people perceive me as "nice" so in their mind, they couldn't possibly be mean or combative as a person.
But it's different with your significant other. The special person YOU choose to be with. But like OP said, a lot of women will view being nice like that as being a push over or submissive to their man so they limit it once in a relationship. I've had to stop dealing with women for this very reason
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Um ok 2012 poster. My reading comprehension is shot.
Since there's no brehettes in this thread why don't you post about whether or not the lady/ladies in your real life are nice.
And five finger Molly is excluded.
Idk what my join date gotta do with anything... And my opinion doesn't matter since the thread is addressed to women... But I'll be your huckleberry... In my experience they start off nice but end up not being nice at all...>>>>
Joined May 8, 2012 Messages 5,414 Reputation 1,344
Um ok 2012 poster. My reading comprehension is shot.
Since there's no brehettes in this thread why don't you post about whether or not the lady/ladies in your real life are nice.
And five finger Molly is excluded.
FeverPitch2
Superstar
Now see.....
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
I want my woman to be nice to me and mean to the rest of y'all nxggas.
FeverPitch2
Superstar
^^wifed up^^
The Fade
I don’t argue with niqqas on the Internet anymore
I hate mean bytches. Don’t care how good you look, don’t care about your credentials. If people don’t like you I don’t like you
I think black men like banter and teasing, but that mean hoe shyt
I think black men like banter and teasing, but that mean hoe shyt
FeverPitch2
Superstar
I can understand this.
Women learn early on that they gotta watch themselves for threats large and small.
Having your very survival depend on not being food can be a mask you may forget that you can take off.
I’m the nicest to my husband because I love him as a person and he loves me for me.
We don’t even really argue like
To be honest, in real life, I’ve never really dealt with a$$holes because I’ll flip the hell out on somebody and that’s such bad energy to live in. It’s only dudes online trying to be internet edgy that take me there. In real life, I don’t roll in circles of men who hate women, always referring to chicks as bytches every other word, always bytching about women and listening to low vibrational podcasts, pimping, macking, ect. I try to avoid people who take me there because who wants to be in that space 24/7.
We have disagreements over stuff like him thinking he has to do everything and not sharing burdens because of his interpretation of manhood as being = stoic.
I made him snort from laughing so hard one time and I swear he didn’t talk to me for a whole day.
I’m goofy as hell and he comes off as being very big and scary, but I drag the goof troop outta that him kicking and screaming. We get too distracted by crazy shyt we do to be sitting around mad all day.
This weekend we literally bought some compound bows and we’re gonna do archery classes. Last week, we went to try and get through an escape room. shyt was hilarious. Cooked out with our neighbors. Played monopoly. Got toasted off some natural tings. Was giggling uncontrollably for hours. And this weekend we driving to the beach to do a bonfire after testing out the bows.
He complains that I don’t know how to sit down somewhere but he be coming with me on our lil adventures and loves them once he stops grumbling. Had him in the middle
of the ocean talking to turtles and shyt. It’s chill in our house.
When women choose men who aren’t nasty, mean or insecure, they don’t have to fight for their lives everyday. It also helps that we are both adults who pick up behind ourselves and enjoy cooking and cleaning. A lot of women harbor a lot of resentment towards men who want them to take extra time out of their day doing that type of shyt, while they don’t do anything. When you actually have an equal, it’s less stressful. Both of you get time to play and enjoy yourselves, instead of one person feeling like the help so the other can feel like the leader.
We don’t even really argue like
To be honest, in real life, I’ve never really dealt with a$$holes because I’ll flip the hell out on somebody and that’s such bad energy to live in. It’s only dudes online trying to be internet edgy that take me there. In real life, I don’t roll in circles of men who hate women, always referring to chicks as bytches every other word, always bytching about women and listening to low vibrational podcasts, pimping, macking, ect. I try to avoid people who take me there because who wants to be in that space 24/7.
We have disagreements over stuff like him thinking he has to do everything and not sharing burdens because of his interpretation of manhood as being = stoic.
I made him snort from laughing so hard one time and I swear he didn’t talk to me for a whole day.
I’m goofy as hell and he comes off as being very big and scary, but I drag the goof troop outta that him kicking and screaming. We get too distracted by crazy shyt we do to be sitting around mad all day.
This weekend we literally bought some compound bows and we’re gonna do archery classes. Last week, we went to try and get through an escape room. shyt was hilarious. Cooked out with our neighbors. Played monopoly. Got toasted off some natural tings. Was giggling uncontrollably for hours. And this weekend we driving to the beach to do a bonfire after testing out the bows.
He complains that I don’t know how to sit down somewhere but he be coming with me on our lil adventures and loves them once he stops grumbling. Had him in the middle
of the ocean talking to turtles and shyt. It’s chill in our house.
When women choose men who aren’t nasty, mean or insecure, they don’t have to fight for their lives everyday.
It also helps that we are both adults who pick up behind ourselves and enjoy cooking and cleaning. A lot of women harbor a lot of resentment towards men who want them to take extra time out of their day doing that type of shyt, while they don’t do anything. When you actually have an equal, it’s less stressful. Both of you get time to play and enjoy yourselves, instead of one person feeling like the help so the other can feel like the leader.